My sister has a dilemma (along with 2 other girls) who are all BM's for a uni friend.
This uni friend has 4 BM's in total, my sister, 2 others who I know and one other who is a childhood friend and is just like the bride.
The bride bought the BM dresses without any consultation (teal green, knee length, granny style and the fabric is linen, LINEN!). She doesn't want any cleavage showing yet the dress styles are such that their b008s and cleavage are on full show, you can't miss them! Then she also did the same with the shoes, bought them with no consultation and is just saying these are yours and this is what you'll wear.
Problem is ..............she is expecting them to pay for all their alterations themselves, refuses to pay for them. They all hate the dresses and will never wear them again. She cites budget constraints for not paying.
On top of all this she is dictating the hair style and the nude make up look (no black eye liner, no fake tan, no false eyelashes etc. look - specified in an e-mail) but refuses again to pay for any hair and makeup. My sister is the wrong colour - she is dark skinned, naturally tanned so cannot have the pale nude white look she wants and because of her natural hair colour always wears black eyeliner.
She wants loose curls, my sister again has hair that just does not hold curls at all, it's heavy thick and poker straight! One of the other BM's has naturally tight corkscrew curly hair so will struggle to loosen the curls, plus wears more makeup than the rest of the bridal party put together on a normal day, every day! She is really glam!
I personally feel like my sister and her friends are being treated quite badly by a bride who is dictating and making demands but expecting them to pay for all of it! Ok fine she bought the dresses and shoes but made no mention of them having to pay for everything else that she is expecting of them at the time of asking them to be BM's so they're rather miffed.
I think she is being really unreasonable (she and her H2B earns far more than my sister and her hubby!).
Is the bride being unreasonable or should my sister and the other two friends fork out? (the childhood friend is apparently going along with everything the bride wants - but does not need her dress altering as it fits her and wears her hair naturally and makeup every day just as the bride wants anyway).
On top of all this, the wedding is in Wales therefore, they have to stay two nights, take a day and a half at least off work (Friday wedding) and pay for accommodation there which is costing them £300 per couple (they are of course taking their hubby's, boyfriends)! Then there is the cost of return travel there too! By car of course.
I only have 2 BM's, my sister and my bestmate (plus one FG) and I'm paying for all dresses, alterations and hair and make up because I'm deciding on colour of dress (they chose the style) and I'm deciding on hair style. They're wearing their own shoes.
Some other opinion's would be appreciated.
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CommentAuthorbarbie86
She's being unreasonable.
First, I think that if a bride/couple wants a specific look, they should pay for all of it; not just the dresses, but everything: dresses, alterations, shoes, hair, make-up etc. Dictating what people wear and then making them hand over cash is wrong IMPO.
Second, I think it is awful to make people you are supposed to care about change their appearance, or wear things they aren't comfortable in. I chose my 4 adult BMs because they are my BEST FRIENDS: and I want them to look and feel great on the day. That means they are picking their own dresses, in a colour and style that they like and that suits them, and having their hair and make-up as they please. If someone picks someone who loves a lot of fake tan and heavy make-up to be their BM, then IMPO they pick them knowing that, and shouldn't ask them to change.
Honestly, if I were your sister I'd consider stepping down. This girl sounds awful, and not someone I personally would want to be a BM for.
CommentAuthorInDreamland
Thanks Barbie. That is how I feel and I told my sister that is why I'm paying for everything (apart from the shoes). I let them choose they style of dress but not the colour as that needed to tie in with the colour scheme of course, I'm paying for hair and makeup but ensuring that they both look and feel glam and sophisticated on the day (I'm going for that sophisticated red carpet look for them which of course they're both very happy with but I felt could only be achieved with professional help so I'm paying).
I just feel like my sister is being made to pay for things she (and her friends) are not happy about at all and it makes me angry (that's the over protective big sister in me coming out).
Thing is, my sister when she got married almost 2 years ago now, she did the same, paid for everything, dresses, alterations, hair and makeup! We provided our own shoes as we could then wear what we already had and were already comfortable in so we knew our feel wouldn't be shredded by the end of the ceremony let alone reception.
The shoes apparently are ghastly, gold peep toe with bows near the peeptoe! They wanted to wear the shoes before the wedding to break them in but the bride wouldn't allow it so they have to go armed with plasters in case they get shredded feet!
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CommentAuthorsarah
Bridezilla much.... She is being completely unreasonable, but I'm not sure what your sister can do but step down. Or all the bridesmaids could get together and have a chat with the bride.
CommentAuthorvicki
I thinks that she's being unreasonable. I got my bridesmaid dresses in a sale without my bridesmaids seeing them, fortunately they all love them, but I paid for them and I am going to pay for any alterations that need doing as I wanted a specific look so I think that it's only fair that I pay for it. As for their hair and make up I really don't mind how they have it I've just asked that my MOH doesn't go too over the top with her make up but I know that she won't anyway so really not a problem.
It is difficult. No one wants to rock the boat and upset her so close to the wedding (end of April) just a couple of weeks before mine.
She also insisted on a particular theme for her hen party, so my sister and the two friends went out and specially bought outfits to fit in with the '20's theme and the bride, other BM and other hens just turned up wearing normal dresses!
It is hard as I think they all go back such a long way and used to live with each other, I can understand no one wanting to say anything.
My sister did try to hint by asking her if she would reimburse for the alterations because I'm paying for all of the ones for my BM's but she just point blank said no.
Personally, I think, including everything (accommodation, etc.) that they are paying out, approx. £400 plus wedding gift on top, is really unreasonable to expect someone you have asked to be a BM to pay for your wedding that you're choosing and dictating style etc on.
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CommentAuthorsarah
Is there someone that can overrule/control/persuade this bridezilla to do the right thing? Or is she just on one big power trip? Would the MOB, H2B or someone else be able to advocate for the BMs?
CommentAuthorInDreamland
Her H2B is as tight as she is. Apparently when they go out for dinner they still split the bill! As in, this is what you ate and drank, this is what I ate and drank so this is how much you pay and how much I pay ...............they do this as a couple! Not even split it 50/50 so not chance of the H2B. No idea about the MOB or anyone else as don't think they know her really.
The best man is another close friend from the group who has had his measurements taken but won't actually get to try his suit on until the big day! Because the suit is hired in Wales!
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CommentAuthoralmost a year wife!!
I'd tell her where to shove her dress and wedding and not go! £400 not a chance! Really your sis n the other BMs NEED to tell her she's being a n0b... She can't really be a very good friend if she's treating them like this... Is ur sis bothered by being a bm or not? Does she see her regular? X
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CommentAuthornadia13
She is out of order, ur sis should tell her well 2 go, close friends don't treat each other like then. We've paid for our bridesmaid dress and will do wiv shoes as well, however my one adult bridesmaid will b paying for her own room on the night of the wedding, but she b staying wiv me the night b4 in a cottage on the grounds which was quite expensive but we did pay for that as for hair & makeup we r doing our own!! Brave I know lol x
CommentAuthorJoanna
She's being completely unreasonable! Personally I think if you want a specific dress, shoes etc then you should pay. If you want the bm's to pay for themselves then you should let them choose their own. And asking them to do specific hair and make up like that is a bit much in my opinion.
Also, £300 just for travel and accommodation? I would never be able to pay £300 just to get there.
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CommentAuthorGillianE
This friend sounds like bridezilla and doesn't sound much of a friend at all. If a friend of mine treat me in that way then i would seriously consider what kind of a friend she is. Personally if i were you sister and her friends i would ditch the bridesmaid role and step down. It sounds like it is going to be a very expensive wedding and to feel uncomfortable and miserable all day wearing the outfit chosen. It really is not worth all the heartache and misery. Let us know how they get on.
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CommentAuthorTori
i'm sorry but you cannot dictate someone's make up to such an extent. Is she an ugly bride (sorry I know that sounds mean) as she is going to great lengths to not be upstaged by the BMs. I think that they opposite will happen though - everyone can see when a bride has gone to great lengths to make the BMs look dowdy and IMO it makes the bride look dowdy too.
Personally if I was dictated to like that I would step down. I consulted my BMs on the dresses before ordering and have told them it is up to them how they have their hair and make up
CommentAuthorShazk
Id tell her to go do one to be honest if i was BM for he she can not dictate that much and exspect that much of ur BM if they have no say or ability to acdtualyl carry it out x
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CommentAuthormrsV2013
Completely unreasonable!!! If I was you sister I'd give her the dress and shoes and tell her that she better find another bm as I won't be treated like that!!! When but that's my opinion and I tend to overreact a lot :/
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CommentAuthorVelcro
i dont thinhjk shes being unreasonable with the make up (the the way she's gone about it is). you dont need a make up artist to get the nude look. My response to that would be fine, and Id suggest a girly pamper night to all try to recreate the looks she expects from us. My bms are in charge of their own hair and make up, i simply can't stretch that far. They can have their hair abbsolutely however they want and their make up and all I will ask is for them to keep it on the 'simple side' which tbh, won't be an issue as I know my bms. I'll be doing the exact same with the girly night in to get a feel for the look of it all as I know two of them can't apply liquid eyeliner to save their lives and one of them was a hair dresser so between us we're working it out.
what I think she's done wrong in that respect is being demanding about it. She's not asked their opinions and how they'd feel and asked for suitable alternatives. You WILL do this and you WILL do that. It's not hard to be polite and it's just plain rude. I'd never dream of speaking to my friends like that. I'm consulting them along the way and just because you're paying for a dress for them doesnt mean you can expect to put them in a sack and expect them to like it. Least of all tell them they have to pay for it to be altered.
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CommentAuthorSazzell23
Can I ask how much are the alterations? and is the bride paying for the BMs hair and makeup?x
CommentAuthorSazzell23
To me it sounds like the bride is very caught up in the wedding and could be stressed and perhaps not realise how she is coming across with her demands. Esp if it is a huge fancy wedding with a lot of guests. The wedding is so close now she is probably not thinking of much else. Maybe her opinions about having the b00bs on show and the makeup are not just her own and she's getting comments / pressure from perhaps parents or in-laws on how things should be and its making her panic and is passing this on to the BMs. Everyone deals with stress in different ways and it sounds like the bride is being super demanding as she has this image of a perfect wedding in her mind and how things SHOULD be - not how they are in reality. Your sister needs to think about the friendship they had before the wedding planning started and know that the bridezilla bride is just temporary. I think its too close to the wedding to step down as a BM without causing terrible upset. I think your sister should have a meet up with the bride and tell her straight that her expectations are too high and she is ruining friendships here. The bride prob doesnt realise this as she is so caught up in wedding mode and when pointed out to her hopefully she will chill out on the demands. Also, maybe your sister should book a cheaper hotel to stay over, cus £300 is crazy! xx
CommentAuthor*KelBel*
I think it does sound unreasonable.... I don't think u should have to change your whole look from how u would normally have it just for a bride who has chosen dresses with no consultation and expects them to fork out the expense themselves...it's just plain wrong! She should have spoke to the girls before asking them to be bridesmaids, then at least they would have the decision to decline x
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CommentAuthorShirleygirly
This is not only unreasonable it's odd behaviour. I'd never dictate hair and make up styles for my bms and I've given them as much choice as possible when it comes to the dress. I want them all to look beautiful but more importantly I want them to be comfortable with themselves. I'd have to ask to step down as bridesmaid to this bridezilla.
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CommentAuthorLegoWife
I agree with Velcro on the make up thing. It sounds like she's asking for a no make up, make up look. Which is easy for everyone to do themselves in fairness. Same with hair, really.
It's not cool for the bride to make everyone pay for their own alterations on the dresses though, if she wants the dresses fitting correctly then she should be the one paying for them imo.
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CommentAuthorxbeckix88
Eeeek Bridezilla!!!
Ill admit i saw my bridesmaid dresses and knew they were the ones i wanted luckily both my bms loved them too! My bms are paying for their hair & make up which they wanted to do and they did ask me what sort of look i would like. I said natural looking meaning not like huge fake lashes or garish eye shadow but to be fair neither of them really wear heaps of make up so im quite lucky.
Is there no way they could all get together and have a chat about it all and try to get her to see it from the bridesmaids point of view? It is pretty unreasonable that she never mentioned it and just sprang it on them that theyd have to pay out.
CommentAuthorBecca
Definitely unreasonable! ... I've let my bridesmaids (all childhood/close friends) have an opinion in what they wear, such as all wanted long dresses, 2 want flat shoes, 2 want heels, makeu I've decided on but asked their opinion, since I'm a beauty therapist I'm doing the makeups, two of my bridesmaids are hairdressers and are doing hair, its all been a group effort, everyone is going to have the same look and we've all put our ideas together, all alterations on the dresses are done my my nanna ... The last thing anyone wants is to feel uncomfortable, someone needs to tell this bridezilla to calm down a little!
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CommentAuthorMrs van der Lee
Totally unreasonable, I'd tell her to stick it and not be a bloody BM, especially as it seems there's no maneuverability in anything!! I said to my BMs I would prefer them in the same dress that is a colour of my choosing but I let them go mad on styles and try everything until something worked for them all. The same will apply with shoes, accessories and hair/makeup. We are not expecting our girls to pay anything. Bang out of order.
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CommentAuthorSianyCaitlin
She's being so unreasonable !! & I agree with Adele, I'd tell her to stick it! I'm paying for my BMs dresses, shoes, hair, makeup etc but I've still let them pick what they're happy with!! You can't TELL somebody what they're wearing & then tell them they're also paying for it! She's being out of order xx
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CommentAuthorCatrinaP
iv bought everything for my bridesmaids 2 of them are in england so iv posted there dresses to them and will be going to visit them next month with there shoes etc i did ask them about styles but was told its your wedding we will wear what you decide good girls lol all i expect them to do is there hair makeup and turn up x
CommentAuthorMel D
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I paid for my BMs dresses (they tried them on and didn't need alterations), and for their make-up ... I said I prefer natural but whatever they wanted took precedent ... hair I didn't pay for so I let them do whatever then wanted, and two of them went to a hairdresser in the morning and had theirs styled the other just did what she normally did and had a pretty hairclip. I didn't buy them shoes, I specifically went for a dress color that I knew black shoes would go with so they could wear their own comfy shoes.
To be honest if I were one of her BMs, given that she wants such a specific look I would expect her to pay for it all. Also I would insist on having the shoes beforehand so I could break them in ... or I would take along my own shoes that I could change into after the photos. As for the dress alterations ... she should pay for them ... I would be tempted to wear a nude slip and just wear the dress as it is - she clearly doesn't care if I am comfortable so why should I make an effort to make it look good? I would do my own makeup how I wanted it ... she could have a fit, but short of her actually doing it and keeping the makeup away from me there's not much she could do about it. Same with the hair.
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CommentAuthorLH
Hmmm... I think this is unreasonable. Sure she maybe has enough stress that she isn't thinking straight but this doesn't excuse this behaviour.
I'm a bridesmaid in a couple of weeks for my sister-in-law and she is paying for everything, because she is dictating everything including dress and shoes we will not wear again, and hair, makeup and tan that are not my style. However even with her dictating everything, she is being totally reasonable and lovely with it, and has made it very clear that she wants us to feel comfortable on the day.
For my day, I'm hoping for a much simpler look (as my wedding will be very low key) but I will be paying for everything despite having virtually no budget, because I believe that is the right thing to do... and most importantly, I will want my bridesmaids to feel happy and enjoy the day!
So, if she can maybe have a chat with the bride, calmly say that she doesn't feel comfortable with the choices made (I would say something along the lines of 'I know this isn't my big day however I'm sure you wouldn't want me to feel uncomfortable in something that doesn't suit me')... I would then also say that I would be happy to pay a reasonable amount towards this but if it simply goes beyond what I can afford then I just can't go into debt to make it happen, so if it's beyond that reasonable amount, I would have to decline to be BM at all :-/
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CommentAuthorInDreamland
Wow, thank you for all your responses ladies. That is a resounding vote for unreasonable which makes me feel better that they are not expecting too much as BM's. The bride is not ugly at all, nice normal pretty face I think but is plain and dresses a bit old. I thought it did sound like she was trying to ensure she is not upstaged on the day but think shebis going about it wrongly. Also, I just feel like she should've asked them before if they'd be happy paying for the alterations. The next nearest place to stay is a 20 minute drive away from the venue so they have to stay at the venue. Interesting hearing all your views xxx
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CommentAuthorInDreamland
Just an update ladies!
My sister has had to pay £47 for the alterations and today she picked up the dress (when we went for our fittings for my wedding dress and hers and other BM's BM dresses). My sister looked so miserable when she put on this girls BM dress! She looked like she was going to cry and said she hates it so much, my best mate said that it was dreadful and basically said that she personally would have dropped out.
On top of this, my sister and another BM for this girl's wedding asked for different starters for their meals. My sister wants the meat option starter and vege option main, the other friend wants the vege option starter and meat option main, the Bride said she will not allow it! They either have to choose all meat or all vege option! So my sister and her mate said that they'd just order one of each between them and swap meals at the table!
Then, the bride is insisting that she is given all their dresses by a week before the wedding so her H2B can take them to Wales, they've all said they can bring them themselves, she refuses to allow them to do this and must have them make special trips into London to give her H2B the dresses. She won't even get the linen dresses pressed before the big day, he's taking them on the train so they'll all be creased!
I feel so sorry for my sister, she really hates the dress and feels like she's being make to look frumpy in a really unflattering nasty dress that she's had to pay £47 to alter to fit her!
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CommentAuthorsarah
:( That's terrible. I personally wouldn't give the h2b the dress - it's just to much hassel.
CommentAuthorSianyCaitlin
She sounds awful, I'd of dropped out a long time ago. Your poor sis :( xx
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CommentAuthoralmost a year wife!!
Omg poor girls! is there a pic of said dress?
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CommentAuthorInDreamland
No, I didn't have the heart to take a photo, she was so upset, now, she is tiny, as in size 6 with a totally flat and toned stomach and she thought she looked pregnant in it!
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CommentAuthorFionaR41
i feel for your sister. the so called friend must have watched too many tv programmes about bride...zilas...and become one... what about the brides mum, is she the same or approachable. i am getting paranod about my bm as i want them all to be happy i would love to tell them i want this and that but a couple of them are very strong willed and it it their way or no way.one has already told me she has to have a low front to show off her boo8s ( they are huge ) .. in some ways dreading getiing all 7 sorted!!!!!
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CommentAuthorInDreamland
I think there is a line between the bride being demanding and BM's ignoring all the bride's wishes and insisting it's their way only.
If the bride is demanding things must be a particular way then IMO she should be prepared to pay for everything she is dictating, including dress alterations, hair and makeup. If there is anything she wishes the BM's to fund then she should warn them in advance and be prepared to be flexible on what the BM's choose!
BM's in return should do what is reasonable to accommodate the bride and support her, demanding your b00bs are on show is unreasonable, demanding a white/ivory dress is unreasonable if the bride has chosen a different colour but if the bride insists on something she should not expect the BM to pay for it.
Yesterday at our dress fittings, my sister said to the other BM "oh, your shoes are closed in, I've got open toe sandals!" then said to me "should I have closed shoes too?". To which I replied "I don't mind, I gave you both the choice of what you wear on your feet, as long as you're comfortable in them that is what matters, I don't want you in pain half way through the day". The lady who is doing our fittings looked at me in total shock and said how relaxed and nice I was but personally I felt that it was nothing, it's just about being reasonable and knowing what is really important and what isn't.
The other Bride that my sister is BM for just sounds to me like she's gone beyond bridezilla and is actually being really mean.
I actually think that all her guests will be able to see that she has deliberately put her 4 BM's in the most hideous dress, made them look really plain, dowdy and frumpy deliberately so as not to look nice next to her!
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CommentAuthorGillianE
i think i would have dropped out a long time ago too, i really feel for your sister, if i was having bridesmaids i would definately be relaxed with them and not put too many demands on them, letting them choose their own styles in dresses and shoes etc. the bm's should never be made to feel uncomfortable.
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CommentAuthorx~Hails~x
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Two of my bridesmaids (the other two are my daughters so will be paying for them) and my flowergirl are paying for their dresses (well their mums, my sisters are as they offered to pay) but I have picked them as well as what shoes, hair and make up they are all having! Ive even picked their jewellery and tiara as these will be presents lol Even the men's wear has been all picked by me (buttonholes, socks, cufflinks) and h2b (the actual suits and shoes) but 3 of them will be paying (again as they offered).
EDIT I think we have picked nice stuff tho so hopefully no complaints from anyone lol
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CommentAuthorInDreamland
That's what my best mate said to after we'd dropped my sister back home yesterday. Thing is they don't want to upset the bride now, it's their friendship so it's their choice but I would have refused to pay for the alterations then said well if she doesn't pay for them then I won't be her BM and also won't bother going to the wedding and save myself £400 in accommodation, petrol and food and drink money.
She would have felt more comfortable I think just being a guest and then wearing something that didn't make her look 30 years older than she is and at least she'd be able to wear makeup and have her hair in a style that would hold in place for the day.
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CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
omg ................ PLEASE CAN I SLAP HER .... how rude and uncaring is she being to her bm`s
Lala and Heather, please go ahead! I'm more upset that she is upsetting my sister and her other friends who are all so lovely. My sis is actually spending 4 times more on this girls wedding than she is on mine!
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CommentAuthorAmyK
Pfft! This bride sounds so insecure & downright unreasonable. Sure, I've chosen & paid for all aspects of BMs outfits, but they're wearing such gorgeous dresses I want one for myself!!!
CommentAuthorInDreamland
Ditto Amy, I wonder if my best mate will let me have hers after the wedding, she'll never wear it again and is the same size as me.
Thing is, the bride is actually as attractive as my sister and her friends so has nothing to worry about xx
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CommentAuthorMichelleB2b
I think she's being unreasonable. For me, my main priority is that my bridesmaids are comfortable on the day. They are all very different and have different styles so to put them all on the same outfit and dictate what they do about hair and make-up would be wrong. I have asked them to be bridesmaids so they all have a role in the day and know they are important to me, but I want them to do that by being themselves as individuals. I had a dilemma about paying for the dresses, as I have ten of them in total, but now I'm paying for the dresses and they will pay if they want hair and make-up done, and will wear their own shoes. I wouldn't dream of making them wear anything they clearly did not like.
CommentAuthorMrsH-2B
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Wow ! Bridezilla indeed ! I have had to tell all my cousins that they're girls (8 of them at 12 years old and under) can't be bridesmaids because 1. I'm not having the hassle of arguments if I chose one and not the other and 2. We just can't afford to be having to buy that many dresses and pay for alterations etc.. I'd rather do that then say to their parents, oh by the way, you're paying for all of that ! I'm only having a MOH which is my sis in law, aslong as it is silver, floor length and doesn't only have the one shoulder strap thing then she can choose what she wants.. I want her to feel comfortable xxx
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CommentAuthorInDreamland
My best mate thinks that she is less bridezilla and more b!tch for doing that to her friends and I have to agree x
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CommentAuthorMrsH-2B
Well, yes.. That would be the more truthful way of saying it ! Xx
