Think you've made the decision there yourself hun!! If the lower ones hurt your feet go for the higher ones for the day and your first dance and then change to lower ones for last few hours if needs be (thats what im doing!) :) xx

are you not worried about the bottom of your dress getting dirty when you switch to lower ones? Someone told me it is best to have your dress cleaned after the wedding even if there are no marks but not sure that is correct or not. xx

i have got 3 pairs of shoes for the wedding. One pair of Gina silver strappy sandals with svorowski crystals, with a 4 inch heel. Another pair of silver shiny Gina's with a 3 inch heel and a silver pair of ballet pump Jimmy Choos which are obviously totally flat and a half size too big so that i can put in memory foam insoles.

I am defo going to start in the crystal pair, and work my way through them all as my feet hurt and onto the flat ones for dancing.

i kinda figure that by the time I am on the flat ones I wont care if the dress is touching the ground too much, cause i would probably end up in bare feet by then anyway if I didnt have the pumps. I dont really think people will notice and inch or two at the bottom so am going to get mine done just a little short for 4 inch heels, so it will be perfect for the 3 inch ones and only 2 inches too long for the flats! if that makes sense...........

think i will wear the high ones to start with then and maybe change into lower ones depending on how my feet feel.
Thats true about sitting down for a while when eating and speeches so hopefully they will be ok.

you have some good idea carabelle...
xx