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    • Clarabella
      CommentAuthorClarabella
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    I have been thinking for a while of inviting my aunts and uncles and cousins to my wedding.
    I know this might sound strange but when i was 11 my mum and dad split up and and so after that i never seen my aunts and uncles. In this time i have seen a few of them and said hi and have talked to a few on Face Book which has got me thinking of inviting them but there is the problem of i dont know how my mum would feel about it and also my sisters? There was alot i missed when i was growing up when my parents were still together with my older sisters noticed. They said that compared to my cousins we got treated differnetly but i dont know in what way. I think it had something to do with the fact that there are 5 of us compared to my aunts and uncles only had 2 kids each but i dont want to upset anyone.
    I was only going to invite them to the evening reception anyway so what do you all think? H2B is happy enough inviting them or not

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    • MorgsysGirl(kempy)
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    If its only to the evening id say why not.
    1) its your wedding only you and your hubby an decide whos there
    2) it may build some bridges

    In the end its your day do what will make you happy. Then say to the others how its your day and they need to accept whos there and if they cant just dont talk to them simples :)

    Ive got people coming to mine that I know others wont like. xx

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    • CommentAuthorSweetchilli
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    I think inviting them to the evening reception is the best idea.
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    • Mrs brown - 19/08/12
      CommentAuthorMrs brown - 19/08/12
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    I would say invite them to the evening reception,x
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    • MrsBroady2B
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    I only want a small wedding so I am only inviteing my favoret antie's and my uncle (which is 4 out of 8 from both sides of my family)and there partners too. None of my cousins are coming the wedding or the breakfast. But they are all more than welcome to the evening reception. We want to keep cost's down, plus I'm already very nervouse about standing up infront of almost 50 people, never mind adding more, most of whome I only see at family events anyway.
    But It's all up to you at end of the day if you want them there all day or not, not nobody else. xx




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    • tinkerbell2013
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    I agree with everyone else if u want them there then have them there, its ur decision no one else's xx

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    • madhen
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    I think if you want them there you should have them :)
 

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