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    • ljeh92
      CommentAuthorljeh92
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    After xmas last year, me and h2b were told that it was ulikely we would be able to concieve. We have been trying quite a bit these past few months hoping for a miracle. Anyway i was due on friday but still havnt come on, i have no pains or anything which i normally do when im due on, i have been so happy over the weekend praying i was pregnant and getting my hopes up but this morning i have awful period pains so i must just be late :(

    Im so gutted, i wish i never thought about it too much. Im so upset that im not pregnant!! I got my hopes up too much! Ah well suppose i better keep trying and keep on hoping for a miracle..

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    • Unknown
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    have you actually come on yet?

    just keep trying but try not to stress over it! xx




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    • x ashlil x
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    ah bless ya hun, it will happen when its meant to, dont try for a baby just have fun, they say its more likely to happen that way xx
    big hugs for you xx
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    • melvis
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    :( oh babe keep strong... thinking of you xxx

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    • Steffie
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    awww babe! well it obviously wasn't right this time!!! it doesnt mean it wont be right the next time!!!

    my friend was told in 2007 she couldnt conceive naturally, she's now got a 6 month little miracle! it just shows you although the docs know a lot, they don't know everything!!! xxxx

    keep trying babe!
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    • ljeh92
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    No i havnt come on yet but i have the pains i normally get when im going to :( xx

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    • Mrs (Dove) Pidgeon
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    Don't give up hope. Test.

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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    ljeh why r u unlikely to concieve?? onyl askin cos i got a really gud thing to tell u.... my mate was tryin to 5 years to get pregnant, had all test etc, ( was under the consultant) she had these hormone tablets for only a month and now she is 3 month ish pregnant!!!! if only they had given her the tablets 5 years ago!!

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    • ljeh92
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    it isnt me its h2b. Hes diabetic and has been for 18 years which affects it a little but not that much. But also he has ED so that really doesnt help and affects the situation so much more!! The doctor said its very doubtful it can happen naturally and we may have to think about IVF if nothing happened after a year or so :(

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    • Unknown
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    dont give up hope. i know people that were told they would never concieve and they have! dont put too much pressure on yourselves! xx




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    • leafy
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    dont give up hun. my aunt & uncle were told they would never concieve naturally they had 3 children through IVF and a year after the twins were born my aunt fell pregnant naturally and after william was born she fell pregnant again with issac , it was as if cause there was no stress she was able to conceive naturally, try to relax hun xx

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    • Katya
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    a woman i known since i was tiny is now in her 40's she has never had a period in her life, was told she would never have kids. she has 3 and still has never had a period.

    me and dean were using every precaution not to get pregnant except celibacy and yet i got pregnant 3 times, one i lost, my eldest was a triplet and only he survived and so i now have 2 gorgeous boys.

    if you try for one you are putting pressure on yourselves to perform, just try having fun. i suggest experimenting a bit, tease him loads get him really wound up then penetrative fun. the more fun you have the less pressure and stress you are under to perform. therefore he may produce more fluids purely because hes not under stress and may not shoot as many blanks.

    get some new lingerie and wear just that round the house one night, then make him wait for it! winds my dean up a treat only i cant do that atm as my cousin visiting from usa :-(

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    • bride to b
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    I had my normal signs that my period was going to start but it never did I am now 5 months pregnant. Never thought I would b able to get pregnant again after having a mc in 2005 everyone was amazed when I told them.
    If its meant to b it will happen for you. Sending u best wishes.x
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    • ljeh92
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    Not happened yet, pains calmed down a bit.. omg fingers crossed!!!!!!

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    • Unknown
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    i'll keep my fingers crossed for you! xx




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    • MrsPrestleton2be
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    just to let u know hun u do still get the cramps when ur pregnant. have u done a home pregnancy test? good luck and fingers crossed for u xx

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    • Unknown
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    i have just read your post again. you were due on friday... are your periods normally regular. if they are i would do a test today as you are 4 days late! xx




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    • Emsy5000
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    why don't you go and get a test? that way you will know either way why don't you go and see the nurce or a doctor and that way you will have someone there to discus options either way!

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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    but she says she has sum 'pregnancy' lef tin the womb? it will cum up positive if there is! similar happened to me , my womb faces wrong way

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    • nicksy
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    Yes hun you can still get period type pains when you are pregnant so you never know I would try a test too but don't buy a cheapo one as they are no good. Let us know. Fingers Crossed! :)

    xxx
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    • luvlifejen (mrs berr
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    big hugs hun xxx

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    • ljeh92
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    yeah i was due on friday but since i came off the pill in december they have never been regular.. i have a test on me but im so scared of seeing the negative and its not a very good test, think it was £6 for 2 and i used one already last year.. If i havnt come on by the morning i will do a test then cos they say its more likely to pick something up in a morning..?

    SO NERVOUS!! I cant think of anything else right now!

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    • Rhiannonollie
      CommentAuthorRhiannonollie
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    Relax and dont stress as unfortunetly the stress could be the reason youre missing the period.
    do a test asap because its better than causing you this excitement and worry.

    Go to the doctor as they will be able to do something more accurate and for free. so even if the test comes back negative tomorrow still go to the doctor to check (if your period hasnt started) because sometimes tests can be wrong (especially if you think they arent very good ones)

    good luck and I hope you get the result that you want. but try not to beat yourself up too much if it not what you want to hear.

    Hugs!!

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    • Unknown
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    a cheap test will still show a pregnancy. when i found out i was pregnant last aug i used a cheap test that i had had for a while and the line was really faint but def a line so i went and got a digital one and i was 6 weeks pregnant!

    morning urine does have more of the hormone so it is more likely to show then if you are very early on but most tests you can test any time of day.

    Good luck and keep us updated! xx




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    • Amy112
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    Aww, I feel for you right now playing the waiting game.
    If I were you i'd do a test now, then go to docs first thing in morning. U won't sleep tonight otherwise.

    I'll be keeping my fingers crossed for you xx
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    • ljeh92
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    Right i'm going to look for that test and im gonna do it cos i need a wee...
    will let you know when im back!

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    • Unknown
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    got my fingers crossed for you!! xx




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    • Rhiannonollie
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    • Amy112
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    Oooh please let it be!! xx
    If its not don't panic, u only came off the pill in December so it's still very early...

    xx
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    • kisseymad1
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    Fingers crossed for you xx
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    • ljeh92
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    One dark line.... :(

    i'm not pregnant.

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    • Rhiannonollie
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    oh sorry hun!!

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    • Unknown
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    im really sorry. if you dont come on in the next few days do another test! xx




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    • Amy112
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    Oh really sorry :-(
    But agree with MrsBakertobe, go to docs if you're not on by Thursday! x
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    • ~*~ Becca ~*~
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    awww hun big hugs **Squeeeeeeeeeze**

    i know how your feeling..i suffer from polycystic ovary syndrome which is making concieving a hell of a nightmare to happen..and cause im overweight it doesnt help but im tryin to lose a bit at a time but weight gain is a side effect of the condition grrr seems i cant do anything right

    found out a hour or so ago that my husband's cousin is preg...and as harsh as this is goin to sound..im jealous...i urn for another baby so badly ...yes i should be grateful i have one wee great wee lad who's 3 but i just want one more..wnat to experience pregnancy again! (

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    • ljeh92
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    Yeah! My MOH is pregnant and due in May, my auntie is also due in May and my daughters dads girlfriend is due next month :(

    Thanks for all your kind words and for keeping you fingers crossed for me! It just wasnt meant for me this time, keeping my fingers crossed for the future.. I'm just lucky i have my little girl.. I will prob come on tomorrow if not i am at the docs on thurs so will ask for another pregnancy test then xx

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    • nicksy
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    Awww Im really sorry hun I had a miscarriage last year I know it's so hard and I know it's hard not to feel jealous of others who are pregnant too I will be trying again after my wedding so fingers crossed for us all! *BIG HUG* xxx
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    • clareabella
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    WELL i know how u feel we have been trying 4 3 years and the other day infact friday i saw a a physic and stright away she told me there a baby girl waiting to be born and the baby will be born b 4 i get married i was like yeh right just wait and see wont i but i didnt even say nothing to her she dont know me at all or anything about my life but she said it we will see if it happens

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    • nicksy
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    Awww fingers crossed for you Clareabella!!!

    xxx
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    • clareabella
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    i know she just come stright out with it i was gob smacked and i cried and she said shes a beautiful baby and she wont be your only one and she is much wanted i was like how do u know all this we will see what happens its exciting

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    • ljeh92
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    Aww wow that's lovely! Fingers crossed for you! I wanna see one of them!

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    • sarahuttley2b-[keera
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    dont give up hope u get period like cramps in early pregnancy and it might be too soon 4 a test to pick up.xx

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    • suzky123
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    girl i worked with went through IVF and never looked back
    took her years to get pregnant but it worked and she has a very healthy 12 year old whom I happen to teach. It will happen one way or the other

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