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    • Stevie_Dee
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    I know there are a few brides on here having a blessing or are thinking about renewal of vows ceremonies after their wedding.
    I thought it would be nice to have a spot where we can share pictures and ideas. It may also be useful for anyone considering this type of ceremony to find out what's involved.

    Our date is now booked for our 1st anniversary for our blessing/renewal of vows - however our local church calls this a 'Thankgiving for marriage service'
    I have included an outline as detailed on the CoE website, although there are other types of services and types of locations for this type of ceremony.

    Thanksgiving for Marriage: An Outline

    Introduction
    1, Welcome
    2, Prayer of Preparation
    3, Preface
    4, Readings
    5, Psalms, Songs or Hymns
    6, Sermon

    Renewal of Vows
    7, The couple(s) are invited to renew their marriage vows in a suitable form.
    8, A ring or rings may be blessed.
    9, Prayers are offered, including prayers of thanksgiving and blessing.
    10, Dismissal - Prayer for the couple and the congregation.

    There is a further detailed sample of this service if anyone would like me to copy and paste it on here.

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    • Anastasia
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    Great thread Stevie_Dee, I am thinking about having a blessing when we get back but I like the idea of it being a year later! So many decisions - bookmarked x

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    • Stevie_Dee
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    I think it's as popular as ever, especially with those of us getting married abroad. Why should the excitement of planning stop after we are married - this keeps us here so much longer! lol I am having a small intimate blessing, just family. We have our original intended church and are thinking along the lines of Devonshire cream teas and cakes as a mini reception afterwardds on the Devon coast.
    Do you have any ideas yet of what you would like? xx

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    • Anastasia
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    Yours sounds fab, I love the cream teas & cakes mmmm!
    I love the idea of afternoon tea like mad hatters tea style, have not really thought about it yet :-)
    Not sure when to have it... a few months after or on our 1st year anniversary!?

    We will have our original church not sure for after, I would have decorated the church hall out so it was very country/english tea theme but they obviously don't have a bar!
    Is yours a restaurant or hotel? x

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    • Stevie_Dee
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    Oh I would love a mad hatters theme, if you do have this you will have to post photographs, I would love to see them. I am under strict instructions I'm not allowed to get carried away with plans this time! lol

    It is a tea rooms with outside area overlooking the sea, Plymouth hoe and the Plymouth eye (like the london one but not as big) will find a pic. If Steve and I are brave enough we may have a go on it. We want a daytime reception only, as we plan to go for a short weekend break that night. Either Milan or Barcelona. Mainly dictated as they have famous football grounds! As long as I get to see some sights I will be happy.

    Plymouth Hoe
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    • Stevie_Dee
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    Oh we have been told the church blessing is £180 and our cream tea + cake reception quote is £7 per head so really good value. We will be wearing our original wedding clothes so should be a really nice day at a great price.

    I would say at this point we have 70% of our blessing done and around 30-40% of our wedding in 12 weeks done...oh thats not good. I need a week to concentrate solely on making favours, blinging shoes and paying balances etc.

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    • Anastasia
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    Of course, it will be fun to do!
    I absolutely love your venue, amazing views. I think you's will go on it, it's a must. I like the sound of the short weekend break too.

    Yes you should really be concentrating on your wedding lol, it will be here in no time!

    Sorry my reply is short & sweet, I have been poorly today but had to come on here for 10minutes to get my fix haha!

    Look forward to chatting further when I feel better x

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    • Stevie_Dee
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    bumped for dangermouse. x

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    • Ha_x3
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    Me & my H2B are having a blessing on our 1st anniversary too (well if we get the date) lol small world ehh :)

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    • Stevie_Dee
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    Lol very small world! You must let us know what your plans are for your blessing, with pictures....we love pics!

    We were not sure if we would get our date for exactly a year after which is on a Friday. However our church has given us the option of provisionally booking the Fri and Sat, in case we choose to have the more convenient weekend date. We have to give them confirmation of which day we choose by May so it gives us a little time to decide. xx

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    • Ha_x3
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    Aww brilliant, i put up a thread about it yesterday,
    I can never get hold of the vicar which is a pain in the ass cause atm we have provisionally booked 7th july this year, but cant afford it so hopeing to get 8th may 2013 with any luck :) xx
    Of course i will keep you updated :) xx

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    • Anastasia
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    We are having a blessing & party... 1-2weeks after we get back in February!

    I am really excited to be planning this too now

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    • Ha_x3
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    woooohoooo welcome to the club Anastasia, i cant wait to plan our blessing & we havent even had our wedding yet haha

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    • Anastasia
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    Hmmm... do I go for an afternoon tea theme with lot's of cupcakes & sandwich's or an Afican theme with spicy food

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    • Ha_x3
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    Im biased as i dont like spicy food haha sorry

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    • Sian''OCD''Holkham
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    I def want a blessing as my wedding is in a hotel, registrar job but I'm catholic and really want a blessing in a church in a few years though and want to have a theme of some sort something a bit more rustic maybe x

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    • Anastasia
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    It will be a mixture of food Heidi but 60% spicy & African food :-)

    We have gone with African - been busy all day looking at invitations & chair covers! Geeee it's exhausting lol.

    Our colours abroad are burnt orange & raspberry pink so I will incorporate these into the blessing & maybes pop some chocolate brown in there too x

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    • Anastasia
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    This is NOT our cake lol but it's just to give you an idea of our colours...

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    • Ha_x3
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    I love the colours, looks really nice

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    • Anastasia
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    Thanks hun! Do you have a colour scheme for yours? x

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    • Ha_x3
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    For cyprus we dont, but for our blessing i think we will be going for our original colour scheme which was a deep purple ...
    When we were going to marry in plymouth i had pretty much chosed page boys suit & bridesmaid dress (which had purple in them, thats what made me choose the colour lol)

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    • Anastasia
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    Very nice! I love purple :-)

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    • Ha_x3
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    I use to but not really anymore well untill I saw a gorgeous purple waistecoat next to a purple and whie bridesmaid dress

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