At the start of my engagement i got myself into a pickle i had ask both my sister and my best friend to be maid of honor, how it happend i dont acctually know, anyway my best friend is so understanding so i told her about it and she was more than happy to step back and let my sister be moh, (even though i felt terrible)
There is a wedding fayr on suday that i REALY wanted to go to and i ask my bf if she wanted to go but forgot she is a die hard rangers fan and there is a game on sunday, so asked my sister who was very reluctent the way she has been about the WHOLE weddding, but anyway agreed.
Now due to circumstance, we are now both without a car, although i now have one but it is in my h2b garage getting sorted, now behind my back my sister said to h2b "when do you think the car will be ready" my h2b replied, prob not till Monday, my sisters reply "oh thank god for that, that means i dont need to go to that stupid wedding fayre with her" now did she think she was so special to my h2b that he wouldnt tell me what she had said i was LIVID!!!
Now i dont even know why i asked her to be bridesmaid never mind MOH, she has never shown any interest in the wedding at all, but my best friend on the other hand has, we both get exctied when i show her things such as dresses, flowers cakes invitations etc. and last week she got a bit emotional and asked me if it was ok if she done a reading or just a wee speach as the two of us have been through a lot together. i told her i would love that and the two of us were crying and very emotional lol.
im not on here to dis my sister because we are normally very close, although when things are going good for me she is always in the background with wee snidy remarks dont know if its jealousy or not but i would just love it if she was as interested as my bf even my other bridesmaid (h2b sister) is showing more interest.
woooooffft glad i got that of my chest soz for the major rant. xxxx
future Mrs Cole
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CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
babe u dint have to pick between then u cud of had both of them moh, i have my sister as moh and my best friend as chief bridesmaid, my mate is signin book sister sitting on top table. both of them came to a few weddin fayres wiv me but they say no more now cos i booked everything but i still wanan go lol i wud go alone lass!! i have been alone b4
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Honeymoon To Jamaica 14th October 2012
CommentAuthorweemindyxx
God i never thought of that, that would have saved me a lot of sleepless nights i would go alone but my car wont be ready till monday, :( the wedding fayre want to go to is being held by the company who are doing my chair covers and centre pieces i going to try and get a lift though.xx
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CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
lol bless u , yes get a lift or taxi lass lol
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Hen Do Newcastle 2nd June 2012
Marrying the man of my dreams 11th August 2012!
Honeymoon To Jamaica 14th October 2012
CommentAuthorMrsKisywisy
i think you should give them both MOH status :) if you are normally close to your sister but she's not as into wedding as your best friend, it would be the best solution
is there any way you can train or bus it??
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there is a bus that runs every 2 hours i will need to find out bus time though lol, im calm now had a word with bf about her she said if it wasnt for the game she would defo be there, on a brighter not im going out tonight to hear a possible band for the wedding so that has cheered me up lol, one of the band members went to school with my brother and said he would give us a discount, woooohoooo a chance to wear my leopard print maxi again hahaha.xxx
future Mrs Cole
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Joining together in lives journey.
CommentAuthorWifey2be
oh hun thats horrible!! hugs for you!! x xx
CommentAuthorchubblywubbly
im the same hun..my bf is MOH and my sister cheif bridesmaid but she hates it when im doing more things with bf and says snide remarks to people bout the wedding but when its just me and her she couldnt be happier talking about it!!
im also going to a wedding fayre on sunday coz the person supplying my chair covers is doing it!! xx
CommentAuthorjadem
:-( i know exactly what your going through my sister is also MOH and made no effort at all, sick of her, she wants to be involved but wont make any effort at all!! hope you get this sorted soon xxx J xxx
