Hi charlotte :) im getting married abroad in Kos in June and i felt the same about websites as you do! We went imto thimson/first choice and they were amazing! We bought the holiday as you would any holiday but paid for all the extras we could in the hotel of our choice, they then made us fill out a few forms to see if the date we wanted was free and sent them off to the wedding team. They said we would hear back in 6 weeks but heard back in 2! We upgraded the wedding location & package and it cost £869 to pay 12 weeks before we go. including flowers,decoration,wedding planner,hair/makeup,private dining for evening reception,upgraded room etc.

Then they give you a list of extras on top like private yahts and BBQs on the beach, but i would just with your instinct. We were told it would be cheaper doing it seperately but all together we felt it was more protected doing it through a well known travel agent & it was cheaper than doing everything seperately.

Hope your planning goes well xxx