Hi everyone. Havnt been on for a while but I need some advice. We are getting married in 12 days and I just can't get excited. It still feels like got ever away and everyone always seems excited by now.
My friend told me last week I am far too calm and it is just cos I still can't see it happening! I'm not sure if it's doubts, nerves or what im thinking!
Don't really expect any responses just wanted to get it off my chest xx
CommentAuthorkimmy
It's just nerves hun, it will kick in!!!
CommentAuthorIgnition
I'm sure everything will be okay. It maybe is just nerves, and the fact that is nearly here. All the hard work and slaving over the organising is done. Your probably just on a a bit of a downer because you have nothing left to organise.
Good luck on the big day. And I'm sure everything will be absolutely fine for you. xx
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CommentAuthorKaz
Perhaps because you know you've done everything possible and I know that because I peeked at your photo albums! Still 12 days to go, you probably don't have anything to do at the moment but as the last few days arrive and you need to start organising everything again u'll be fine! xx
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CommentAuthorWeeMintyMonkie
Your just nervous!
Dont worry in a few days it will hit you! May even just hit you on the day!!
Im mixed at the moment, I think its because we havent fixed a date yet!
Im soooo excited about getting my little bits and pieces for the tables etc and im trying on my dress next month.
Then i think oh we dont have venue or church booked or deposit for yet or this and that and i feel like its never gonna happen,
I think you're just experiencing those nerves! It's not second thoughts or cold feet, it's just nerves and the fear of the unknown!
Dont worry hunny! xxx
CommentAuthorMrs*Maria*Louise
i think it could be wedding nerves, it could just be that you still cant believe its happening and dont seem real, or that you have been so excitied that its worn off a bit i know i cant stay excitied too long and it just wears off and closer to the time it could kick in again hun hope you do feel better soon hun hugs xx
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CommentAuthorweemindyxx
hey hun dont worry its prob the calm before the storm, you have been excited planning for months when the big day arrives you will be piddling yourself with excitement lol.xxx
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CommentAuthorDW82
i wouldnt worry hun, some ppl are more calmer than others, my friend got married last year and she was as relaxed as they come, i was more stressed than her 2 weeks b4 the wedding she still hadnt got her wedding dress made and was still handing out invites lol and she just kept saying its ok it will all be done it dont matter, just because your not stressing or panicing doenst mean you dont want to get married, you are obviously just a calm person, good luck on the day hun xxx
CommentAuthorUnknown
Thanks everyone. I think your all right! Kaz, you are right I have done everything and can't do anymore until couple of days before!
At the moment it doesn't feel real which I don't think is helping! Hopefully I will start to get excited! Xx
CommentAuthorMadam Butterfly
Everyone's nerves and emotions are different. Some feel things all the time, others come in waves. Enjoy not feeling too nervous cos it will hit you sometime between now and the big day. Like you said it still feels like forever away, so wait until you realise its just around the corner!! :) x
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CommentAuthorSuzie Bear
OOOH they say u gotta watch the calm ones!! lol 2 days before and we'll all be calming u down on here!! Relax and enjoy all the compliments and enjoy the excitement of everyone else! xxx
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CommentAuthorada
Sounds to me just like nerves but you will be fine and enjoy your special day xx
CommentAuthorEnny
i think its just wedding nerves :) u will be fine it might still come that your extremely excited :)
CommentAuthorJELLYBABY
I feel exactly the same way as you!! quite down if i'm honest..
CommentAuthorAli
Its just nerves Hun, I was fine up until i tried to go to sleep last night and then it hit me "in less than 3 weeks i'll be married" i hardly slept a wink last night as i was just tossing and turning thinking of things i need to do, can't do anything until we get to Vegas, then worrying that something will go wrong between now and then. TBH i'll be glad when its all over and i can get back to normal lol.
Bet you any money you'll start feeling it all soon xx
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CommentAuthorMel D
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Don't worry about it hun ... mine didn't seem real and I wasn't excited about it until when I was getting ready! xx
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CommentAuthorPinky1985
Im the same! A few weeks ago when I was still trying to organise things I felt all nervy and uptight wondering it was all going to get done etc and now with 4 days to go I am calm as they come! Get the odd tummy flip through excitement but not going into meltdown or anything and I know its not coz I don't want to get married! Lol! Everything else is out of my control now and what will be will be so enjoy the last couple of weeks! xxx ps only thing I am noticing is a slight headache and can't sleep very well b ut with 16 month old twins I'm putting it down to that! Haha!
CommentAuthorGregorysGirl
I was calm last week, and now it is only a few days away I am in panic and excitement mode! Suddenly have lots to do and every time I look at all the stuff for the wedding I give a little shriek and then come over all faint, lol. It will hit you by Monday don't you worry about that! :) xx
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CommentAuthorUnknown
thanks everyone! i know i loved ed and want to get married, just want to get excited! got emails to send to suppliers tonight so it may hit then xx
CommentAuthorKayteeG
I think everyone handles it in different ways - there's no right or wrong way - some people breeze through it while others are nervous wrecks lol! Not sure which one I'm going to be yet.....!
CommentAuthorspooney24
I wouldnt worry yourself Terri as im sure it will hit you with 2 days to go, as thats when it did for me when the last minute bits n bobs had to be delivered and picked up, etc. It also means that you are well organised which is good. I was unlucky to have a couple of things go pearshaped leading up to my final countdown but managed to resolve them the last week before the wedding.
Just enjoy the calm feeling as you will soon be running around like a headless chicken the day before if you are anything like how I was! xx
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CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
hunni there is no rule to say that you have to be jittery... a friend of mine got married last year and was totally calm all the way through she had no moments of panic she was a bit like an ice queen ... lol .... but that was just her way of dooing things, it didnt mean that she didnt want to get married or anything else . We are not all the same and dont react all the same
thanks june and lala! i have had moments of panic leading up but as everyting has been done for about 4 months i am thinking that is why im not getting excited because i dont have anything to do! xx
CommentAuthormcquire81
I have no doubt it is just nerves.. there is all this build up for months and then all of a sudden everything is done and you dont know what to do with yourself! Dont worry, you will be fine and im sure you will have a fantastic day and you will wonder why you were ever worrying! xxx
CommentAuthorAbbey
Perhaps you are just putting too much pressure on yourself to be excited! I think you should go pamper yourself, enjoy the calm. You obviously love your H2B, so maybe because you know this and know married life will be amazing you are just not getting giddly. I have no doubt whatsoever that on the day everyone else will be excited and that can get infectious, plus add a bit of bubbly to the equation and the fact that you get to finally wear your beautiful dress for a whole day you will no doubt feel it then hun. Just enjoy! We can more than oblige on the giddiness/excited platform for you until your adrenalin kicks in, so just think of the ladies on here as your back up tank, reserving your supply for the big day xxxx
