My MOH has booked 10 of us to go to liverpool for my hen weekend in february. We all had to pay a final deposit two weeks ago for our apartment,unfortunately one of the girls who my MOH invited (ive met the girl once!) decided to play unfair and blank any calls and texts asking for her final deposit,therefore risking our whole weekend and all of our deposits we had already paid!

After two days of uncertainty,my MOH decided she was going to get someone else in in the other girls place,which i wasnt happy about as id never met this new girl in my life! So i decided i would ask another of MY friends who was delighted to be asked! I thought it was all going to be ok until my MOH said the ORIGINAL girl who hadnt paid her deposit had decided she still wanted to go,and she just said that was fine!
It now means we have an extra person in a 10 person apartment! Ive asked the apartments if my extra friend would be allowed in and they have told me we have to go for a bigger apartment now,which has truly mucked EVERYTHING up. They told me to just get MOH to phone them and book it and it would only be £10 extra pp.
Seems simple? Well i told my MOH this and she went mental at me saying the stress of it all was getting to her and she had too many problems to deal with,which now means the bigger apartment is fully booked! She PROMISED me she would sort it MON and im STILL waiting!
My H2b has had to get involved also and contact the apartments himself and they have told him it might not be a problem to squeeze my pal in but we have to quote his name and my MOH STILL hasnt done this!!!! Im so royally PI***** off and upset as it seems like the whole hen weekend is going to pot! What do I do? Its only 2 months away yet all so unorganised!!

Try to calm down. It actually sounds like your H2B came to the rescue and sorted it. What a star.

Try meeting up with your MOH and find out what's going on with her. Sounds to me like she's stressing about other stuff aside from your wedding. Encourage her to be honest, because if she has too much on her plate you can delegate to other wedding party or family members to lighten the load. After all it doesn't matter who does the jobs, so long as they get done.

And if she doesn't want to talk, but remains unreliable, consider delegating jobs anyway. I'm sure it will all work out and you'll have a fab time. Besides, squeezing one extra girl in won't matter, the night is not for sleeping!

I agree with both of the above posts. One one hand your h2b seems to have sorted the mess thankfully, however the real issue here seems to be why your moh hinks it is acceptable inviting her own friends to your hen do. She seems to have forgoten that being a moh is an honour to be cherished and she needs to be there to help you.

I think its important that you two spend some quality one on one time and try to iron out these issues nefore the hen nigjt and deff before your wedding.

Good luck hunni
xx