H2B loves the band Skindred and is desperately trying to get them to play at our wedding...I am really not a fan myself but I am happy for him to have something he loves its his day too....but now he has found an amazing 4 piece string quartet group who play loads of music we like and he is torn...I said we could have both but he said no it's one or the other...he is going to spend ages agonising over this... it's one of the most important things to him about our big day...well that and the food they are his main things he wants a big say in he said I could have whatever I wanted for everything else as long as I was happy he was happy...he is sooooo great I love him!!!!

arr thats nice well if ur aloud to pick everything else then let him hav his band. or because you both like the string quatet have them and they may be able to do sum music from the band he likes. but its up to u both if he really likes it let them have them and then everythink else u can have, result! :) hope i was sum help. x

It would have to be the Band for me!!! The only thing Dodge has really got involved with is the music... Ive let him choose everything and he has chosen a rock band for our big night so if he is happy I am happy!

We're having a rock band... but we both love them! You have to decide between yourselves what you both want and stick to that decision. If you're not keen on the band then its not going to be a great evening for you when they are playing at the reception! Why not try and find a band you both like?