Hi ladies,

I set my heart on a venue recently & all planning was going well, until I received this by mistake. The lady in question realised her mistake & tried to recall the message but it was too late.

I'm actually really hurt by what has been said here, I'm sure this kind of thing happens, but to be made aware of it in this way has really put a downer on everything. My partner & I have no had to go & tell our families why we can't marry at this venue, I'm gutted!

Has this ever happened to anyone & what did you do?

On 3 May 2012, at 20:39, <*****+++++++++++++.com> wrote:

Hi Carlo

I need your advice on this wedding, I know this probably doesn't sound very nice, but I am trying to put this wedding off as I don't think they are the type of people that we would want to have at ***** Park.

I spoke to the Bride yesterday as she was enquiring about availability, and I have put her off for now by telling her the dates that she is looking at are not available, but she has asked me if I can get back to her with available dates around end of June beginning of July 2013.

Help!!!

M******

We've had an apology now & to be honest could probably get a discount on the wedding, but we wouldn't want to marry in the company of people who make judgements like this.

Sorry to post this but I had to get it of my chest, we are far from undesirable characters, but it makes you think when viewing venues Xx

Oh my god that's shocking! Feck them hun and take your money elsewhere. She's just completely tainted it. How dare she judge you - isnt your money as good anyone elses? Cheeky cow :( x

Ummmmm, my venue is in Hertfordshire, just by Watford ..........down the road from The G****e
xx

Oh my god that is actually appalling I would be taking this to the papers, absolutely ridiculous behaviour from so called professionals and the second case on the forum this month.

OMG this is aweful!!
What does she mean by the "not the type of people that we would want to have at ***** park"?
Who is she to say who can and cant pay for their services!!!!!
If i was you hun i would see this a a lucky escape, imagine you had recieved this after you had booked and paid for this venue.
I would also send back and a very strongly worded email and write up a negative review about the venue on the web.

Hopefully your venue is out their and you will find it and it will be even better than this shocking venue.
xx

Oh Phew, thanks hun, sorry, didn't want to sound selfish but was worried it was my venue, beginning with H .......... if it was them I would have been really shocked and disappointed as they are fantastic! I'd highly recommend them! Come to my venue hun! You'd be welcome there!

Go to the Watford Observer and other local papers, that's where you'll do the most damage.

It's disgusting!

xx

Ok, I know where it is! Begins with an S........... ?

Not hard to work out, googled wedding venue bucks Park ...........wedding coordinator is called Michelle ..........I should be a detective.

Stuck up that's all I can say! To be honest it's the kinda place we wouldn't want to go to as they're just pretentious!

xxx

I'd be furious hun! Seriously, come to my venue, they'll treat you both like royalty there and I bet for a lot less money! No fireworks allowed though I'm afraid, I did enquire.

Think S ......on Trent ..........S.............City? Am I right?

S ........Park?

xxx

omg!! that is horrific! id go mad xx

We're not naming ;)

We're certainly giving all the hints though.

I'm so angry for you as I know how I'd feel if it had happened to me! As far as I'm concerned, if people want to have a wedding somewhere and can afford it, that's all that should matter surely?

How much were their packages just out of interest? I ask because they're a golf club so you'd have strangers milling around your wedding venue. Mine is exclusive use of the house and grounds.
xx

Oh & I only got an apology from management & not the coordinator directly xx

What did they say hun?

This is what angers me more Dreamland, she'd emailed my with a bespoke package....THEN decided we're not worthy!

It's was £265 pp. I know it's a lot but we weren't having a huge wedding party.

Thanks cford, only one apology though & not from the coordinator in question! Xx

Hun, they are disgusting, cretins! Can't think of another horrid word to describe them.

They certainly don't deserve your money, not even if they heavily discount it now. It will always be at the back of your mind.

I suggest shopping around at other venues.

Plugging mine to you .............they're brill, know how to treat their customers and good value. If you want somewhere on par with S Park, try The G***e, H2B and I went for lunch there after we'd visited our venue to meet photographers, it's nice there, rather posh, 7 wedding function rooms ............you might like it.

xxx

thats awful! id ring her and say "hiya love its so and so and i have two words for you.......F*** you" and put the phone down- how dare they speak about someone and make judgements.....so snotty....

I'll post my venue on your wall hun as I don't wanna get in trouble for advertising.
xxx

Well in that case give them as much bad publicity as they can handle because if the management are as vile as her then they deserve it. You would'nt want anyone else to be treated the way you have would you.

Have posted on your wall hun xxx

This is disgusting, and you are the second person in as many weeks that this has happened to....
Who was the other bride that had an email sent to her by mistake?

how DARE they even guess what 'your background' might be.......whats your background got to do with it? and who the F*** is she to judge you?

That is disgusting and im shocked... well done for going to the top dog but i wouldnt want my wedding recpetion there now if they paid me. You would think they would want money and people in their venue for future business....

My brother and his now wife went to view a manor house near us and they had a good budget, walked in the women looked them up and down (they are both 23) and said 'before i waste my time with you both, the minimum package is £12,000, can you afford this?' My brother was not impressed so his reply was 'thats under our budget so quite comfortable to continue but unsure if it will meet your high standards yet?' the house was stunning and they could afford it but on the grounds on the snobby, rude woman they didn't book but made her show them around twice....

This is absolutely disgusting, how dare they say that!! Her opinions mean nothing she is merely the dogsbody taking bookings, how dare she judge you like that. Take your money elsewhere, it is their loss, i'm sure you will find another fabuolous venue. I agree with the other b2b's that say go public!! Make sure they never ever forget this!!

x

I would be fuming if this happened to me!!! How judgemental and completely out of order! I would NOT be giving them my money now If it were me and I would most certainly make a complaint!

Sarah x

This is absolutly disgusting, how flippin dare she the stupid stuck up snobb, id have the email printed and put in every paper, put a bad review on their site and all other sites it was advertised on i.e. wedding sites, golf sites etc. I feel so angry reading this. They wouldnt get my money now if it was me, Id go somewhere else where i know id be welcome no matter what. x

O....M.....G!!! I'm shocked!!! How rude!! I would be going to trip advisor and reviewing them to be honist!! x

this is disgusting and i am so glad your not going to get involved with this venue this is dispicable behaviour and the co-ordinator should be jumping at the chance to take on another wedding not putting you off!!!!!!!!

name and shame with the press and also ask for an aplogy from the co-ordinator and ask for heads to roll as its disgusting that she can even write an email like that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i'm fuming for you!!!!!!!