Im really upset but also angry and dont know what to do...

My best mate and me have been really close for years....
Now i talked to her about the Hen night, and we decided that we would dress up as School Girls (St Trinians)
I sent the invites out, and have had all 18 back saying yes they would love to come, but out of the 18...10 of them dont wanna dress up.... (as they are slightly large women) i really dont wanna make them feel uncomfortable, so i did say to everyone, OK we wont have fancy dress, just go as you want too and wear whatever your comfy in.....all i really want is them to have a good night... so i FB messaged my best mate telling her its not fancy dress no more.. (shes more likely to read FB email than a text to be honest)

Now i have just had a text from her sayin.. "Oh wen was you gonna tell me its not fancy dress as i have already been out and bought my clothes"
I said i did tell you a few weeks back, but shes saying i didnt.... i sent EVERYONE a private email on FB... and i have the copy of it!!

Now the thing is.. for some reason she seems to be leaving me out of the things that she does... Not that it botheres me in the slightest, but her FB status is... Having *** over for Drinks and BBQ.... and the next says Having **** over for a party, having so much fun!!
Yet not once has she ever invited me and Kev over for drinks.... I just feel im being pushed away now for some reason...
She has also text me saying where are we going... or has that changed.... i sent back saying we are starting at Dukes, then prob going onto B'mouth... so she sent me back saying... Ill come to Dukes but NOT going to B'mouth..

This is meant to be my BEST friend!!!!

What are you all making of this???


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Hmmm.... shes getting married on 17 sept.. and i have agreed to EVERYTHING in her Hen even though im not keen of some things....

Just feel that maybe she dont wanna be my friend anymore cos all these new people have come along....
Everytime i text her to go over, shes busy .. then she says a few hours later about these "New" friends, on FB.. im not bothered but just need to know either way, as im not changing things just for HER!!!

Not sure Hoxxy....

but she has just texted me and said well if i dont enjoy ya hen night i have lots of other friends that will be in the pub as thats
where they all go.. she said she will f**k off with them....

Great Best Mate!!! :(

oh no god knows why she is being so difficult shes prob a tad bit jealous that ur wedding is before hers so ur having ur hen before hers xx

I have just told her NOT to come....

I have had texts back n forth and its not nice.. i have told her to go out with HER mates and stay away from my hen night !!

She's probably miffed that she spent the money on an outfit which won't be used, money might be tight for her. But surely it's easy enough to go and return! Hope you have a good night.

Melliecake..... there is nothing for her to buy... we dressed up as a st trinians last year.. she has it all.. shes just being AWKWARD!!!

Oh well Im not bothered to be honest..
My HEN night WILL go ahead.. without her an i WILL have fun!!! :)

good on you trish. have a great time and she'll soon realise shes missing out when her 'new' friends arent all there build up to be.