Cupcakes!

You don't necessarily have to get them anything, but making sure they're mentioned in the groom's speech as a thank you is mandatory. I'm getting my mum and his step mum a bunch of flowers each which isn't much, I have 2 flowergirls that I'm giving personalised bracelets on the day (only £4 each off the bay!) and the BM I'm giving her her dress and jewellery anyway so she will just have a mention in the speech too - the best man is also his dad so during the groom's speech we'll give him something as a thank you but nothing major - basically we're only presenting gifts to those on top table, everyone else, we hope applause and thanks is enough!

I don't think you need to buy for all of those. Fathers I don't think will expect something, nore ushers, flower girls, page boy... The only ones are usually mums, bridesmaids and anyone else that might have helped you out. xxx

Thanx girls, I just feel a litte mean not getting prezzies, but we are paying for all their outfits (which they get to keep) & the mom's r all having special coursages, so I suppose we shouldn't feel that guilty