she is not spiting u sweetie she is spiting her own daughter the selfish woman x

I don't think it'll be weird, I'm having the bm's and pageboys walk down in front of me so I won't have to wait for them to arrive, lol.
If you feel that strongly about having someone with you, have you not got a friend that could be bm for you? even if it's just so you have someone to hold your flowers! xx

If you want someone there that means something to you then do it but down have someone for the sake of it. it wont be weird xx

Kaz I dont really have anyone that I am that close with tbh and H2B only has brothers which is a shame. I think I'm better with just Dad hopefully people won't think I'm a loner :( lol xx

i dont think it is weird hun i think it might even be a bit nice as its all eyes on u xx

I feel for you... my sister is exactly the same! Selfish & I knew she would make herself center of attention on my day or pour a glass of red wine over me lol! She got sacked too! I would go it alone :o) x

you CANT have ANYONE there who is going to spoil your important day, so i dont blame you for sacking her.
I Dont think it will be weird at all having just your dad.
You only want people that are special to you there sharing your day

well there's that too.
I am sure you will have an amaing day!

Lol I love the every cloud... x

shame she wont be able to go!

That is very true Anastasia! I never thought about it like that :) we are opposites and I'm not selfish at all so I really struggle to understand how she can be like that. Best not to understand I guess lol.

Anyway sorry ladies to bring the mood down tonight I was just worried if it would look random without bridesmaids. You've all made me feel loads better about it though. Thank you xxxx

my sister is the same I'm closer to my niece so i picked her instead, i know she going to sulk when she finds out she isn't a witness either I've asked my older sister instead. The thing with her is you can never predict her moods shes more up and down then a yo-yo lol and she wont even consider the fact that she got married last year asked my daughters to be bridesmaids then turned round and said they wasn't cos she couldnt afford it even though i offered to pay for all the dress,shoes and hair, didn't ask me to be a witness and when she was panicking about decoration the venue i offered to help her and she snapped my head off saying she didn't want any help then few days later told me our sil was sorting out the venue decorations.

i second janie on coming on here to rant and get thinsg of my chest hell have u seen all my moaning complaining whinging posts and threads surprised they ant kicked me of and told me to go to a moaning old womans nagging site phahhahahah x

i moan whinge complain bitch ad everything else even if and when i dont expect ppl to reply just to get stuff out there lol x

av got more down hearted posts than good happy excited posts ;-/ x

It's good to have a moan & share with people... takes the weight off your shoulders! :o)
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Thank you sooooooooooooo much!!!! You should all be my bridesmaids :) xxxxx

Ah sisters! Lol. Fell out with mine last week! She's my MOH. We are okay now I think....til next time!!!!

Aww Hun this sounds like a really stressful situation for you. Just an idea but if you want someone else to walk down in front of you and hold your flowers why not have your mum? That way its someone who means something to you and might be a nice little unique touch.
Whatever you choose to do make sure you do what makes you happy and don’t compromise! This is your special day and you deserve for it to be perfect.
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