First of all my internets down have to use my fone erghhhh. My problem is I'm a bit confused as to when you send out rsvp's do you put then in with the save the date cards or the invites. I thought it was with the invites but I'm plannin to put my table plan in with invites so then if people carnt come I'll have to re do my table plan. What is everyone else plannin to do? Xxx
CommentAuthorHalloween_Bride
you put them in with the invites hun xx
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CommentAuthorsbride
To be honest, I wouldnt send people the table plan, becuase you could get people ringing you up moaning about who they are sitting with. Just leave till the day, they dont need to know in advance where they are sitting.
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CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
I'm putting them in with my invites and also asking them for their meal choices etc at the same time to encourage them to send them back. I agree with not putting the seating plan in or you will find it opens a can of worms and you will never hear the end of it. If they don't find out until they go to sit down its too late for arguments as no one usually dares to kick off on the day.
CommentAuthorMrs fairytale
in the invites hun xx
cant wait to renew my vows, love my hubby sssssooooo much xx
I have received an invitation with rsvp in and that's what I am planning to do, save the date is merely a warning for people to book holidays off if needed, as for seating plan all those girls are right you might create chaos by sending it out
Soon to be Mrs Gary Doublé
Everything is now booked
Getting really stressed and excited now
CommentAuthorJilly17
Definately with the invites and the seating plan would be only a rough draft anyway until you find out who is defiantely coming and most certainly a potential for hassle! x
CommentAuthorricky
we just gave everyone email addresses mobile numbers and facebook page to reply to...decided to be modern...saves paper and stamps
CommentAuthorMel D
We didn't do RSVPs, put a postal address, mobile phone number and email address in the invite. If they can't figure out how do RSVP by one of those methods then there's no hope for them! I agree with everyone else about the table plan xx
Got married Sat 28/05/2011
Renewing vows Sat 29/05/2021
We're planning WELL in advance!!