yay going to meet up with the guy there and discuss our hunamist part of the wedding and choose the spot! woooo hope weather is better tomorrow though! x

the arboretum or humanist? x

haha cool!
What is a Humanist wedding?
Humanists do not believe in God, but simply in 'the good within human beings, in their equality, and in the individual's right to freedom of choice in the main decisions of life'. Consequently, a humanist wedding allows you to have a ceremony that focuses on these values and beliefs while still allowing you to express your individual personalities. It allows you the freedom to make your own personal choices about vows, music, readings, and venue. Humanist weddings can take place anywhere ‘safe and dignified’ and, unlike civil ceremonies conducted by a registrar, do not require the couple to get a special license. Your wedding ceremony can be held wherever you like, indoors or out, be it in a marquee, by a river or in your own home.

The Humanist ceremony respects virtually all situations; remarriage after divorce weddings between people of different faiths or of no faith, and ceremonies allowing gay couples to declare their love and commitment to one another (these unions are recognised as a civil partnership).

ahhh ok thanks for filling me in as it is totally the way i feel about life. didnt know there was a "name" for it lol xxx

we are doing the legal part at registry office then off to arboretum have put a link to some pics up this is only a small part of it is it so beautiful there has lakes and different types of gardens etc so now to find the perfect spot!

Just got back we have found THE spot going to be gorgeous when all the leaves and flowers are out! people were so lovely there! so excited!!! x