im getting all excited waiting for results here lol hurry up terri my hair is turning silver with the stress of it all lol xx
CommentAuthorClarabella
Well i came home from work and told h2b who is in bed that i was ovulationg and he just didnt seem to care that much so well im now in the thinking if we get pregnant again then we get pregnant again. We didnt plan on having our daughter till we was married and that went all to pot so ive given up trying and if h2b wants to then carry on trying then its up to him
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Lost this week 2lbs ;0)
Weighs as of 29/9/12 10 stone 12 lbs
CommentAuthorUnknown
sorry your h2b doesnt seem too interested. hope things get better.
well i did another test yesterday evening and it was definatley negative! it may have been as a tested early and in the evening im just going to wait until i come on or not! xx
CommentAuthordolphin
aw terri, it probably wasnt meant to be this month, sorry, but keep trying and eventually it will happen. x
cant wait to marry the man of dreams 18/5/2013
The first time was a rehursal, this time its for life.
CommentAuthorFutureMrsPite
sorry to hear that clarabella, maybe ur h2b has lost the enthusiasm for it as he might just be seeing it as just an action or maybe too much pressure to perform? i would just relax like u said and think if it happens it happens. Think u both need to spend sometime together not thinking of baby making and just think of love making, if that makes any sense?! show eachother how u feel about them and hopefully nature will take its course without u even trying, can be disheartening especially when ur partner doesnt seem interested, but i know men take 'the deed' as feeling loved by their woman so maybe he needs a bit more of the love and a bit less of the baby for now, and its a win win for u really cos with the love comes the babies! lol
Well we had a talk about our wedding last night and we kinda decided that we would have a scaled down wedding so we'd still get married in our local church but then just have a buffett thing instead so we can save some money then he asked me if i was thinking we should get married next year but i pointed out to him that we couldnt do that cos we couldnt afford it and then told him if we wanted to have another baby then we culdnt do both so i asked him what he wanted more and he said he'd rather have a baby. So now i feel like he only wants me so he can have a baby and that his priority. I know he loves me but now i feel like s**t. He seems to think that as he grew up with only 18 months between him and his annoying bit*h of a sister and they are close now that having our 2nd child will be the same to her future brother or sister but even though ive told him that just because he had that relationship with his sister it doesnt mean our daughter will have the same with her sibling but he thinks im just saying all this cos i dont like his sister which im not. I have 4 older sisters and im the youngest and theres a 10 year age gap between me and the oldest and i wouldnt say that none of us was close to just one sister but he cant see that. I wouldnt say hes lost the enthusiasm i would say its me but as its always been if he's in the mood then i will even though im not but he doesnt do it the other way around
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Lost this week 2lbs ;0)
Weighs as of 29/9/12 10 stone 12 lbs
CommentAuthormrs-anni-oc
if the pain is that bad to make you cry i would advise you to go to your nearest walk-in centre... they will also do a pregnancy test for you to be doubly sure... hope everything is ok for you x
CommentAuthorOct12bride86
My cousen who has been trying for a baby for 5 years found out she was pregnant a few weeks ago. Just when she gave up on fertility treatment she gets pregnant. I am so pleased for her. Yay
Kirsty xxx
Was 14 st now 11st 10lb
CommentAuthormrs-anni-oc
congrats to your cousin oct12 that is great news. x
CommentAuthorUnknown
mrsboyed2b- i would do a test just to be sure and if you are in that much pain your crying i would go to hospital to get checked out!
clarabella....dont feel like sh*t! i know he said he would rather have a baby but he is with you and loves you. he wouldnt want your baby if he didnt. maybe to him he thinks that you will always be together so getting married wont actually change things where as a baby will make your family complete. speak to him and explain how he has made you feel!
well ladies, i still have not come on! got a banging heandache and feel sick today which isnt good though! xx
CommentAuthordolphin
fingers crossed terri. x
cant wait to marry the man of dreams 18/5/2013
The first time was a rehursal, this time its for life.
CommentAuthorUnknown
Thank you! xx
CommentAuthorFutureMrsPite
good luck terri! and mrsboyd i used to have a pain in my right side mostly when i was pregnant so it may be that or just something hormonal, i think the docs may ask u to have one anyway but if they dont i would ask to be tested anyway, just to be sure. well done to ur cousin oct12! bet she is soo happy! and clarabella i think when a man wants to have a baby with u that is more of a commitment to them than a wedding is, at least my partner would c it that way, he still thinks after we r married that theres as much chance for me to leave him etc as when we r not, they dont c it as a huge thing like we do, just a huge expense! lol with the baby making my partner is the same! always up for it so never a chance for him to wait until i am! lol hope u get things sorted, but im sure he doesnt mean to make u feel bad x
As the beatles say, Love Is All You Need x
CommentAuthorJules
Fingers crossed for you Terri xx
I'm marrying the man of my dreams xx
CommentAuthorUnknown
thanks. well today is day 37 of my cycle and normally i come on day 35 or 37 it varies but there is still no sign of af showing.
i have had a headache and feeling sick last night and today which i normally get before so will have to wait and see xx
CommentAuthordolphin
oooohhhhh i cant cant wait much longer, please do one or the other lol. x
cant wait to marry the man of dreams 18/5/2013
The first time was a rehursal, this time its for life.
CommentAuthorClarabella
Terri whats been happening?
Started losing weight last year 22/1/11 - 13 Stone 12 pounds
Lost this week 2lbs ;0)
Weighs as of 29/9/12 10 stone 12 lbs
CommentAuthorUnknown
hiya, well i still havent come on! i did a cheap test this morning and it was negative so going to wait a couple more days and do a clear blue if af doesnt appear. but no sign at the mo! xx
CommentAuthordolphin
still have my fingers and legs crossed for you terri, and ive put the af in a cage so she cant get you, hopefully no one let her out lol. mrsboyd2b, im sorry you test was negative and hope they can find out what is wrong with you soon and hopefully its not too serious, but we are all here for you. x
cant wait to marry the man of dreams 18/5/2013
The first time was a rehursal, this time its for life.
CommentAuthorLolaMay0412
Don't wanna scare you MrsBoyd but could it not be appendicitus?
CommentAuthorUnknown
Hope you feel better soon.
I still havnt come on and done a clear blue digital test this morning and it was negative! I've phoned the docs and a doctor is going to phone me after morning surgery but I prob won't be able to answer cos I will be at work. Eddie thinks that I am pregnant and I hope I am so we will see! Xx
CommentAuthordolphin
I had to do three pregnancy tests with my second child before it came up positive. when it finally came up positive i was nearly three weeks late. x So on one hand there's still a chance, but on the other hand, don't get your hopes up to much just incase your not. x
cant wait to marry the man of dreams 18/5/2013
The first time was a rehursal, this time its for life.
CommentAuthorUnknown
ive done a few tests off the cheaper and they were negative too which is why i did the clear blue.
i dont even feel like im going to come on either as normally the week before i really struggle. im still waiting to hear from the docs at the mo.
im trying not to think about it and just telling myself im late as dont want to get my hopes up xx
CommentAuthordolphin
Thats the best way, fingers crossed for you (think I might perminantley glue them together lol) and hopefully the doctor phones soon. x
cant wait to marry the man of dreams 18/5/2013
The first time was a rehursal, this time its for life.
CommentAuthorUnknown
thanks! so do i! at least i am at home at the mo so can answer the phone. been sent home from work! xx
CommentAuthordolphin
aw bless hope you get some answers soon, maybe you will be able to get to the doctors this afternoon then x
cant wait to marry the man of dreams 18/5/2013
The first time was a rehursal, this time its for life.
CommentAuthorUnknown
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hope so! i cant believe that it didnt show for you until nearly 3 weeks late! xx
CommentAuthordolphin
they think it was because i was sufferng from depression at the time and my periods were all over the place. x
cant wait to marry the man of dreams 18/5/2013
The first time was a rehursal, this time its for life.
CommentAuthorUnknown
that would explain it then. still waiting for the doc to phone! x
CommentAuthordolphin
thats ridiclious, they should have called back by now.x
cant wait to marry the man of dreams 18/5/2013
The first time was a rehursal, this time its for life.
CommentAuthorUnknown
when i phoned this morning i said i wasnt sure if i needed an appointment with a nurse or doctor and she asked what was wrong so i told her. she said she would get the doc to call after morning surgery but it is near lunch now! im going back to work this afternoon so hopefully will get a call soon otherwise i will phone them again x
CommentAuthordolphin
can you not phone them back and say its getting/got worse and no one has phoned you back yet
cant wait to marry the man of dreams 18/5/2013
The first time was a rehursal, this time its for life.
CommentAuthorUnknown
yea. think im going to leave it until midday and then call them back xx
CommentAuthordolphin
ok, keep me informed please, im here till 1.00 then im off out to see my boys school christmas play. x
cant wait to marry the man of dreams 18/5/2013
The first time was a rehursal, this time its for life.
CommentAuthorUnknown
of course i will! hope you enjoy the school play! xx
CommentAuthordolphin
thanx and gd luck, if i dont hear from you before i go i will check when i get back. x
cant wait to marry the man of dreams 18/5/2013
The first time was a rehursal, this time its for life.
CommentAuthorUnknown
thanks! xx
CommentAuthorClarabella
still no word from them?
Started losing weight last year 22/1/11 - 13 Stone 12 pounds
Lost this week 2lbs ;0)
Weighs as of 29/9/12 10 stone 12 lbs
CommentAuthorUnknown
nope....just phoning them xx
CommentAuthorUnknown
its engaged at the moment xx
CommentAuthorClarabella
oh my god !!!!!! do they not know we're waiting lol
Started losing weight last year 22/1/11 - 13 Stone 12 pounds
Lost this week 2lbs ;0)
Weighs as of 29/9/12 10 stone 12 lbs
CommentAuthorUnknown
exactly!! i have just called and spoken to reception and apparently the doctor is working through her calls so i will get a call between 12-2! x
CommentAuthordolphin
Thats stupid. lol hopefully it will be nearer 12 than 2. x
cant wait to marry the man of dreams 18/5/2013
The first time was a rehursal, this time its for life.
CommentAuthorUnknown
i hope so....want to go back to work!! x
CommentAuthordolphin
Are you sure your ok to go back to work? or do you need to keep your mind off things. x
cant wait to marry the man of dreams 18/5/2013
The first time was a rehursal, this time its for life.
CommentAuthorUnknown
when i left my boss just said go so i dont have to go back. just dont know what to do to be honest xx
CommentAuthorClarabella
just stay at home and wait. What time are you meant to be working to? Cos once the doctor has called you back you could always go back to work then if it was worth it?
Started losing weight last year 22/1/11 - 13 Stone 12 pounds
Lost this week 2lbs ;0)
Weighs as of 29/9/12 10 stone 12 lbs
CommentAuthordolphin
aw bless you it must be hard, maybe just wait and see what the doctor says, then if your upto it and have time go and see your brother? x
cant wait to marry the man of dreams 18/5/2013
The first time was a rehursal, this time its for life.
CommentAuthorUnknown
i finish work at 5.30. so would have a few hours xx
CommentAuthorClarabella
Well by the time you get into work (not sure how long it takes you to get to work) but would it be worth it for a few hours? I agree with dolphin wait till the doc calls then go see your brother
Started losing weight last year 22/1/11 - 13 Stone 12 pounds
Lost this week 2lbs ;0)
Weighs as of 29/9/12 10 stone 12 lbs
