Have just read this. Oh my!!
How can someone be so hurtful!? Especially if she has had chances to talk to you like at the dress shopping!

So with you on firing her!! You so do not need anyone like that. If she is like this now, what would she be like on the day!?

LOL

Omg she sounds awful hun, makes me angry just reading it so have no idea how it must be making you feel! Totally love the idea of turning up at the meeting and doing a sir alan sugar on her telling her she's fired, the look on her face will be priceless! She doesn't deserve a great person like you and it's her that's lost a great friendship, she'll soon regret sending that email xxx

aww thanks MrsMorgan2B and your right, the look on her face will be priceless lol x

Got this thread bookmarked for the updates LOL

LOL, yes it is xx

Yeah, Wednesday is D day so to speak xx

Roll on Wednesday - will be tuned in for updates lol

Also December - us mums don't tell you girlies that we hate your friends or they cant be trusted or whatever.. because it is the quickest way to make our girls think that friend is their Best Friend for Life ;-) We just sit back, wait.. and sadly pick up the pieces x

Haha!


Very best of luck. Just be level-headed about it, and get your point across, :-)
P.S. They brought it forward by a day then?

It's Tuesday! We've all booked our seats for Wednesday lol

...Not that we're vindictive or anything LOL ;-)

just had to check my phone to make sure it was Tuesday lol, if they have moved it forward good luck for tonight x

Just read your original post.

I agree the way she went about it wrong but at the end of the day, it's your wedding and if you expect them to be dolled up etc, then you should pay for it.

My BMs and MOH wanted to do their own make up and hair and i paid for their dresses, bouquets, jewellery, etc etc. I would not expect them to pay for something I am asking them to do for me. That said, if you are offering them their money back if they don't like it then I cant see their issue, unless the whole thing is going to be quite expensive - Say another 40 on top if they want to go with it 80 is a whopping price for just make up

I personally think £40 for a trial is quite costly when my trial, make up on the day and my nails cost me £50. But I did have it done by a friend who is a beautician.

good luck!!!!!

Should be kicking off about now :-))))

It's done xx

tell tell tell....

When I walked into the living room and she saw it was me, her jaw hit the floor. So I said, "Oh wow you're all here, you must be planning my hen do then?" There was no reply, so I said, "Or could you be discussing the, oh how was it put, Gimme a second my Crazy Bride mind makes me forgetful at time..." at this point I pulled out her email and read the line. This when she said, "well I may have said it but we all think it!!"
"Oh really is that so" I said, "Now girls please be truthful with me because now is the time, does anyone else have a problem with any of the plans I've made about my wedding?" She then had the balls to say, "see this is your problem, you think it's all about YOU and what YOU want but it's not, this ain't your world you know, some girls get engaged and start the think the whole world revolves around them". Lisa, bless her then stood up and said "It's her wedding, it IS all about her, and if you don't like it then you should just **** off".
Before she had a chance to say another word I just said "Look I didnt come here to disgrace myself or lower myself to depths of which you dwell in, I just came here to tell you that we are done, I don't want you at my wedding I don't want you in my life, go **** yourself you backstabbing, conniving, evil cow. This is why you cant keep a man and why you will never get married you have an ugly soul and I feel so sorry for you because today, you have lost the best friend you ever had".....I crumpled up her email and threw it in her face, then put the letter on the table and turned on my heels and left with all my other BM's in toe. I burst into tears in the car park my girlies soon had me smiling again xx

She was saying, "well I was gonna end our friendship anyway, you think your all that blah blah blah" and how my marriage isn't gonna last, and how she's sorry for Olly blah blah blah. It took every cell in my body not to smack her down but I'm glad I didn't xx

Good for u! Bet u feel better!

I do, I feel much better like a weight has been lifted...although it kinda has LOL xx

Mine, all of them where on myside xx

Yes, indeed. She's not only lost you as a friend, but also your bmx and MOH

Absoloutley! Well done!

I am, thanks everybody xx