ive had it up to the eyes with my reception venue co-ordinator ive phoned 12 times in the last 2 weeks just to ask for the final price and deposit and she hasn't even bothered to call back just gets her colleges to make excuses for her
so ive decided to contact my ceremony venue and see how much it would be to have the full wedding there
CommentAuthorTHE nice bridezilla
Hi, don't blame you. I fell in love with a manor house in bristol, on the second meeting the caterer couldn't be bothered to turn up even though we had planned it. So bugger them if they can't get back to you, go somewhere that will bend over backwards to give you, your day the way you want it.
CommentAuthormadison_uk
I Would do the same if they can't even send you the price and deposit imagine what they will be like once they have all your money could be nightmare in long run if you can't get hold of her
CommentAuthormillz090
If they are messing you around now then what would they be like nearer the time.... too much stress so i think you have done the right thing. I would also be tempted to complain higher xxx
Finally marrying the love of my life !!
10th August 2013 - 9 years to the day we met !
CommentAuthorSarahB92
I would certainly complain at the highest level possible
ive just checked an old email i sent my ceremony place and they said that its only £400 to hire the place so i might just talk to my other half and see what he says ive had my heart set on the tall ship for 2 years :(
CommentAuthorShazk
I dont blame you either that just damn right rude and liek toerhs say what will they be like nearer time if messing you about now xxx
Away with the flutterbys xxx
CommentAuthorMrs-Mouse-2-be
If you really are determined to change your plans, don't bother telling the wedding coordinator. After all that's the treatment she gave you. I know how you feel about setting your heart on somewhere. The church I grew up beside was going to be where my wedding ceremony was :-( I often thought I would have my wedding there. But as my fiance's dad probably won't be able to travel so far I made the decision to have it near his home. For 34 years of my life my wedding was going to be in my childhood church :-) but anyway my point is sometimes these things work out for the best, though we don't see it that way at the time.
Maybe in a few years time you could throw your anniversary party in your tall ship instead?
CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
mmmmm i know what you mean, its a hard one when you have your heart set on a place, the thing is you have 23 months to go so maybe she can't give you a price which is why she isn't coming back to you? don't get me wrong i'm not sticking up for her its not right her not returning your calls she should at least just give you a ring to say why she hasn't called back
8th September 2012 I married my best friend
1st September 2014 our little family grew by one
Women are made to be loved, not understood. - Oscar Wilde
CommentAuthorMrsWright290912
We had trouble with our venue in the 6 weeks leading upto our big day. We complained to the assistant general manager and when she then also make a c0ck up, we escalated it to the general manager.
Just think like the other ladies said what they will be like just before your big day if they are like this now.
I really did marry my Mr Wright and we had a nice day for a
Wright wedding!
Mexico for our first anniversary
CommentAuthorRosyF77
yes that doesnt sound profesional at all. If they cant even reply to you then how are they spose to run a wedding. i wouldnt have much confidence in them after that x
CommentAuthorNicholaP44
I hate it when ur paying 4 a service and u dont get it, its their loss hun. stuff em! xxx x
Marrying "the 1" on 4th Oct 2013
CommentAuthorButton-Bell
mrs man the thing is i havent been able to get in touch with her to even let her know what i want!! she she dosent know what i want just knows its to do with a wedding
CommentAuthorMrs Q - Weegie
What were you doing for catering hun? because your ceremony venue would prob make you take their package so thats what you will need to price. Is Tall ship not ran by council? Go above her head....
25 days Until i marry my price charming!!
Cant belive its sooo sooon!!!!!
'this is our time, and our lives and nothings ever going to
break us' :D:D:D
CommentAuthorLauraJo87
I agree, try someone above her
Xx
My Beating Heart Belongs To You
30 August 2013
The First Day Of My Happily Ever After
CommentAuthorKellyN29
there is no excuse for rudeness, if they were looking after you someone should be able to answer your questions even if she is busy
CommentAuthorButton-Bell
mrs q they have an indoor caterer but i dont have to use them i thought they were but it dosent say in there website gonna try phoning again when i get money in my phone spent all the money i had in my phone calling them last week >.<
CommentAuthorKaren22
Isn't it annoying when people don't phone back, even though you're basically wanting to pay them thousands of pounds to hold your reception there.. Their loss I say!!!!! xxx
Mrs Gill
24th August 2013
CommentAuthorpink*wink
hey button-bell.. is it the tall ship in glasgow? xx
CommentAuthorTori
If you have yOur heart set on the place go higher up to general manager etc and highlight the number of times you have tried to contact.
If he doesn't get back to you after a decent length then I think you will need to go somewhere else. If they can't go all outbefore they have won your business then imagine what the treatment once they have x
CommentAuthorButton-Bell
yeah pink it is im so hopeful all the time checking my emails and voicemails n i dont have any money till the end of the month to call them again :(
CommentAuthorpink*wink
that sux :( if i were u, i wld turn up one day demanding to see someone and not leave till sum1 has spoken to me! xx
CommentAuthorButton-Bell
i went down but they made me pay to get on the ship n it was £7 each and there was no staff on bored so we walked around on our own n only spoke to the man on the main guest he was really nice but didnt know anythin about hiring out the ship
CommentAuthorpink*wink
oh dear... im having a prob with my venue in that she dsnt return my calls, makes me look a bit like bridezilla, if she answered my question, then i wldnt have to keep foning and emailing :( (thats a whole new thread tho!!!) mayb i shld listen to my own advice......! xx
CommentAuthorMrs-Mouse-2-be
Button-bell can't you change your mobile network to a network that gives you free minutes?
Any chance some of us could work together to try and find out if we can get the manager or general manager's contact details? I would leave it up to you obviously to make contact with him, but I'm sure if some if us pull together we could get you the email address and telephone number you need. Where is this tall ship and what is the name of the council that runs it?
CommentAuthorButton-Bell
ive gave up i have a meeting with my ceremony venue n there prices are so good im just going with them its their own fault n i understan its a busy time of year but Davd (my ceremony coordinator) is organising 2 weddings and a 21st this weekend n still managed to email me and set up a meeting on saturday so im done if david can take some of the stress out of this situation ill pay him triple when i would have paid the tall ship
CommentAuthorMrs-Mouse-2-be
It's probably for the best. Less stress and less money so all is good :-)
CommentAuthorButton-Bell
yeah very true x
CommentAuthorTori
Hope this one works much better xxxx
CommentAuthorpink*wink
fingers crossed 4 u :) xx
CommentAuthorButton-Bell
got a meeting this weekend so ill let u all know i alredy feel really good about it :)
CommentAuthorMrs-Mouse-2-be
I think in a few weeks time once you really get the ball rolling you will have forgotten how much the other place meant to you anyway, or perhaps you have forgotten already.
CommentAuthorButton-Bell
tbh i have it was the H2B who was really set on it he is so down the now i hope that this meeting helps he got quite excited about the menus when i showed him them but he couldnt decide what he wants lol think hes more worried about his parents coming down from aberdeen in 2 weeks time n our flat still being in this mess :/
