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    • MrsAndrew2B
      CommentAuthorMrsAndrew2B
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    Well as I the title says, it's only 19 days now and I'm so so scared! I'm scared of most things on the day, walking out of my mums and everyone watching me, walking down the aisle, people watching me outside the registry office, the first dance I'm terrified about. We also have a topless car which I'm really regretting now as people are obviously going to stare. I'm vibrantly worrying about it all. Any advice on how to stay calm before and on the day? Xxx
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    • millz090
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    Just think of the end result, you will be married at the end and all the months of planning will have paid off.

    It is a scary thought and panics me but you cant think like that... people will stare at you but not in a bad way, in a good way and they will be happy for you and thinking 'wow, she is beautiful' so just smile and enjoy xxx

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    • MrsBroady2B
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    I take it them your worried about that fact the all eyes will be on you and you will be the centre of attention. I have a year left and that is exactly the same as I feel. I'm so worried about everyone looking at me. I hate when I walk down the street and I feel everyone is looking at me. I start thinking 'is me hair a mess?', 'have I got something on face?' all sorts. I get really paranoid!!! And really no one is looking at me really. I plan on having a few small drinks in the morn to just help me calm down a bit I think. No too much though as I don't want to be a tipsy. I'm already bad enough as it is!!! LOL xxx




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    • MrsAndrew2B
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    Yeah I hate attention. It'll be impossible to blend in with everyone else lol. I think a few small drinks (or a few big ones!) might be a good idea x
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    • mrs-anni-oc
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    i know how you feel, i have 11 days to get over my fear... i have an eating disorder and due to this have a problem eating in public. it is gonna be really hard and everyone will be focused on me to make it worse but im gonna give it my all. i like the idea of a few drinks to help with the nerves think i will try 1 or 3 myself lol x

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    • ~feebee~
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    I'm not looking forward to getting out of the car at the registry office because it's in the town centre! I'm not looking forward to saying my vows in front of our guests but I have got married before and did fine. I think I'll just ignore everyone and get on with it after all it's a happy occasion and everyone's happy for you. Other parts I will love or I won't mind, sitting at the top table like a queen, the first dance. Im funny like that, I can't wait to be spoilt all day long lol. I have a hearing problem so that worries me incase I can't hear people, it makes me very quiet and then when I feel secure I'm very sociable and very 'look at meeeee'! lol. :/

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    • roberta90
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    I am the same as you MrsAndrew2B, i am wittering about all of that already and i have over a year to go!! arrrgghh!!
    xx
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    • almost a year wife!!
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    good brekkie on the morn, a LITTLE celebratory drink, hold your head up high and say a little mantra over and over something like;
    "i deserve this day, i look beautiful, im worth looking at" relax go with the flow and most of all enjoy! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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    • roberta90
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    lol! i'll remember that
    "i deserve this day, i look beautiful, im worth looking at"

    x
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    • Ha_x3
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    You will be fine hun, honestly. Its completely natural.
    The morning of my wedding i thought i was about to be physically sick, but once i got there i was asoloutly fine & you will be too xx

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    • FernP61
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    its only natural to be nervous hun but i bet as soon as you wake up on the day you will be loving every moment xx
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    • Sammi_with_camera
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    I am planning on getting a little relaxation download for my phone, its like a mini hypnotherapy session and they can be great to help you sleep/ clam nerves or boost confidence.
    I know I will be a bundle of nerves and wont be able to sleep the night before!
    xx
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    • madhen
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    @ lilmisschuckles I'll remember that one!
 

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