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    • SusanT68
      CommentAuthorSusanT68
      Posted: Jun 21st 2015
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    Hello ladies, I am new to UKbride, my name is Susan and I can't wait for my big day, but it is already causing a headache as this is my second wedding, Tim's first and we are both the wrong side of 40..help!
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    • Glitterfairy
      CommentAuthorGlitterfairy
      Got married 8 years ago
      Posted: Jun 21st 2015
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    Hiya Susan, welcome to the site.

    Why's it causing a headache?? Mine was second time round and I was just 40 and hubby was 42.

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    • CarolH81
      CommentAuthorCarolH81
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Jun 21st 2015
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    This is my 1st marriage will be 43 when it gets here in October and my h2b second marriage. He is 66 and like a lil kid so excited lol. Only headache we have is trying to get his divorce papers from the courts as he didn't get them when he divorced 7 year ago. Enjoy every second it's the 1st time you are marrying each other so treat it as your 1st marriage. Also you are never over the hill especially to get married . Good luck and welcome to the site xx
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    • Glitterfairy
      CommentAuthorGlitterfairy
      Got married 8 years ago
      Posted: Jun 21st 2015
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    Carol, hubby had to get his as well as he did not know where they were. It was a simple phone call, paid a fee and he got them really quickly.

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    Our wedding day - 6 October 2012


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    • KirstyR386
      CommentAuthorKirstyR386
      Got married 4 years ago
      Posted: Jun 21st 2015
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    40 is definitely not over the hill! Consider it as your first marriage to each other and enjoy every second of it. X
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    • VictoriaL46
      CommentAuthorVictoriaL46
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Jun 21st 2015
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    40s is not over the hill. I just turned 30 and definately don't feel close to it.

    Why is it all causing a headache?

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    • Glitterfairy
      CommentAuthorGlitterfairy
      Got married 8 years ago
      Posted: Jun 21st 2015
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    Personally, I don't think it matters how old you are when you g married, whether this be the first, second, third times, it's the bonding of two people who love each other,

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    Our wedding day - 6 October 2012


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    • leasa
      CommentAuthorleasa
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Jun 21st 2015
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    Never too old to show you love someone!

    We got married 3 weeks ago, my 1st his 2nd. But our 1st. That's all that mattered.
    I'm 36 and he's 49... Just numbers.

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    Proposed in Monte Carlo August 25th 2013
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    • clair
      CommentAuthorclair
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Jun 21st 2015
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    Hi! Welcome to uk bride! Defiantly not to old at all. You can have what ever day you want to have. My Aunty had her 2dn marriage she was in her late 50s. Her day was much bigger then Her 1st wedding (baring in mind they were at least 30 years apart lol!). Don't let people tell you as it is you 2nd marriage you can't have a big day. X

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    Started going out with my Gorgeous man 7/11/2010
    Got engaged on the 21/9/2013
    became mrs Thornton on the 2/8/2015
    our wedding day was the best day ever :)!
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    • MrsC2bee
      CommentAuthorMrsC2bee
      Got married 4 years ago
      Posted: Jun 21st 2015
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    Hi and congratulations :) don't worry bout age or what number wedding. Its just as important and hope you enjoy the planning and wedding itself :) ours is my first but oh second and part of me feels like I need to do better than his first but deep down I know it doesn't matter as This is our day so will be most special day no matter what :)
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    • InDreamland
      CommentAuthorInDreamland
      Got married 7 years ago
      Posted: Jun 21st 2015
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    Welcome Susan!

    Love catches everyone at different stages. 40 is not over the hill! At least I hope it isn't!

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    Married the love of my life on Saturday 11th May 2013 xxx
    Had our dream perfect honeymoon in Hawaii!

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    • InDreamland
      CommentAuthorInDreamland
      Got married 7 years ago
      Posted: Jun 21st 2015
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    Oh, enjoy the site! xxx

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    Married the love of my life on Saturday 11th May 2013 xxx
    Had our dream perfect honeymoon in Hawaii!

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    • CarolH81
      CommentAuthorCarolH81
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Jun 22nd 2015
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    GF our problem is we live in Spain. J got divorced in Spain at one of the slowest courts for dealing with paperwork in the area! We are still waiting been around 2 months now and the courts close in August for Spanish holidays.
    Susan hope you are starting to feel a little less stressed now x
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    • Glitterfairy
      CommentAuthorGlitterfairy
      Got married 8 years ago
      Posted: Jun 22nd 2015
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    Ahhh I understand now.

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    • lala "mod" bunni
      CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
      Got married 8 years ago
      Posted: Jun 22nd 2015
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    WELL EXCUSE ME ....... over the hill at 40 .... wash your mouth out i was 48 when we got married

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    • michgib
      CommentAuthormichgib
      Got married 18 months ago
      Posted: Jun 23rd 2015
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    Congratulations you are not over the hill. Im 46 and h2b is 53. You are never too old for love
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    • CommentAuthorJoannaS
      Posted: Jun 24th 2015
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    I was 52 and hubby 50 when we got married
 
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