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    • nim
      CommentAuthornim
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    well well well...after all my discussions about my mum, she turned up to my hen night drunk and crying about my nan. (most of you will know she passed in April) she was just a total wreck all night. The night eventually got better then....my sister had booked me a stripped :( im not a very confident person and the thought of a strepper revolts me (they all know this) I panicked so bad i grabbed my bag and jacket and ran outside. I ended up getting a taxi home which caused arguments with everyone! I Just had a crap week topped off with a crap hen night!
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    • MrsMac
      CommentAuthorMrsMac
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    You poor thing, sounds awful, dont let this throw a shadow on your day, its too important.

    Feelings run high when its getting close, Im falling out with everyone!!!

    Sending you big (((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))
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    • candy
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    ohhhh no hunny im sure they thought ud enjoy the stripper once he was there big hugs to you love on the plus side things can only get better now :) xxx
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    • jellytot
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    oh no! that was a bit disrespectful of her booking you a stripper. maybe they thought you would actualy change your mind and like it? why dont you organise a 2nd hen do..a more relaxing one at a spar or just have some films and a takeaway around your house?x
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    • luvlifejen (mrs berr
      CommentAuthorluvlifejen (mrs berr
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    oh god hun poor you! :( xxx

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    • Emsy5000
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    oh no thats really pants.

    maybe you should have a quite mini hen night to make up for it just invite the people who are sencertive enough not to treat you like that.

    hugs

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    • nickers
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    aw hun sorry to hear that xxx

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    • ~*~ Becca ~*~
      CommentAuthor~*~ Becca ~*~
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    aww sorry to hear that hun

    u need to let your "friends" know how upset you were after telling them strippers make you feel uneasy

    speak to your mum about how you didnt appreciate her putting such a downer on your big night

    organise a few films and a take away in with ur closest pals again as another mini hen do xx

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    • nim
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    Well my sister has made me feel back about it because she wasted £120!! Things are still not right and i am feeling like i dont want any of them there on my day! They honestly just bring me down.

    I'm aranging a night out with some friends so should be better!!

    thanks Guys x
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    • luvlifejen (mrs berr
      CommentAuthorluvlifejen (mrs berr
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    hope you have a fab night hun xx

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    • Relfy
      CommentAuthorRelfy
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    oh hun!! i think the mini hen night is a good idea.... dont let anyone let you feel bad for it. at the end of the day it was your night and if someone did something that made you unhappy, its them that should feel bad not you.... so what if she wasted money, she should have done something that she knew you wouldnt appericate! xx
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    • angelan1986
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    My worst nightmare that is, it sounds like she gave you the hen party SHE would have wanted and not the 1 you wanted. i dont drink, dont party, dont do strippers, i will wear the stupid "L" plates and veil and let everyone else have the fun part of my hen night but i wont do anything that makes me uncomfortable and you did the same thing i would have done. sod her, if she wanted to blow 120 on a 20 minute stripper thats her own problem, she wanted him there xxx

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    • luvlifejen (mrs berr
      CommentAuthorluvlifejen (mrs berr
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    i dont want a stripper either not my thing really! i just wana have a laugh with my mates end of!
    my cbm got married 18 months ago i wasnt moh or anything but her sister didnt moved herself so i organised it and i bought her a big blow up w!lly well it saw the most action all the hens were fighting over it haha!! but i chose a hen do i would like coz she and i are so similar and she loved it! 2 course meal in a hotel and a theme night in there and over night stay with breakie! xx

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    • XLittleMissMe!X
      CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
     
    I'm sorry to hear that you had such a crap night. Maybe you ought to arrange another one but have it how you want it this time. My friend is sorting mine out but she is really understanding and knows I don't like strippers, clubs etc so she is booking a spa day.




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    • nim
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    Sorry havent been on in a while just so much happing! 4 weeks to go and its been quite manic, i've been in for surgery and still healing. Not going to get abother night out so just have to take the night for what it was and remember the good parts!

    Thanks for your comments makes me feel like im not the only one!
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    • Rags
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    Aww hon, trouble is friends tend plan what they want. It's not always what the bride would like. I remember planning a lovely meal for my friend while we were away for her hen, half the party loved it and the other half did nothing but moan, so even though the hen had a really nice treat that she loved, coz her BMs kicked up a fuss it was tainted with their bitterness (she is no longer friends with her BMs and I am glad)

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    • nim
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    i could understand if it was a friend but it was my sister! She knows better :( never mind forgot about now
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    • k
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    i would have done the same as you, i hate stripers with a passion, and i would have threw a drink in my sisters face before running out xxx
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    • mummyto2
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    big hugs to you hun

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    • Ataraxia
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    Gosh so sorry your hen night ended up being such a letdown! I think you have every right to leave if they did something they knew would make you uncomfortable and its a shame that your mum couldn´t try and leave the tears at home for your night!

    Makes me so glad I´m not having a hen night, heard way too many sad stories!

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