hi all,

feeling really down today and my h2b is really annoying me, meant to go to a wedding fair monday and hes now made plans, and saying i didnt ask him, he still hasnt told his parents were getting married, i know were not til til 2012 but i dont know why he wont tell them, part of me wonders why im still with him cos he just lets me down all the time, we have a 2 year old son, and he goes out most nights i never used to mind bcos i prefer staying in but i just feel so down and i just dont know what to do :( :( :( xx

Hey hun, sorry you're feeling so down, only you know if the good times outweigh the bad tho. I hope for u that they do. xxxx

yeah i'd try and sort it now hun, it is a bit strange he wont tell his parents, unless he's just worried what they will say. the answer to most problems is to talk about it although most of the time thats the hardest thing to do. i hope your ok xx

thanks guys, we do get time together, my parents will have jake whenever and so will his, buzzlightyear- i have left him before and he said he'd change and he did for a while, he tells me i should remind him about things, and iv just found out im not going to see him tomo or monday cos hes working on his car! im fuming and so upset right now :( x

sorry to hear u feeling low at the mo hun, have to agree with the other ladies. when H2B and i where first together i left him as he couldnt give me what i wanted and he wasnt ready for an adult relasonship. but after i told him exactly what it was that i wanted and what i expected and needed everything has been good, he now knows that i will not take crap lol, talk to him hun or u will only end up feeling worse xxx good luck xxxx

hey guys- just a little update iv had a talk with him, he apologised for forgetting and said he'll make it up to me, he said he hasnt told his parents yet cos he doesnt see the urgency but he thinks we should find a venue we like then tell them about it, and he also said he definatly take me to the next one i want to go too, he says he has been a bit distant cos hes worried about money issues atm but itl all be over by may which is good, so im looking at wedding bits today and going to make a scrapook, so feeling a lot btter :) x

Glad you managed to talk things through and things are looking brighter honey x

aww Rainbow I'm so pleased you feel better today. I think most of us on here at some point have or will write a post like yours! I really do understand more now that men simply don't get as wrapped up in all the prep as us girlies do, they don't see things the same as us and that causes conflict! I got my h2b to just say " Oooo thats lovely" to everything I show him, as he's not really that bothered if I've found the perfect pink for the flowers ... but he knows it's important to me and thats what matters xx

I think you such try and go away for a couple of days, have long walks, talk and reconnect. let him know how you are feeling. and get back on track. good luck darling

thats good xxxxx glad it's all sorted xxxx