Sorry to rant on here ladies just don't know who else to talk to! Basically my bro in law to be is my ex from many years ago and that's how i met h2b. His now ex has never liked me because I was her fellas ex which is fine. But now she is being so nasty to me because they have now split up and she decided she was comin out with us the weekend 2 mil2b birthday. And basically I deleted her off the big blue book and she is now sayin I'm a nasty fat jealous cow who's fella is only with me cause he messed up his last marriage and had no better offers!! Also that none of my in laws like me and they all slag me off. I just feel so low and rubbish about myself rite now. Bil2b is such a coward and won't say anything to her because she will stop him seeing his kids! She uses them against him all the time. Sorry to rant ladies x

hunnie rise above it! your better than that your h2b has chosen to be with you and you with him!! she's silly and immature!! keep ur chin up and smile :) that will make her feel worse! you can block her on the big blue book and sometimes in your phone there something wrong with her not you xx

didnt know about your divorce sorry been there myself hope ur ok xx

awww honey good start deleting her from the book of face but you need to delete from your life now. she sounds poisonous and what she says is not true. you don't need people like that anywhere near you.

I just feel really fed up now. She has always been a nasty cow but this time she has really gone below the belt! There is so much I want to say to her but won't lower myself to her level. X

Thanks Hun. I just don't understand y she would start now. X

coz she has no one else to lash out at sad person really xx

She has started now because you are happy and she wants what you have but can't have it. You are beautiful on the inside and out and have lots of good things about you that she will never have. As hard as it is you need to forget about low life like her and remember the important things like that Mark loves you and no silly cow can take that away from you. Like Dionne said you are great company and she is just jealous because you have everything!

You know something I never used to have confidence yet I have more now since I put on weight than what I did before. Its all about your mind set and attitude. It doesn't matter what other people think as most of the time they are eager to put you down to make themselves feel better as they lack confidence.

When I saw you I never thought Oh my look she is fat. I came away thinking how lovely you are and that you are really pretty and I wish I had boobs like that ;)

You have so many good things about you but you are just not seeing them. Everyone else can see it so its about time you started to love yourself too and stop giving yourself a hard time. It sounds like you just need to spend more time with positive people around you.

I cut out anyone who was negative and replaced them with positive people and its amazing how not having people dragging you down all the time can make. Its not about how many people you know its about how they impact your life.

I'm just telling you how you came across the other day. I find this world is very quick to tell you what is wrong with you but very few tell you what is right. I'm sure that if you actually asked other people what they thought of you that you would be very surprised at all the nice things they say about you. At the moment you are just asuming people think bad of you because that is what you are thinking of yourself but you will find the truth is nothing like what you think it is.

Does it really matter if she does say anything to anyone else? They will be more than able to make up their minds and if anything they will think bad of her not you. Anyone that knows you knows that what she says isn't true. She is just making herself look an idiot.

She is more then likely doing this because her relationship failed and yours hasnt and your happy and she is feeling sorry for her self. If your bro in law 2 b wont talk to her then ask you h2b to have a word with him

I love u ladies so much!! U always manage to make me smile. Thank you all. I'm not gonna loose any sleep over her now. Xx

I'm ok thanks jen. Just not gonna let her get to me. I know I'm better than her. She just needs to grow up alot! Thanks again ladies x