hello girls i started planning my wedding 2 weeks ago for june 30th 2012 but now ive been to a wedding fayre im confused stressed and nervous! i was asked where im getting married :- its my family church then the local workingmans club where i was working where i met my h2b the woman looked at me in total discust like im a chav!!!! is the style wedding im planning chav? should i change it to please mum and dad and other posh people? s hould i follow my heart and do whats right for me and my own family? i have 4 kids and work part time i cant afford to put on a 4 course meal give canapes champaine to strangers who call themselves my aunts and uncles can i? i want people to say wow what a great day does it really have to cost the earth? im starting to feel like i should cancel an go to gretna green with no family or friends just me h2b an 4 lil 1 ce
ahhh feeelll so much beta problem shared problem halfed!!!
CommentAuthorluvlifejen (mrs berr
hunnie my god dont even pay attention to ppl!! she should never have looked at you like that cheeky cow!
you have chosen the venue based on something important you found your h2b there!!! i think its lovely who cares where it is! dont change anything unless YOU want to xx
soon to be Mrs Berry 26.11.2011
CommentAuthorsarahuttley2b-[keera
oh,its your day and as long as your happy with what u chose then thats all that matters.people think they can tell u what to do and how things should be when it comes to weddings,but if you change things to suit them it wont be YOUR day it will be what they want/expect.bu***r them and make you and your h2b happy and av ur day how u want it.xx
i sarah louise duncan do take thee daniel paul uttley to be
my AWFULL wedded husband!!!!!!!!!!!!!lol
my heart is overwellmed with the love i feel for him,
my life,my love,my soulmate...forever.xxx
CommentAuthorsarahuttley2b-[keera
oh and welcome!!!!
i sarah louise duncan do take thee daniel paul uttley to be
my AWFULL wedded husband!!!!!!!!!!!!!lol
my heart is overwellmed with the love i feel for him,
my life,my love,my soulmate...forever.xxx
CommentAuthorUnknown
do what you and your h2b want. i always found that wedding fayres were for people with a lot of money to spend on their wedding to be honest. they are brilliant for getting ideas but i havnt used a single supplier from any of the fayres i went to! xx
i sarah louise duncan do take thee daniel paul uttley to be
my AWFULL wedded husband!!!!!!!!!!!!!lol
my heart is overwellmed with the love i feel for him,
my life,my love,my soulmate...forever.xxx
CommentAuthorluvlifejen (mrs berr
me either mrsbarker been gr8 looking at stuff though haha x
soon to be Mrs Berry 26.11.2011
CommentAuthorMel D
Welcome to the site :-)
You shoudl do what you want to hun, it's your day. Don't be forced into doing something that you don't want to or you'll look back and regret it xx
Got married Sat 28/05/2011
Renewing vows Sat 29/05/2021
We're planning WELL in advance!!
CommentAuthorlollilou
Do whatever will make you feel happy and comfortable. The best bit of any wedding is when the bride and groom look really happy.
CommentAuthorsarahwasabride
have ur wedding the way u want! cant believe how rude that woman was! xx
CommentAuthorricky
Have the wedding that makes you happy...getting married is about two people and all the rest are just add ons. I don't see the point in spending loads and loads of money you can ill afford just to make other people happy. Stick to it being YOUR wedding. You don't need to spend the earth to have a fabulous day. Our wedding cost 2K and it was brilliant xxxxxx
CommentAuthorhlaraine1
we have a tiny budget for our wedding and have chosen the registry office for our service and a sports and social club for an evening do. its your special day have what you want and know you can afford. these people try to make you feel you have to have it all when really you dont. its all about you and your H2B making those special vows to each other. just use the ideas you see and source them out for a better price if its something you would like
CommentAuthorkrisw86
ok louise, i know how u feel. our wedding is in the church that h2b was baptized in and then we going into the working mens club next to it for the reception. we have a low budget and i dont care any more what people think. its not where u get married and celebrate, its doing it for the right reasons and around those who truly care and love you. screw that bitch, she had no right looking down her nose at you! have the wedding u want, in the way u want. if people really care about how much u spent on it and where u have it, then they arent really worth knowing tbh. hope all works for u in the end xx
CommentAuthorLittle Kettle
Awww, I'm sorry you had such a horrible experience at this wedding fare! They're real so and so's for trying to make you feel as though what you're doing isn't good enough. And then there' friends/family that can make you feel that way too (don't get me started on that LOL)! Hun, it's your day and your way (a phrase you'll see a lot on this site) so by all means go to the fairs, but use them for inspriation and getting ideas and as hlaraine1 said, then go find them online/elsewhere for waaaaay cheaper! You're day will be wonderful, whether you have it at the Hilton or in your own home because it's your day and it's about you, both of you, being united on that day. Hx
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CommentAuthorJilly17
What an awful woman to make you feel that way! Have the wedding exactly the way you want it as there is nothing chavvy at all!!! I did a wedding years ago where they literally spent a fortune but it was sooo gaudy and OTT it was the most chavtastic thing I had ever seen! ha ha. Mind you at a wedding fair someone asked if I was the bride just because I was in a wheelchair!!! Needless to say she wouldnt be getting any business from me!!!
CommentAuthorx~Hails~x
No no no no do what YOU and H2B want, where you want, with who you want to be there and DONT listen to anyone else! At the end of the day its YOUR wedding day not theres so listen to YOU AND H2B and noone else
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CommentAuthorLittle Kettle
Jilly17 - that's funny - that happened to me at the NEC wedding show in March! I had fallen off my bike 3 weeks before the show and decided I couldn't face it on crutches so hired a mobility scooter. the number of stalls that blanked me was amazing! Oh, but my SiL to be (only 7 yrs older than me) got asked if she was my mum, which she was not amused at! lOL!
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CommentAuthorMina
Your wedding is about how you two want to celebrate your love for each other so screw them; if your idea is what makes you happiest, then stick to it; you're always going to have critics of some description but at the end of the day it's about you and your h2b not anyone else
CommentAuthorKylee27
What a snotty c*w! We're doing the same as you Louise, parish church where i grew up and the Working Mens Club round the corner after. I can't wait!
I would use recommendations from friends and family and suppliers from here maybe. I've been to one of those wedding fayres and won't be hurrying back to any more!
Can't wait to be married!
CommentAuthorClareS
awww Don't be upset by that horrible woman! You're off to a good start with booking a date and venues that mena something to you and your h2b. It's your wedding, do it your way. Must admit I've been to a few eedding fayres but I've not booked anything from them! I've taken one or two of their ideas and then bought the stuff off ebay - just as good and far cheaper! enjoy your planning and welcome to the site :) it's soooo addictive x
