I want to send mine before xmas but i have to wait for the hotels booking forms for the rooms as they are discounted. Its driving me mad as everyone wants to book their rooms now and keep bugging the life out of me keep asking !!! i hate waiting !

we are getting married august next year so i have plenty of time but its just with work and daily stuff that will prob slow me down in the making of them then i didnt know if it was best to give them about 6 months or wait till a bit closer so people dont forget lol xx

im putting on the invites" if u say u are coming then let me down without a good enough reason i will be knocking on ur door for payment and will not leave untill i have it" yes it may seem rude but im not rich and im not going to be paying for people that aint even going to turn up lol xx

Hi there, we sent ours out end of July for a mid October wedding - as even then people won't rush to reply as they will think its miles away so will need to do some chasing but don't need to give venue final numbers till 2 weeks before. They don't realise the things you have to do like table plans/place settings etc that you don't want to be doing last minute.

To make it easier we put little rsvp cards in the daytime envelopes that you can print yourself with envelopes (available from a large craft shop). Thought that would help get people to reply quicker. Evening is hard, some more traditional people have sent us little reply cards, others don't say a lot and assume they can just turn up so will be guess work for the buffet numbers i'll imagine.
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are u worried about people forgetting though or is that just me ??? x

We sent STDs a year before, and the invites 4 months before. We had to give numbers to the venue 4 weeks before (but they were nice and acccpeted changes a week before!). We were chasing from 2 months up until the week before!