im so excited after deciding to have my wedding in the uk rather than abroad as family couldnt make it iv been searching for locations, i thought i had found the perfect one but its been given awful reviews on trip advisor so iv decided against it! iv found a registry office that looks gorgeous, high ceilings with big wooden beams, i just hope it lives up to the pics when i go down to have a look at it on wednesday! so they have one day in august next year available which is the 4th. so i called the hotel so i could arrange a meal for close family & friends as its a pretty small wedding, nothing too fancy & they said i would need to book out the whole hotel so it was private with no other guests and the only date they have every room in the hotel available is also the 4th august, i have provisionally booked both, everything seems to be falling into place perfectly and i have such a good feeling! just hope im not getting my hopes up too much xx
CommentAuthorMrs L 2b :)
Sounds like it was meant to be as it all just fell into place :)
CommentAuthorkatie1991
Aww thats great hun bet your so excited xx
CommentAuthorstarlighthunny
great news........... obviously ment to be! xx
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thanks everyone, i thought so!!!! until...... what do you know my family all start sticking their noses in complaining that the hotel is too small! i can only exclusivly book the hotel it has 15 rooms and theres going to be about 6 free rooms as i have family that wont stay but want to come to the wedding & meal & friends that will do both!! and if i dont book all rooms it could mean that i would come back with my guests for my meal, the restaurant can only fit 35, 40 at a push so if theres other guests they have told me anyone not staying in the hotel will not be aloud to come in for a meal as they cant turn away paying guests, when i explained this to everyone and said i may have to cut my list down if they dont fancy staying in the hotel as its going to end up costing us a fortune & cant seem to find a hotel with such a good price & excellent reviews, im now being called selfish and my dad is saying all im thinking of is myself, if i dont let the 4 of his family come that are not staying in the hotel thats not fair as my mums side will have more people! im totally fed up now of trying to please everyone! dont know how im selfish as iv never met my dads family members that he has invited along without actuallly asking me & it is my wedding day, dont know if i am just being selfish!! :-(
CommentAuthorClareS
tell em to stick it and just you two go do it abroad afterall lol x
CommentAuthorMrs L 2b :)
Its your day so ofcourse it should be about you and your H2B no one else!
CommentAuthorMrsHardy2be
your not being selfish, its your wedding not his, if his side of the family cant be bothered to have met you your whole life then why should they have your money spent on them.
CommentAuthorSilvermist
Thats exactly what iv been saying, im glad im not being unreasonable, still going to visit the venue i have chosen next wednesday and iv also booked appointments for a couple of venues closer to home but they are for larger wedding so i would need to change my date again!!!!! oh well as long as we can have our happy day it doesnt really matter whether its big or small x
