Is anyone scared tht this marriage will end up like their 1st ?? I'm so scared tht i'm thinking of calling it off
CommentAuthorNikitaL
Katie, just remember why you wanted to get married to your h2b, does he make you happy? do you enjoy each others time? I know its easy to compare your relationship with previous ones and we all do it! but just remember it is not the same relationship, and just because things ended badly last time doesnt mean they will this time. Speak with your h2b and i am sure he will reassure you. big hugs xx
CommentAuthorbrilly
katie dont let ur 1st marriage shadow ur 2nd chick this is my h2b 2nd marriage and hes even said himself hes glad his 1st one ended up badly because he would never of found me otherwise keep ya chin up hun xxx
31st August 2013 I became Mrs Carrick
Cant wait to do it all over again in 2018
CommentAuthorKatieDolman2b
I think deep down i'm disappointed tht my 1st didn't work out because he was my boys dad and i can't give my h2b children. i don't know whats up with me :( xxx
CommentAuthorEMC
Hard stuff... But think of it this way, statistically your second marriage is more likely to succeed than your first, you have a clean start with LOADS more experience... You're a much wiser version of the woman that got married all those years ago. You should feel MORE confident than you did last time.
katie my son is from my past relationship hun he has nothing to do with his dad (his dads choice) but he wants to call h2b dad and has said he does everything a dad does for there kids and hes only 7, im sure ur h2b will love ur boys just like they are his own xxx
soo true emc hun xx
31st August 2013 I became Mrs Carrick
Cant wait to do it all over again in 2018
CommentAuthorClareS
Initially I was concerned about marrying again, but my h2b is nothing like my ex. My first marriage enged due to my ex getting physical in all the wrong way. I feel sad that the marriage didn't last and is seen as a failure but rather that than stay in a marriage that wasn't healthy and couldn't be rescued. H2b has been wonderful and accepted me and my lad as an instant family unit and treats him like his own. I have no doubts in my mind, I know I'm doing the right thing in marrying him. It's also his second marriage but his first ended for different reasons x
CommentAuthorkrissy905
i think we are in a similar position katie this is my second marriage and i to cant give my h2b any more children i was very up front about it from day one and i think its more of an issue for me then him he has no children and is 4 years younger then me. i have moments of getting scared he will regret not having children of his own especially now his younger brother and partner have had their fist child together. He gets on great with my girls and they call him dad already it was there own choice Ive never mentioned anything about it and he was so happy when the said it bless him. There dad died 3 years ago and my eldest as not seen her dad for 2 years (he cant be bothered) so he is the only male father figure they have. I have deiced to just go with it we are both happy and love each other and i have deiced i cant keep worrying about what could possibly happen in the future all you can do is make the most of your marriage and try not to make the mistakes of the first one i see it has my practise for my future wedding lol xxx
CommentAuthorHa_x3
Aww im sure thats natural hun with it being a second marriage, just remember why yor marrying him
Mrs Lunn
08/05/12 was the best day of my life
& I love my husband with all my heart xxxx
CommentAuthorGabyS
Arhhh do you know I'm in the opposite position my hub has been married before... but i hate the thought of him judging me like his ex... I'm in this relationship for the long haul and love him till the day i die... just remember your partner does too.... don't punish yourself forever cause your last husband let you down... you deserve a piece of happiness x
CommentAuthormrsturner2be
katie lees!!!! this marriage willost definately nt turn out like your first!!! ur h2b treats your boys like ther his own anyway!! and if he really wanted children of his own he wouldnt of proposed! lol. from wat uve tld me about ur first he was a right door knob!!! u wouldnt let that happen again!! ur the srt of person to take no poo off anyone!! xxxxx
meet my h2b 12/07/2004
had our beautiful daughter on 22/12/2007
he proposed 23/03/2011
become mrs turner 24/08/2013!!!!!
