ok well due to forces beyond our control we had to slash our wedding budget! but - i wanted to suprise H2B by still getting him the wedding car he wanted - rolls royce phantom! at nearly £1000 is quite a big bit of our budget but H2B been through so much just wanted to do summin nice for him, but i cant tell MIL2b coz she will moan about spending too much money on such a small part of the wedding, but she had the same idea as me and got him a ferrarri to take him to the church! so what do i do?? i KNOW he wants the rolls royce phantom, but his mum is soo excited about getting the ferrarri for him, and i know that he would like that too - just not as much as the rolls royce. he doesnt know about either, any suggestions? what would you do? xXx
CommentAuthorMrs Steer
if ur budget is small hun i think let her pay for the ferrarri and use ur money on the wedding, or talk to her about him wanting a rolls royce phantom and maybe she could sort that out? xx
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11-06-11
CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
I would be honest and tell her what you have already done and say that he had his heart set on it. Will either of you lose out on a deposit? If not why not ask her if she wants to sort out the RR instead? I'm sure she will be fine if she knows that is what her son has asked for. Just hope that neither of you lose any money with the over booking.
CommentAuthorloola_hoop
well thats the thing, she not paying for the ferrarri, it is a friends, so would save £1000 for the wedding, which obviously would help a lot!! and i know she wouldnt pay for the rolls. so its a choice between the car i KNOW he would LOVE and losing £1000 or a car he would still like, just not as much but saving £1000! lol
CommentAuthorMrs Steer
i would say save the £1000 and have the ferrari its still an amazing car xx
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11-06-11
Personally if its free I would go with that as the h2b will still love it as its an amazing car and it something you can put towards the honeymoon or something. I know he likes the phantom but I'm sure he won't feel he is missing out on it as he wasn't expecting anything in the first place.
CommentAuthorlemlau
go with the ferrari! what he doesn't know won't hurt him! we would all love to have something that we can't have really but at £1000 thats a huge chunk out of your budget! sure you can think of loads of other things to spend it on. xx
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CommentAuthorloola_hoop
yeah so true, thankyou so much ladies for putting things into perspective :D i was just getting all hung up on seeing him happy and excited - but seeing as he is marrying me he shoudl be anyway ;o) lol xXx
CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
Oh yes he will be. Just seeing you will make his day and getting to marry you is the icing and cherry on top. He will be well made up with the Ferrari and will be buzzing just thinking about you. x x
CommentAuthorloola_hoop
aww xjox as sad as this sounds you actually just made me cry, am missing H2B so much. roll on march 2011!
CommentAuthorRachie :D
I'd tell her that her idea is amazing but in some way get him to drop hints about the rolls - then say to her i know where u can hire that :D
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CommentAuthorloola_hoop
i blame it on the hormones!! lol no H2B and pregnant and a wedding to plan onmy own lol not a good mix! xXx
CommentAuthorloola_hoop
hahah just read that obviously i do have a H2B he just not here! lol
CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
Awwww its crying for a good reason though. Your not on your own though as you have us. We will be there for you and get excited with you x x
CommentAuthorMrs Hinch2B
oh bugger hun wot a nightmare x
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CommentAuthorMrs Steer
hun we will do all we can to support you :) xx
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11-06-11
CommentAuthorloola_hoop
aww thankyou ladies :D love to you all :D xXx
CommentAuthorweirdartist
awww, hope you are doing ok, cant imagine coping with the pregnancy hormones without my partner! :( Best wishes.
