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General wedding discussion!: Really upset

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- CommentAuthorPuddleduck87
I'm ordering my save the dates and officially let people know that we have set a date in the past few days.

I have been making sure I have everyones addresses correct for when I send out their save the dates and anyone I don't have the number for I have been asking on facebook.

I have had 2 cousins, and 3 friends log on to facebook today, change their status and reply to everyone else but they havn't replied to my message telling them I need their address. I feel like telling them to F*ck.

Am I being sensitive?
- CommentAuthorMrs fairytale
no hun u arent, people dont realise how much work goes into a wedding and they are a pain in the arse xx

cant wait to renew my vows, love my hubby sssssooooo much xx
- CommentAuthorSuz80
no sweety youre not.. i would think it rude aswell. Give them a day or 2 and if you dont have an answer then think of the money your saving. But then again i have been known to be a right b***h.
- CommentAuthorMrs Daltry
aww hun,,please dont be upset,this is just the start of your journey,,,i know were your coming from ,and if they cant be bothered to reply then the simple answer is not to invite them,and when they ask were their invites are,tell them straigh,you didnt reply to my message!!!
- CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs Nicol
ur not being sensitive, it takes alot of time and effort to plan a wedding so u need everyones details correct.. Could u check with family to c if they would have the details...

- CommentAuthorxxsophieMxx
no your'e not chick. its soooo annoying when people do that. facebook can be a right bitc h sometimes! fairytale is right, so much work goes into planning a wedding and youd expect people to realise that and have the decency to reply x
- CommentAuthorlittle_maus
aaaawwww huni dont get yourself all upset they will reply just give it a couple of days i no how you feel i get all the time for something so mundane as arrangeing a games night then all the friends moan cos i havent arranged one its there fault for not replying if they dont get back to you in a couple days just scratch them off the list lol xxxxx
- CommentAuthorangeleyes
maybe put it as ur status for people to check their messages and reply, its only a small thing in the top corner, i end up missing it all the time. so they might just be total fools like me that dont pay attention. x
- CommentAuthorPuddleduck87
Ha! I updated my status to this

Thanks for all getting back to me inbetween updating your status and playing your f*cking games! You know who you are and why Im f*cked off.

Within...ooooohh 5 mins I got a reply from 1 person. If the others don't reply then I'm not bothering to waste my time finding out their address. I already sat online all night the other night searching for them in the phonebook to find their addresses that way. I'm clearly not as important as animal-pet-mafia farm so when the wedding arrives they can sit at home and play that instead.
- CommentAuthorangeleyes
haha not quite what i had in mind but it seems to have worked!! lol well done hun xxx
- CommentAuthor'ca'ca'ca
i don't think you're being over sensitive at all, but see if they reply by next time you log in, if not, send them one of those face book email thingies and ask them if they read your comment, and if they did why they didnt reply, as you need to know their details for your big day. Give them a chance, but don't let them take the pee. Most importantly, don't let it get you down, it's probably them being idle/ in a rush/ didnt see it as opposed to any malicious intent. Good luck <3 x
- CommentAuthor'ca'ca'ca
i see now that i type too slowly. Sorry! Glad it;s all sorted now though Puddleduck <3 x
- CommentAuthorVx Debz xV
I'd be the same way... most of my guests are on Fb list so will be sending out messages asking for postal addresses in June when everything's booked, If I don't get a response within a week, They won't be getting the invite, so will cross them off the list :) simples. x
- CommentAuthorCeCe
Ere Duckie - I think you are being a bit sensitive...but I think you have a right to be irritated.

You have to remember your wedding is 101% important to you..but, to others it isn't anywhere near as important. That is NOT a dig at you OR your wedding that goes for ALL brides and individual weddings.

Just remember getting ars ey over no replies on the same day is pointless..people reply in their own time..give them a day or 2 and if they don't reply send them a mail to ask for it again and if no reply then I would assume they have no real manners and do yourself a favour and save your £££ and don't invite them (be sure to wait for them moaning when they do not get an invite!!!).

;)
- CommentAuthorHoxxyhula
I tend to agree with CeCe.

But then I have not yet done this part of it yet....!

xx
- CommentAuthorLittlegerald
You're not being unreasonable asking for their addresses they are being rude if they are not replying. I'm sure if it was them they would think it rude not to reply. If they don't come back to you within the next week I would scratch them off the list...some of my distant family and H2B's family have been rude to us like this and to be honet I would rather pay for people that actually want to be there so no you're not being sensitive at all...weddings take time and money to prepare and they have obviously not thought about that at all. xx

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