Well here I am, up at 2am as I can't sleep. Found out 2day that i am pregnant. only a few people know and im only about 4 weeks or summit, missed my period 2 days ago.
didnt really want to get pregnant atm as i wanted to be super slim for the wedding and i love scuba diving so was hoping to do this on honeymoon. but here i am!! just stuffed a load of dry crackers down my gob and wide awake!!
so no new dog when i move to germany as i dont think i could handle a puppy and a 6 month old baby alone when h2b goes to afghan next june for 6 months. still in shock - cried down the phone to my brother!! but h2b is being really supportive and altho hes shocked himself (and making me tell his mum!!) hes being really good about it which i wasnt expecting.
so all in all mixed emotions but im sure once i go to see the doc next week itll all seem a little more real and i can then start geting excited. ive wanted a baby for ages but now its happening its all very weird! lol.
ive not told alot of people (inc most of my family) but wanted to share on here - dont tell anyone else! lol xx
CommentAuthorEnny
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Congratz :) first of all :) if you dont eat all the unhealthy stuff around you and have a healthy diet you wont gain to much weight anyway it all depends how you deal with that lots of women use it as an excuse to eat as much as they want especially they think they have to eat for two but you dont really got to :), but at the end did really doesnt matter my best friend got married and 2days later her son arrived :) i definitely think its not so easy if you gonna have a little one, a puppy and you re moving to Germany (do u speak any german at all?). I think it will be an exciting time :)
CommentAuthorZoe81
Congratulations! We really want a baby but have made the decision to wait until after the wedding now, but if it happened as an accident before then we'd still be over the moon! I think you're right and it's the shock and after you've been to the doctors and it all seems a bit more real I'm sure you'll be really excited and not worried about the dress or the wedding at all!
Z x
CommentAuthormrs jenkinson 2b
Congrates hun i no how u feel with the mixed emotions i also found out other day that im about 6wks gone lol and it was like no please 3mths to wedding but wot u do lol good luck xxx
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CommentAuthortracey1981
i have three kids and ill tell you what I hardly gained anything in the first 5 months, eat sensibly and as for the shock, it will pass for both of you. Congrats by the way, you will be fine, with my second, I was dating my h2b for 6 months, long distance and fell pregnant and he was shocked, scared and didnt react but week later, supportive and excited and then he had to move and meet my son from previous relationship, shocked and nervous are expected so dont worry and enjoy, Congrats again !!!!
congrats hun it will all work out try not to worrie when i fell with my first we had been trying for 3 years and i had almost gave up then it happened and i didn't no what to do i was all over the place i hid it from every one till i was 8 weeks and as 4 gaining weight if you dont over do it with junk what goes on will come off im not saying it will b easy to get of every one is diferent some it comes of straight a way some have to work at it a little just remember at the end of it all you will have the perfect little family you your husband and your child the pup well can come later x
CommentAuthorMrsTacky2B
Congratulations hunny, when the shock goes you will be so excited, as long as you dont go mad with the chocs and that i cant see why not you wouldnt look a slim bride, how exciting a baby. Good luck and let the fun begin xx
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CommentAuthormrsheavey2b
and congrats you as well mrs jenkinson 2b
CommentAuthorSteffie
congratulations!!! xxx
CommentAuthorMilly87
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Thanks everyone. I dont really know why I am shocked tbh, im not on the pill, we never use protection and we had 'fun' the weekend i ovulated!! weve done it so many times and nothing ever happened that i suppose we both got it in our heads that one of us didnt work!! my h2b actually said that he wasnt sure if he was more shocked that he worked or that he was gonna be a dad! lol.
i think talking about it to people other than my mum and brother (who are both VERY excited!) and my dad that thinks i am playing a joke on him, is making it all sink in more and im feeling a smile break out a little bit instead of the wobbly mouth :s
Ever since i was a small child, i always wanted to be 24 and thought by that age i would be a sophisticated, well dress woman, married with a baby and couldnt wait to get there, well here i am and half my dream is coming true!! ill be married in sept and the baby is due 5 days before my 25th birthday in Jan!! ive just got to work on the sophisticated and well dressed bit! lol. even 1 year ago, i still didnt think my childhood dream would come true, but here i am!! must have happened for a reason!
soon comes the hard bit - trying to decide on a name with h2b!! im pretty sure this will be the hardest part of the whole pregnancy, including the birth!! we cant decide what we want for tea, let alone a name for our baby!! oh well, like you said leah (btw your name is on my shortlist!!) 'Let the fun begin!' xx
CommentAuthorMrs (Dove) Pidgeon
Congrats!!!
And names are hard to chose....
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CommentAuthorMrsd
Ahhh lovely news congratulations. x
CommentAuthorMilly87
My German surprise baby came 5 months early!! lol
CommentAuthorPeach
Ahhh Congratulations and try not to worry everything will be fine. Telling your mum will probably make you feel better xxx
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CommentAuthorxxhan87xx
Congrats how exciting!! I dont think.you will be huge by your wedding.maybe a tiny cute bump or.something.just resist the cravins lol and you will.be.at you blooming/glow stage.by your wedding day i.remember getting full of life between 4-6 months with my 3 its.the.inbetween bit after the morning sickness and before the massive belly hehe x
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CommentAuthorMilly87
im vegetarian so im dreading the cravings, i bet i start craving bacon or summit (i hate bacon!!). i do however love chocolate. must. be. strong! x
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congrats!! xx
CommentAuthorMrsH2B
Congratulations! How exciting for you. I keep wanting to try for our 2nd but would mean taking a very young child abroad so will try when we are there instead & we might come back to a surprise lol. I've never been small & I got gestational diabetes at the end of my pregnancy but everything I put on came off while breastfeeding it's all the jiggle I had b4 that I still can't shift lol. Best of luck to you both! X
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Congratulations :D xxxx
CommentAuthorMumble83
Congratulations!!!! Names were hard for me too but I just sat down one day with 3 baby names books and wrote down all the girls names I liked and then all the boys names I liked and just kept going back to it and whittling them down. Posted a link on your wall that will help too. It helped me a lot in deciding names for my kids. Good Luck. xxx
CommentAuthorMilly87
thanks mumble! ill have a look now :) and thanks to everyone else. im am getting very excited now, keep talking about it and imaging a little baby in my arms! its gonna be hard being away from all my family for the first year being in germany and then not having my h2b for 6 months but ill have our little one and well yay! haha. thank god for skype!! xx
CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs Laura
congrats :D everything happens for a reason, just means u can't get drunk on ur wedding day lol
as for names i'm not even pregnant but have decided already what they are.... for a boy its joeseph after my grandad who recntly passed away, and a girl is megan.
matt hasn't really had a say on it but he likes the names so no problems there lol.
congrats again
CommentAuthorMilly87
Thanks :) i dont really drink alot anyway, so thats quite good. i know some people that cant go a week without having a drink, im glad i got out of that a few years back!! i have 2 other weddings to go to this year and i was more bothered about not drinking at them! how am i gonna dance without a drink! lol, it masks my badness (to me anyway).
i wanted george as a middle name after my grandad but my h2b doesnt like that very much. its gonna be a long 9 months!! the link i have just ben sent is wicked tho, lots of good info and its humorous too so keeping me entertained!! x
CommentAuthorMrsDadson :0)
Congratulations hun, how exciting for you both xx
CommentAuthorMrs.Caz.Lewis
congrats hun! i no what u mean im 4 months pregnant and getting married next month :s so will be 6 months pregnant when married lol and dress is already bit tight haha if your dress is slightly bigger though it gives room to grow :) x x
CommentAuthorMrs b to be
Congrats to you both :) Picking names is quite hard me and h2b to could only come up with 1 boys and 1 girls name we liked Lol x
CommentAuthorMilly87
Just booked my appointment with the midwife for monday, really excited now!!
CommentAuthorMrs.Caz.Lewis
congrats hun :) x
CommentAuthorClarabella
1st of all congratulations to you both!!!!! and 2nd i felt exactly the same when i fell pregnant. I had wanted to have a baby for ages and then my head went to our wedding as h2b proposed in sept and i fell pregnant in jan!! So when i took the test i didnt expect it to be positive. I wanted to tell h2b in person that her wsa going to be a dad and had to wait all day to see him as we were working completly different shifts from each other but even when i told him and told everyone else i was in floods of tears cos i couldnt believe it. H2b had said that if we got pregnant before the wedding then our budget would be slashed heaps which it has but weve since then changed the date 3 or 4 times already. If my daughter hadnt come along we would of been getting married this june but i would never change her for the world XxX
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CommentAuthorLittle Kettle
Huge congrats to you both! I can imagine it must of been a shock initially, but what great news! Very happy for you both Hx
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CommentAuthorteamelnaaqib
Congratulations!! How exciting!! xx
CommentAuthorAngelaeris
awww congrats I'm, so jelous of all the mummies to be on here of late. I cant wait for our wedding now so we can start making babies.
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CommentAuthorsarahwasabride
congrats! xx
CommentAuthorMumble83
Glad you like the link hun. xxx
CommentAuthorMilly87
its brill !! ooh im so excited now, been on the phone to h2b and been trying to decide names as i went down the list. we both like Lexi but hes concerned that a girl on his squadron has a 18 month old daughter called lexi. i dont think it matters, we didnt copy her and we will only be there for a year. xx
CommentAuthorEnny
U will be fine at the moment u dont even know if its going to be boy or girl hun :) and also as a tip off the first 3month to give extra care of urself!!! very important!!!
CommentAuthorEmsy5000
Congrats I am glad you are feeling better about it I am sure your excitement will just grow from now on
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CommentAuthorPrincess Sarahbelle
congrats hun i wish we would have a baby now lol i want one
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CommentAuthorMilly87
I am ridiculously excited now altho suffering from VERY sore b00bs and feel quite sick. loving the excuse to sleep more during the day! lol. can't seem to eat tho. yday all ate was cereal and some dry crackers then suddenly got hungry at about 9pm so had some dinner.
CommentAuthorMrs.Caz.Lewis
hey milly, i had alot of bad morning sickness with mine, they say to keep nausea at bay have some ginger nuts next to bed and nibble some before getting up cos i found if i didnt id sit up and instantly throw up, so long as u dont mind crumbs in bed haha. im now at 17 weeks and sickness stopped now so YAY lol. they say try eating several small meals a day hun :) we dont know gender yet, got second scan on 27th where we may find out if we want to (we dont have been told its more special giving birrth and findin out then) but we already got our names sorted lol :)
love lexi btw x x x
CommentAuthorMilly87
yea i read this about ginger but im really not a fan, might give it another go tho, i think feeling sick is worse than not liking ginger. cant wait for it all to stop!
i think i will want to find out! i hate not knowing things. even when i came out of my mum they all thought i was a boy! lol. you would have thought trained midwives would be able to tell the difference between a w!lly and a placenta, haha. my mum had to check for herself and was happy i was a girl.
i think we need to start early deciding on names as we are both so indecisive!! its gonna take us 8 months! what names have you gone for or are they a secret?! x