.......... we had all our money problems sorted!!!!!
He goes and takes £10 out of our acc yesterday and then £20 today!!!!!
We have no money in our account at all - bar £30 that i was due to transfer into our wedding fund today..... But hes went n spent it already!
Txt him about it and he need cigs and lunch yday and today he needs lunch
Ive demanded the change back so we can bank it and he can smoke rollies from now on cos god knows we have loads of tobacco in the house!
Its just not fair! We dont get paid till friday (his payday is next tuesday) so he knows we didnt have ne money in our account. We've already spent hundreds from our wedding fund for his blummin mums birthday
Its just not fair!
Why do i always have to be the responsible one???
xx
Happily Married! :) xxx
CommentAuthorJessica
Why dont you close the joint account if its not working out, then you pay the mortgage for example and have him pay gas eec water etc from his account. We are not having a joint account even now we are married x
CommentAuthorJoolsy
I'm the same Nic I always handled the wedding fund and I ended up putting it in my mums savings account so he wouldnt be able to touch it he is a nightmare he just kept saying it's fine it will get paid!! I would have a serious word wit H2B tell him that he has to stop spending the last of your money xx
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CommentAuthorWawa
like the girls say hunni why dont you close the joint account then have indevidual accounts thats what we are doing then what we are doing then eachpayday put some money in to it. we found it worked and got loads of plan sorted , which im glad about coz im still not in a job. hope it works and u get sorted hunni (((hugs)))
CommentAuthor~* Jen *~
I think I'm lucky in the way that I do the spending and he does the saving!! lol. We have a joint account, but it's for weddings only, and we have direct debits that take a set amount from our accounts after payday. We're not tryng to save the tiny bits because living is important too, and we want money to enjoy the runup to the wedding as well as the wedding!
Maybe it's worth trying to get a direct debit thing set up, and relaxing a bit more on the little things? You have got quite a while to go. Sorry if my advice isn't very helpful. Love xxxx
when we move out we're gona have a joint account we transfer money in to to cover rent/bills then keep our own money seperate in our own accounts to spend how we like. im hoping that will avoid any arguments but i dont know if that will be the case! x
CommentAuthorb2bnicola
Im going to have a serious word with him 2nite cos its bang out of order! He better of only spent like £3 on his dinner! I mean I earn WAY more than him and im the one each month that has to spend less cos he ends up spending more.....
Its just not fair!
And he wants an iphone and its allllll I hear about - iphone iphone iphone bla bla bla
xx
Happily Married! :) xxx
CommentAuthorDrunchPunk
I have to say, I agree with the other girls on here. My n my h2b have our own accounts and our salaries go in there. Then we each pay an amount into our joint account, and from this we pay the mortgage, the bills and save anything left for the wedding.
We both have cards for the joint account, BUT if I felt he couldn't be trusted to use it for genuinely joint purchases, then I'd cut it up! From what you've said, maybe you should get him to agree that he shouldn't have access to the account since he can't be trusted, and take the card from him!
CommentAuthorDaffy
Me and H2b keep our money seperate at the mo. He earns more than me so basically he pays his rent and my lodge at home. Then i use my money to fill my car up then i put the rest in savings. When i want money i ask him. We have an agreement if anything is over £10 we discuss it first. Hope yo uget it through to him x
