wow stevie-dee how have u managed all that i don't even know were to start
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CommentAuthorStevie_Dee
Regarding the question of doing it yourself or getting a tour operator/wedding co ordinator. In my opinion it is much less stress, simpler and straightforward to go through a tour operator who give you a co-ordinator. Very often wedding planners/co ordinators will also be able to get you discount as they have ongoing work relations with companies, but then you have to ofset this with whatever they may charge you for their services.
However from people I have spoken to on tripadvisor and paphos people, it can be cheaper still to do your own wedding, even better if you search for many quotes and use a little confidence to get a few extras thrown in or get a discount. If you don't ask, you don't get! It is also better if you have very specific ideas or elements to your day. Also there have been many reports on trip advisor of couples not being able to get hold of their tour operators, co-ordinator as they have a huge amount of ongoing weddings to deal with.
For me it was a no brainer as I didn't want to leave the fun bits to someone else and I want my day, my way. If you are happy to let someone else deal with all the finer details then a tour operator with co-ordinator/wedding planner may be ideal for you. xxx
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CommentAuthorStevie_Dee
Bex - When you get into it, it's amazing how it all falls into place. This time last month I was so unorganised and so far behind with everything!
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Cuba sounds amazing Bex. You have to keep us updated on your plans! xx
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CommentAuthorbex
i've looked at the same things a thousand, really need to start making some decisions, problem is the travel agents wont help me until may because im not getting married until next year so i don't feel like i can do much until i know i can have my chosen date etc, but once i get going i'll keep u all updated
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26/08/2013 :-)
It's a pain waiting for brochures/info to be released. I remember having to wait for flights for my date to be released it felt like it took forever! lol Hope you find he perfect location for your wedding in Cuba. xx
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CommentAuthorbex
me too May will be here before we know it, just seems like such a long wait xx
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CommentAuthorStevie_Dee
Nahhhh May is coming way too fast for my liking! Hope it speeds up for you and slows down for me! lol
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CommentAuthorAnastasia
I agree the year is flying can't believe it's March on Thursday - Scary!!
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CommentAuthorbex
ha ha what date are u getting married? are u feelin a bit nervous now? Anastasia i cant believe it's march nearly either, kenya hey how amazin, have u found ur planning straight forward enough? xx
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we have 2 perfect children together
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26/08/2013 :-)
CommentAuthorAnastasia
It has been a breeze so far! We chose the wedding package through the travel company & then the holiday/hotel through the same travel company & checked it out on TripAdvisor then went into the travel agents and booked them both & while we were there our travel agent rang them with any questions we had... this was on the 16th feb - we booked up then we went back on the 21st feb to sign the wedding contract now we are waiting for wedding date confirmation then we will be put in contact with our wedding coordinator over there, we are 100% happy so far & had no stress :-) x
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CommentAuthorbex
oooohh i can't wait for may so i can get the ball rolling
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26/08/2013 :-)
CommentAuthorStevie_Dee
May 17th
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CommentAuthorAnastasia
I know it's great, this was me before booking!
Why do you have to wait till may hun? x
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CommentAuthorbex
because next years brochures dont come out till may so the travel agent wouldn't help me till then not long now stevie-Dee, u will be married and on ur honey moon as im making my plans
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CommentAuthorAnastasia
Ahh i see, it will be here in no time!
Yey to stevie-dee getting married then
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CommentAuthorStevie_Dee
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Heidi and I will both be tying the knot in May! Wooo hoo
Actually I best re-phrase that as it sounds like we are marrying each other! lol Heidi is getting married 8th May, and me on the 17th yeyyyyyyyy!
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CommentAuthorAnastasia
Yey to both Stevie_Dee & Heidi
Will you's cross path's? Not long to go x
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CommentAuthorAnastasia
How long did you ladies wait for wedding date confirmation, I am getting impatient lol x
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CommentAuthorHa_x3
We are planning to meet up on the day before i leave.. Its a shame Stevie_Dee cant be our witness :( I had mine though within a few days via email from my wedding planner :)
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CommentAuthorGemmaT78
Things are really coming together now, ive been giving prices from the private wedding planner, just awaiting on hearing back from her now then im going to book my date ;)
CommentAuthorHa_x3
Oooo how exciting, Good luck Gemma & let us know how it goes
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CommentAuthorAnastasia
Exciting times! Can't wait to hear :-) x
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CommentAuthorHa_x3
Me & my H2B are contemplating delaying the wedding
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CommentAuthorAnastasia
Oh no way, why hun? x
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CommentAuthorHa_x3
The money side of everything is just getting way too much, we have so much left to buy and pay off and no where near enough time
I really don't want to, but I can't see any way around it
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CommentAuthorAnastasia
I am so so sorry to hear this! Will it not be costly cancelling? x
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CommentAuthorAnastasia
What do you's have left to buy? x
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CommentAuthorStevie_Dee
Heidi these may sound like intrusive questions but I am just wondering if there is any way in which we can help or offer alternatives for you rather than postponing, What do you have left to buy? What do you have left to pay off? Have you already paid for flights? Can you move any part without losing deposits?
Lets see if we can help in any way or if there is anything you need that I might have. We have a villa with private pool that could be available from 20th to 27th May, if you were able to move your flights. The villa was for a family member thats no longer able to attend. It cost £480 pw but we've already paid over half of it, and only have £200 left to pay if you were interested in it, just at the £200 for that week. My uncle also has an apartment which he rents out for very little to friends and family, I can ask him what dates he has available on it, if that is of any use.
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CommentAuthorAnastasia
I too was going to offer to try & help :-) x
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CommentAuthorStevie_Dee
This woman is going to say "I do" if we have to take her there ourselves Anastasia! lol
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I totally agree & I am up for that lol x
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CommentAuthorStevie_Dee
Heidi you have 2 women on a mission to make you a Mrs.....we should come up with something if we put our heads together!
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CommentAuthorAnastasia
Yey I love missions!! Best get our thinking caps on...
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CommentAuthorStevie_Dee
Will be warming up my wee brain ready for it. Unfortunately need to go bed now )-: as its my turn to take lil man to nursery but will be on here as soon as possible tomorrow waiting for all info to see what can be done.
See you both tomorrow if you are on. xxx
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CommentAuthorHa_x3
You ladies do make me giggle.. These are the things that we have to pay; 1. The rest of the holiday which is now £150 each 2. We have to save up ceremony money which is £282 3. Affidavits which I'm being quoted at £100 plus each :( 4. Holiday insurance and wedding insurance 5. I need to order my shawl/veil but that's cheap enough 6. Save spending money (which h2b has none of yet and I have £200 so far!
The other things we need will be put on my credit card just before we go: Rings Summer clothes
I know it doesn't sound like a lot but I'm struggling to get any work from my agency atm which leaves me with 9 guaranteed hours a week and another 5 hours for my childmining :(
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CommentAuthormelvis
whats an affidavit? aaw huni i can see why your stressed!!! BUT would you not loose out more than that if you cancell now? xx
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CommentAuthorGemmaT78
When you book to have your reception in the hotel, do the supply chair sashes ? xx
CommentAuthorStevie_Dee
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Going by your list I assume flights are booked, which is the main thing.
Not a huge difference but isnt the 282 for ceremony in Euros? Ours is the same in euro but about 238 in £'s, I suppose it is close to the £260 mark with the marriage licence. I would seriously ask for a few quotes from different solicitors as our quote for affidavits was £35 each in total. Rings can be quite reasonable Steve's was £44 from Argos, and my original ring was £34 (although I have now been given my grans) They start from as little as £14.99 and with most do free engraving. There are quite a few ladies that I have spoke to who have bought their rings from here, at the end of the day its the symbol of the ring that is important, not the price tag. Wedding insurance - there is a specific overseas wedding insurance from E&L which starts from under £20, I imagine as you are having an intimate wedding just the two of you that level would be more than sufficient. link on wall Travel insurance - did a rough quote for you on money supermarket and you can easily get travel insurance from £9.69 per couple which has a good level of cover, up to £5 million medical expenses and includes baggage and cancellation cover. link on wall
Will have a think of anything else. xxx
Gemma - depending on your hotel and whether they are a well established "wedding venue" chances are they will have chair sashes. It may be best to email your wedding co-ordinator to ask if they do supply this and table linen etc and if there is an extra charge for this. If there is, I personally would try and ask for some kind of discount, they are not going to want to lose a booking for the sake of 20-30% off table linen.
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CommentAuthorHa_x3
I'm assuming we would only loose the deposit? I'm not sure!
I'm thinking now we could still go on the holiday but not get married.. :(
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CommentAuthorStevie_Dee
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Oh I hope not. I know its something you really want so don't give up just yet, we will think of something. xx
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CommentAuthorHa_x3
Dee can you please let me know who quoted you and their number please?
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CommentAuthorStevie_Dee
I have replied to your inbox message hun. Not sure of there number give me a min and will send it to you. xx
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Sent xx
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CommentAuthorHa_x3
Yeah I don't want anything elsee Dee :(
Mrs Lunn
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CommentAuthorStevie_Dee
I will help all I can hun xx
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CommentAuthorHa_x3
Thankyou your a star! I'll try getting a quote from them and see what H2B says.. Luckily he can afford to pay his half its just me struggling :(
Mrs Lunn
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CommentAuthorHa_x3
All this is really starting to get me down, we have payed off sooo much already & i would hate to cancel.. This wedding is all ive been thinking about for months
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CommentAuthorStevie_Dee
I know what you mean hun, but you have the dress, flights, and nearly paid accomodation so the main things are done. Damn affidavits and fees. lol xx
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CommentAuthorHa_x3
I know, its an absoloute nightmare.. I have been hearing from most solicitors that after having the affidavit prepaired we need to have it sworn by another soliciotr for £5 have you heard this? My wedding planner hasnt mention it
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