Hi all And congratulations to all the newly married couples. Now then an honest question for an honest answer. Getting married does it change things? Now lots say, nothings changed we are the same as we were before just legal ,some say oh it has brought us closer than ever....so what the deal whats your story ...I have two children with my partner we have lived together for six years and been together for seven so for me personally we might have a honeymoon period where we feel all loved up again then it goes back to the settled in lived in feel that it was before i don't know but thats my guess about what it will feel like...what about you lovely ladies whats your take??????
Unwrapping the best pressie ever December 7th 2013
CommentAuthorMrs (Dove) Pidgeon
I think it was different for us as we got married, moved country, started a new job and got our first home together all at once, so we feel closer. We are having the normal moving in sort of difficulties (like learning to look after a flat and not having cooks/cleaners etc) but we're getting there.
Just remember it won't necessary be perfect and the problems that were there before will still be there, and its wonderful.
Now a extremely happy German housewife and now a Mother!!!!
Islay Jean born 24th June in Hannover.
CommentAuthorGriff
I can't wait to get married to my h2b I know all our old problems will still be there, but we are so blessed our worries are small and trivial so don't cause us any problems. I really want to be legally tied to him as it makes us seem so much more secure and will allow us to start to move on to the next stage in our lives as husband and wife. I love him so much!! xxx
CommentAuthorAngelaeris
For us it will be the beginning of our life together properly as we dont live together now we both still live at home and are not moving in before the wedding not for religious reasons or anything just financial reasons hehe. As soon as we are married we will be looking for somewhere to live and also start trying for a baby. I cant flippin wait hehe. So in answer to your question for us it will be completely different.
21st September 2011 the day I became Mrs Davis!
CommentAuthorlelbel1
I'm wondering what difference it'll be for us. We've been together for over 10 years, lived together almost 8 and have a little boy who is 5. One reason for me wanting to get married was so that I had the same name as my H2B and son, so we felt more of a family, but other than referring to him as 'my husband' I really don't know how it'll be different! Will let you know in a few weeks time! ;)
well i love my H2B so much we currently live togeather at my Parents house (its hard work for us all) , my parents foster 4 children (6,11, and 2 12 year olds ) so i think our lives will change for the better to be honest the house is a tad cramped (cant even have a shower without a knock on the door),it will be so nice to have a romantic meal togeather and start the ivf process and hopefully have a baby.
so i think it will be different
CommentAuthorchezrudda
im hoping it does change us, bring us closer together xxx
Getting married at Langly Castle 23/3/12
CommentAuthorRachie :D
I agree fundamentally nothing will change we'll still do the same things but marriage is a new beginning its a huge step so its bound to change us in one form or another. Also seeing my best friend get married last year you see peoples attitudes towards you change. I know we will go from being rich & rach to being the Mackins therefore no longer being a single unit which is quite frightening tbh xxx
9th June 2012 when two worlds collide
The Crazy Cat Lady and the Transformer Man!
CommentAuthoreebeegeebee
I dunno, in principle nothing has changed for us, as we already lived together beforehand and were for all intents and purposes married without the slip of paper to prove it, but it still feels different...like that little bit of exclusivity and the ring on my finger have that extra bit of significance. I think it also makes your togetherness much more worth fighting for. I suppose for us personally the biggest thing is that we never would have considered having children without being married first, but now we are talking about it seriously. I think it's brought us closer, definitely.
CommentAuthorGoff
I agree with eebeegeebee my wedding twin lol
I definately feel a closer bond with Mark since we got married. I cant explain it really, but i think its more of a completeness if that makes sense.
I cant love him anymore than i already do, but something has definately changed and its fabulous x
UKB Mad Scientist
Ride it like ya stole it.....
I'm a flippin ORTHOTIST
CommentAuthorLittle Miss Bump
not married yet obviously, but i think both goff and eebeegeebee have summed up how i have imagined that marriage will change us, when i have put thought into it, if that makes sense lol xxx
CommentAuthorMrs Alsbetty
yeah we feel the same as we were but different too we can't quite put our finger on what it is but whatever it is it feels wonderful xx
Enjoying being a wifey!!
Currently baking a small person at last, took a while :)
CommentAuthorMrsCandlin2B
I've got ages to wait yet but I'm hoping that what eebeegeebee and goff said happens for us too. By that time we will have been together for 6 years and living together for 5 so I shouldn't imagine it changing us much! Though I hope we don't take each other for granted more!
