I am so excited we have just booked our wedding date and managed to get the date we wanted !! Have to pay the deposit next week but my sister is being very annoying

She has always been very attention seeking but I didnt think she would be like this for my wedding! For some reason she likes all the attention on her so if something is happening in my life it has to happen in hers or she has to be bad ... We have told her we are having a wedding with a meal etc and she has turned around and said "Well i wont be eating mine i dont eat in public" ... I think she should just turn up and eat her FREE meal since we are paying for the wedding instead of complaining and playing up on her fake illness !

iv mentioned it to my mam but she just seems to want to ignore the fact that this is going to put me in a bad mood on my wedding day, she doesnt want to get between me and my sister basically. My sister has also been complaining about being my maid of honor, she doesnt like wearing dresses or people staring at her so have decided she isnt even going to be in the wedding just turn up as a guest because as i see it all eyes will be on me and my other half not her !

i dont know what to do the wedding is not until September 2014 so people are saying just wait and see what she is like but i dont think she is going to change I feel like its going to turn into an arguement as she is starting to do my head in with it now

yeah we have to have 40 adult meals so said to my OH if she is going to waste the food then she can pay for her own meal as we not wasting our money on a meal thats not going to get eaten ! shes not going to be bridesmaid any more like iv asked my best friend to be maid of honor and having my little girl as a bridemaid/flower girl instead xx

She is my older sister and my only sibling and for some reason she has always had to do whatever i want to do ! or get attention for things when good things are happening to me .. i think she is just a very jealous person and likes to be better then everyone else Its quite sad really xx

Sounds like jealousy to me! Also is she married? It may be that she just feels a bit put out that you are getting married before her? Also, I agree with Siany, don't play games and get wound up, thats what she wants. Just turn round and say 'ok, its your choice' xxx

My h2b's sister was exactly the same! When we got engaged, she sceamed at my h2b saying 'Thanks for ruining my life!' then stormed off crying, just because we got engaged before she did (she wasn't even with anyone and me and h2b had been together 3 years!). His mum played up to it, but we just ignored her. We refuse to let her spoil anything just because she is jealous. You just need to let it go over your head hun, she will soon get bored when she realises that you arent reacting to any of it xxx

Can't agree with you enough Siany! I'm the same xx

Especially in this town!! Lol. Now I've moved back, me & h2b just keep ourselves to ourselves cos we know we'll be moving again after we're married. It can't come quick enough xx

I dont mind you being blunt .. I think she is but my step mam and mam say just see if she settles down, but i feel like i have to say something to her now but the problem with me is i hate confrontation and try to avoid arguements all the time xx

Yeah i could try that like. she is very hot headed and always takes things the wrong way we fell out for a while 5 year ago when she shouted in the street that i was stealing her baby ! All because she was late dropping off her daughter for me to look after which made me late for dropping my little girl off at nursery so she was already in a bad mood shouting at me so i just said right whatever and started pushing the pram and walking my daughter up to the bus stop and she shouted in the street come back so i said i havnt the time and she shouted come back and stop steeling my daughter while she was outside my front door ! god knows what my neighbors must have thought my daughter was 3 at the time and was in tears over it .. so when i pluck up the courage to have word with her i hope nothing like that happens again !!
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yeah i think she is a bit crazy like ... she seems to be like this with every one just very attention seeking wanting people to feel sorry for her etc .. my daughter has behavior problems and she even copied off that saying her daughter was doing things that my daughter was doing !! we all ignored her and she stopped doing it .. she just has to have all the attention on her xx