Ive done nothing but cry all day im hoping we manage to go ahead but its not looking likely at all, we have the food to buy and room to pay off which I told hubby to do weeks ago. when we got back from mexico he had no job which dropped us right in it even though he started a new 1 straight away he doesnt get paid til next week, im absolutely heart broken, ive spoke to my mates dad who has said he doesnt mind waiting until next week for a payment as hes the dj but if we dont find £200 for saturday the partys off x
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CommentAuthorKatieM93
i know its a hard thing but have u thought about getting one of the pay days loans? or seeing if u can just lend some money off some people, its not like its a long term loan if its only a week, I feel really bad for you :( can no1 else help u out?
CommentAuthoralmost a year wife!!
DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES GET A PAY DAY LOAN - Katie I'm appalled u suggested that! Do u know how much interest they charge!
I'd suggest asking friends and family if they can help it use any wedding present money u get Hope ur ok hun.... Xxx
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CommentAuthorKatieM93
I know how much interest they charge but if its a choice between a payday loan or not getting married id choose the lesser of to evils and get the loan, its only my opinion and im just trying to help, sorry if I offended anyone
CommentAuthoralmost a year wife!!
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She is married, they married Mexico..... This is their reception party...
Nothing is worth them pay day loans and u worry me by saying "the lesser of two evils" why anyone would start their married life with debt is beyond me xxx
I thong appalled was a bit harsh of me I was just a bit shocked sorry x
Just borrow money from friends and family your always doing things for other people and not asking fro help just for once in your life ask for the help from friends and family to get the money so you can have your Mad Hatter Tea Party =D <3 X
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CommentAuthorWhovianbride
Ok ladies calm down, yes pay day loans are rip offs but they fill a need. Each tothere own, but if you can borrow from bank of mum and dad or similar is much better. Have you tried talking to vwnue explaining the predicament your in, or asking your hubbys new employers if he can have his wages early this week as your in a tight spot, we 've done that before, or talk to your bank about a overdraft ? Lots of options
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CommentAuthorMrsX2b
Go see your bank and get a credit card with 0% and have your day, U have done sooo much diy you shouldnt let it go to waste. So sorry to hear thisxxx
CommentAuthorFernP61
Try and lend money off your family don't go down the pay day loan route they are evil x
CommentAuthoralmost a year wife!!
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Calm down? No ones arguing and apols have been made so dont c the need in that really
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CommentAuthorMrsH-2B
I agree with MrsX2b.. If you'll be able to pay it next week then put it on a credit card, even if it is an interest card, you won't get charged interest at all because you'll be paying it off in one go xxx
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CommentAuthorMrsRusty2B
Ask friends or family members if they can help out - I wouldn't advise a pay day loan.
CommentAuthorBev
Brilly, I'm so upset for you.. Positive thoughts!
Like the other girls have said, can you ask friends or family to help out? After all your hard work I think you absolutely deserve to have this party.
Good luck Hun. Let us know how it goes xx
CommentAuthorbrilly
Tried everything we have had to cancel but the venue is checking another date for the 9th nov, im absolutely gutted done nothing but bubble all day, thank you everyone my wedding cake was made up n everything luckily hubbys aunty can save the fake bit n make a new 1 just glad shes soo understanding xx
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CommentAuthorPoPoem
Oh god, that's quite stingy on your venue,
Can they not invoice you?
Write up a review on tripadvisor about them, do a letter to head office, I bet that would put the wind up them
CommentAuthorbrilly
Popoem its not venues fault hun xx
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CommentAuthorPoPoem
I know but it might give her some breathing space...
CommentAuthorsarah
:( I'm gutted for you, you've put so much work in. Fingers crossed on getting another date.
CommentAuthor*KelBel*
Aww no Hun...saw u was upset on Facebook but wasn't sure what it was about! Really feel for u about this
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CommentAuthorThe-Future-Mrs-B
Feel gutted for you Hun, hope things work out.
CommentAuthorNataleeM
O no hunny thats awful, im so sorry xxx
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CommentAuthorJoannaS
hope everything works out for you xxx
CommentAuthoralmost a year wife!!
How're u today hun xxx
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CommentAuthorMrsRusty2B
*hugs* I'm sorry sweetie :(
CommentAuthorBev
You'll still have an amazing party in November... Plus it gives you a little more planning time :) x
CommentAuthorGiggler81
Oh Brilly this is a shame but...... try and stay positive. It sounds like its only a post pone - so as Bev says - gives you a bit more time to enjoy being Mrs and to make sure you are all set for the new date.
Im sure you could fill the time with more DIY brilliance! ;)
Chin up sweet!
Big hugs xx
CommentAuthorbrilly
Thank you everyone were just waiting to hear about the 9th to make sure its a definate, me mates dad has a different dj gig to do but I know a few others that may help out xx
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CommentAuthorVelcro
Oh Brilly that's such pap news ):
Hopefully there won't be any issues with the November date!
On the bright side you get to have longer to get excited to the run up to it!
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CommentAuthorMrs T. 2 Be
Sorry to hear this news Brilly but every cloud has a silver lining! I think this silver lining is so that you enjoy your UK reception a lot more than if you were concerned about the money on the night. xx
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CommentAuthorPrincess2be
Fingers crossed u get it sorted hunx
CommentAuthorsarah
Thanks for the update, my fingers are crossed for you x
CommentAuthorValentinaK
And this is the perfect opportunity to use your credit card for the sake of 2 weeks!
Brilly, I'm so sorry to hear this, but hopefully you will have an even better time in November xx
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CommentAuthorbrilly
Thanks everyone im feeling abit better bout it now as we're moving house this week to, we have just collected the bottom half of the cake and are not bothering to have it replaced so it will just be a fake cake in nov but hers a pic of our bottom tier father in law has a pic of the full cake it was gorgeous xx
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CommentAuthorElinor Claire
Glad you're not having to cancel completely. I hope the date is clear so you don't have any more disappointment. This way you can spread the celebrations out more.
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CommentAuthorsarah
The cake is lovely x
CommentAuthorbrilly
Sarah its the bottom tier of our topsy turvy will try get a pic on of the full cake xx
Thank you everyone im feeling way better today and just concentrating on the house move this week xx
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CommentAuthorsarah
I can't wait to see the whole thing now x
CommentAuthorMrsLJDeaton
I won't to see your full Topsy Turvy cake Looks Yum =D <3 X
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CommentAuthorMrs T. 2 Be
Love the idea of a topsy turvy cake. Can't wait to see the final piece!
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