hya everyone I just wonderd if any of the gtb are really getting involved in the planning of the wedding as well as us ladys as my other half is loving the planning. hes been married twice before and has neva been involved in the planning apart from turning up. he has even took me to a wedding show and said he is really enjoying it. there is some thing that he can't do the dress but everything else its a joint decision which is fab and exciting. do any of you have a partner like thatxx
CommentAuthorChrissy~MrsFaulds2b
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My partner has enjoyed looking at the venues and the menus but thats about it lol. I say 'look at these flowers, or invites' and he suddenly has a call to make lol. To be honest i prefer it that way, i can just get on and plan xx
CommentAuthorMonicaGeller
mine is - in between studying for accounting qualification. we went to look at so many venues thought he'd hate it, but he wants to be involved with everything. he even dropped hints about the dresses he thinks i'd look good in, not sure he should be that interested though :) want some surprises for him
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CommentAuthorMonicaGeller
oh and he tried to take over my spreadsheet LOL
CommentAuthorclewsy
yeah monicageller sometimes i feel i have my own wedding planner for free bt he loves it lolxx
Mine would dare Monica lol :D But he does want to help choose the big stuff and his suite which is fair enough but will poss leave the little bits to me
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CommentAuthorMrsPrestleton2be
my h2b said just tell him a time and date and he'll be there lol x
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CommentAuthorangelan1986
Well I nearly called the wedding off last night after h2b made a (imo) horrible remark...
He came upstairs telling me about darts bout 11.30pm, now dont get me wrong I will listen to anything sport related he has to tell me, but I cant stand darts. So I said to him "look im really not interested" and he turned around and said "well i always listen to you when your talking bout the wedding and im not interested in that". So then we argued a bit and I was so upset but he said "I dont care what you want or where you want to go, I would marry you now in our pajamas if you would let me" so it was a bit sweet but I still dont like what he said. Not going to discuss the wedding with him from now on and when he doesnt know a thing it will be his own fault :O( xxx
CommentAuthorLaticschick Holland
Same here prestleton, Kev grunts and says if im happy he's happy
CommentAuthorMonicaGeller
oh babes - well you should just plan all the things you want then.
however it is quite funny as he knows i' literally monica from friends and i have a scrap book and everything. he makes all the right noises, but that might just be a rouse. he is such a girl sometimes as i bought him a watch as an engagement gift and he keeps refering to it as his engagement ring LOL
CommentAuthorKerrylou
Ross has bouts of enthusiasm and then goes quiet over it all which is cool with me. He's been involved in every last decision though (except my dress, was with me when I picked my lingerie LOL) basically I research, he gives the thumbs up or down. Works for us :) xxx
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CommentAuthorChrissy~MrsFaulds2b
Oh angelan i feel for you hun. That remark would have gotten my back up too!! Was sweet of him to say he'd marry you there an then in your jarmys bless him :) but yeh, i think i'd be refraining from talking 'wedding' too. It's like, it's been said now whether it was meant horrible or not xx xx
CommentAuthorSoon2beMrsHall
He will if he is in the mood. I mean when i got him to pick his suit i also took the point of getting him to look at everything else and now he has seen everything but my dress.
He will do wedding stuff as long as he is in the mood
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CommentAuthorclewsy
bless you ladys i feel im quite lucky then as we had dinner earyier out and we were just talking all about the wedding and things we still need to doxx
CommentAuthorChrissy
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My OH has let me poodle along saying "anything you want if it makes you happy" etc until I got a piper! That has been the only thing he has poked his nose into. He is more than happy for the piper to be there but has insisted on a drummer? He says "you can't have pipes without drums" followed by many conversations of different tunes and how much better they sound with drums. Needless to say we now also have a drummer and my OH has crawled back into his basket! Lol xxx
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CommentAuthorMrsSnedden2B
Mines is not really helping just saying the odd word haha xx
CommentAuthorclewsy
love that idea hun you goxx
CommentAuthorMrs (Dove) Pidgeon
Pidge was uber-keen groom. He wanted to be involved in everything (except dresses!). He stuck bits on stationery, helped choose BM handbags, came to my hair/make up trial, helped make centrepieces, chose hymns, chose wines, helped with table plan, made postbox, DJ list, flowers...... you name it, he was probably involved!!
Problem was... he lived in Newcastle, I lived in London, wedding was in Halifax, we saw each other once a month on average (sometimes not even that). Made wedding planning very difficult!
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CommentAuthorLou lou
James is part of the planning too, being a part of almost everything, i love that he joins in and make valuable decisions with me xx
CommentAuthornickers
Yes my oh loves it to he leaving most of it up to me but he is just as excited and we decide most stuff together xx
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CommentAuthorbagpuss
jamies interested in his wedding ring and ordering his kilt. every now and then he makes a demnd for a sports car or expensive back drop but quite frankly he's being ignored. so long as he turns up and pretends t listen when i talk i don't mind!
CommentAuthormummyto2
h2b isn't planning any of it at all
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CommentAuthorRags
He keeps getting better. To begin with he was so worried he'd done the wrong thing in proposing, and seen as though we had 2 years thought I was an absolute nutter. The more he hears from other people why and what needs to be done, he's getting more and more involved. He's even chosen the venue (although it's not even open yet). He's loving watching me try making things for my self and offering opinions on things. I can see when it gets closer he's going to be my rock and probably totally take over. Have I said recently how much I love him.xx
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CommentAuthorSteffie
Anthony only wants to be in charge of the menu and the honeymoon!!! so I'm very glad with that!!! I get final say on everything else!!! woop wooop xx
CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
mr lala is getting into it ..... but it still give me a tingle when i hear him mention the wedding (as i never thought this would happen|)
Chris tends to input his opinion on things as I go along. As soon as we picked the colours, agreed on the basics and had all that sorted out, I just got on with it. The finery gets done by both of us alot of the time.
He will be taking over pretty much everything to do with the prep for the wedding as time gets closer, as my study/exam time will get more intense, but by then we will have everything in the bag (I hope lol). He says he is actually enjoying it all as it takes away from the normality of everyday life and he never knew how many things you could get for a single wedding. He is often found each night obssessing over the great bay of e looking at wedding favours and other weirdness of the like lmao.
CommentAuthorsarahwasabride
mine is interested but hasnt taken me to any wedding shows! he decided on the colour scheme and the venue lol xx
CommentAuthorJane
Mine has little spurts of interest but nothing too dramatic. He keeps calling it a leprachaun wedding as there is so much green! He hates being the centre of attention so dont think hes looking forward to it very much. His first wedding was very spur of the moment and low key so dont think he 'gets' the whole wedding planning stuff. Oh well. Supposed to be going to get my wedding ring today but think he is having one of his 'non-weddingy' type days and I'll most probably end up spending the money on a new hoover for my daughter instead! I know he wants to get married, its just he cant understand the reason for all the fuss. Its because I'M A GIRL!!!!!!!
CommentAuthorluvlifejen (mrs berr
my h2b is sort of involved in everything i'm quite lucky really xx
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CommentAuthorCroc
My OH insits that i should have what i want, i ask him for his opinon or thoughts he then comes up with a ridiculios idea and even says now this isnt me taking the p**s but what about having blah blah. i dont think hes too bothered tbh in wha we have aslong as i turn up!! but now have a wedding planner for on the day and the mth before for all little bits to be done so she will be my rock then!! (i have had to get a planner cos my friends and family live about 200 miles away so they cant just turn up for an hr and help!!)
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CommentAuthorRachie :D
I research and then Rich has his input then we compromise
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CommentAuthor*Vixie*
andy has been fab, really gotten in to the planning. its been lovely, makes it feel more like our day and not just my day. more special this way. gotta luv him xx
CommentAuthorclewsy
good good good ladys looks like alot of the oh are getting involved bless them. and for the ones who arn't you go ladys
CommentAuthorlinzi
mine says he loves talking about our wedding. But when it comes to doing research, or booking things he is happy to let me do it. Which is fine by me!
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CommentAuthorfelicity.h
as long as we can afford it as well as him getting his spending money hes not too interested. Unless its food lol Im trying to get him to be involved as much as i can, like the cake, dj, hes doing his suits even though ill be there too. He thinks its all so far away so when he has to do his suits he'll soon realise. :)
CommentAuthorsalamander
I've asked his opinion on things and gone with what we both like but he's not too bothered about the whole planning thing he trusts me to sort it out (cheers) and know's I won't mess it up.