Im good, I have done 5 invitations just another 30 to go and I am feeling exhausted from work. Urggghh now I wish I didnt make my own lol.
Kirsty xxx
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CommentAuthorKat831
I'm looking forward to doing ours, but still struggling to finalise guest list! Its turning into a typical wedding nightmare :(
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CommentAuthorOct12bride86
My guest list is ever expanding... I really hope people wont be able to make it!
Kirsty xxx
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CommentAuthorKat831
thats what we are like now, our ceremony venue has a maximum capacity of 60, so by the time you take out bridal party, celebrant, photographer, we have 50 spaces. Between us we have 8 parents (all remarried) so thats 42. I have 3 sisters who all have partners and 11 kids between them, they all live 450 miles away so I'm unsure of how many will travel up for the wedding - if they all come thats leaves 25 spaces, H2b has 2 step siblings, 1 is married so thats down to 22. 2 sets of aunts and uncles leaves 18, so if all those of those rsvp yes we can only invite a few friends which is a nightmare as we are closer to the friends than we are to some of the family! The joys of guest lists lol
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CommentAuthorOct12bride86
We have 100 spaces but the less there are, the more space we will have to move about. A few people have already said they cant come due to the distance.
I should be making invitations today but caught up cooking lol
Spent the last 3 weeks putting off doing anything but today in have finally booked a consultation with a florists x
CommentAuthorOct12bride86
My florrest appointment is the 2nd March. I can't wait.
Still not done any invites lol... I will do them after dinner! I bought a new ruler to help me get the bits the right size. The ruler I was using snapped!!!
Kirsty xxx
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CommentAuthormarie08
hi all, ive been busy but not with any wedding plans ! :-( got loads to do and im feeling alone and with so much too do. best crack on with it all. you are all getting on great with your plans.nice to see october is a popular month for weddings this year. eek its creeping up.xx
CommentAuthorXTeresainLoveX
We are going back to see the venue at the end of next week to sort the menus out and then seeing the vicar on 20th Feb so we can finalise all the details and i can make a start on the invites then. Isn't it exciting girls, less than 39 weeks to go for me woohoo, how does everyone else count it down, days, weeks or months?
CommentAuthorFutureMrsLuker
Hiya girls,
Unsure as to whether i have posted on this board before but i just thought i'd reintroduce myself anyway..
I'm getting married on Saturday 6th October and i'm sooooo excited! I've been with Mark for 6 years but everytime we've started actively planning our wedding we've got pregnant. Oopsies!!
We have got the registry office and the reception venue booked. Now its just a case of paying for everything! My deposit is down on my dress, invites are being made and we're going to be booked suits in the next month or so. I actually feel like i'm on top of everything at the moment, now we've just got to try and find the money to pay for it all!
Hope everyone elses plans are going well.
Carly x
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CommentAuthormcquire81
Hi All, Im getting married on Saturday 20th October and so far we are getting on pretty well. We have booked the venue and paid the deposit, photographer deposit paid, got my dress and the flowergirl dress, sent out invites, ordered the flowers,got most of the table and rooms decorations and sorted the cake and got the grooms suit!!! Still lots left to do and aside from the deposits a lot left to pay!! Good luck all with your planning, hope it goes smoothly :-) xx
CommentAuthorOct12bride86
Hi FutureMrsLuker I am getting married on the 7th Oct! its so exciting its coming around so quick! Congrats on your pregnancy!
Hi Mcquire81 you seem to be very organised, I am starting to feel very under pressure by it all now!
Kirsty xxx
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CommentAuthorClarabella
Hi i just searched for this thread cos i wondered if there was one so im super excited now.
Today i bought my dress. It was in the sale so my sister has it at her house now which is super exciting We have Provisionally booked our venue which is at the doubletree by hilton in aberdeen We are posting off our deposit to our photograpgher tomorrow well its now today We have picked out our wedding rings last year so have been paying them up so will finally get them in sept! I have some bits and pieces for my invites i just need to get some ribbons and sparkly bits so i can start making them
I think thats all so far. Oh we have an appointment to go see the minister on friday so fingers crossed that all goes well
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CommentAuthorOct12bride86
Today I finshed my invites and have sent hallf of them out... I also have my first few RSVP's... so exciting!
My next task is to go to the register office to apply for a marriage licence.
Kirsty xxx
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CommentAuthorFutureMrsLuker
I can't wait to send our invites out and start receiving RSVP's, i've still got this massive fear that hardly anyone is going to turn up... Stupid woman lol.
We received our final draft of our invites today and they've been given the go ahead to get them printed so it shouldn't be too long now until we get them. As its a friend of my Dad who runs the printing company we're also getting them free of charge so thats a BIG relief!!
Registry office is being paid up on Friday when H2B gets paid, i knew there was a silver lining to all the over time he's been doing lately and hardly seeing anything of him! x
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CommentAuthorClarabella
Oh my god i havent even started making my invites!!!! I think im going to start that soon very soon
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CommentAuthorOct12bride86
I have to get a wiggle on with it Clarabella, my venue want final numbers by April. They are ordering my table plan and table stationary then.
MrsLuker I am hoping some people can't make it, its got out of hand. I only wanted a small wedding 40 people) but it has doubled in numbers (now 82) which has made me go over budget by £3000....
Kirsty xxx
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CommentAuthorMrsBee
Hi everyone! I'm getting married on the 6th October (also my 31st Birthday!). We got engaged on my 30th last year so you can see the theme that's emerged! So far we have: Booked the venue / caterer Given notice etc with registrar Booked Photographer Bought rings half way through making save the dates (when is everyone sending their Invites by the way???) paid my Dress deposit (I'm having one made)
Looking forward to sharing the excitement with you guys!! xxx
CommentAuthorOct12bride86
Welcome mrsbee... I have sent mine already just because my venue want the final numbers by April. They are doing the table plan and providing table stationary so they want the number early...
Kirsty xxx
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CommentAuthorClarabella
As its pay day on friday im going to drag h2b to get paper and bits and pieces that i need to make my invites. Im not going to bother with the save the dates. Im just gonna save the money but i did want to make them as well but dont think im going to have time to do that as well
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CommentAuthorSally
Hi ladies, i'm new to all this! freaking a little bit! We've found our venue but havent booked yet (have an appointment 5th Feb) We got engaged at christmas so cutting ourselves a little short on time. I'm worried i'll forget stuff :/ we have a co ordinater within our package for the venue, are they helpful?? i'm so excited i cant wait to marry him just really want to feel organised!! x
CommentAuthorClarabella
I havent officially booked my venue either yet but do have it provisionally booked. There is a thread im not sure if you've seen it its called a brides checklist. I'll see if i can find it for you. Its really helpful. I hate not feeling organised and have lists for eveything but there is so much to do its too long to put on a list lol and were paying as we go so i cant even pay things off which is annoying. I like things done yesterday lol and not at all a patient person lol
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CommentAuthorOct12bride86
I have a wedding planner and a master of ceremoneys in our wedding package. I do believe they are helpful because theu will go though every detail right down to table confetti. I found it helpful having a meeting with my coordinator, after I knew what was needed to be done and when for!
I found a hairdresser last night, I have emailed him and I am now waiting for a response.
Make up, cake and flowers have had the deposits paid.
Kirsty xxx
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CommentAuthorPB
I have a wedding co-ordinator at my wedding venue too and at best she has proved so far to be very hit and miss! Fortunately i hate the idea of anyone else taking control of my wedding so would struggle to let her do too much anyway! This week i have sent out my save the dates,started to build my wedding website,booked my florist and arranged for myself and my bridesmaids accomodation for the night before the wedding.Hopefully next week i will start on my invitations xxx
CommentAuthormrs_rothnie2b
just posting to sat hello and eeeeks excited cause I too am an October bride (the 17th). Can't believe it's finally THIS year! :D xx
CommentAuthorClarabella
The wedding coordinator at my venue is rubbish so far. I emailed her late on sunday night so she would get my email on monday morning about provisiionally booking my date and she never got back to me all day monday so i called her late tuesday afternoon and she said she has been very busy but she had seen my email and put us down but she was going to get back to me so she then sent me a confirmation email saying that the date was booked. I had also sent an email before hand asking a load of questions but she then wanted us to go back in talk about them which was fine but in the email that she had confirmed our booking she said she would answer all our questions once she has the time which was nearly 2 weeks ago?
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CommentAuthorPB
Clarabella. i can relate to that.Whenever i e-mail my co-ordinator myself and my h2b take bets on which of my questions she will choose to answer.If i send her an e=mail asking four questions she will just answer one of them! It is really annoying,i don't e-mail her often as i am aware she is probably busy but sometimes i need to and she herself said that she prefers to be contacted by e-mail.I have tried numbering my questions so that she is aware that she has a certain amount of points to address but that doesn't work.I wouldn't mind but in a face to face situation she is brilliant.I must say however that she always repies really quickly(albeit without answering all my questions!),two weeks to reply to an e-mail is ridiculous! xxx
CommentAuthorOct12bride86
My co-ordinator seems to be ok up to now. She is the one chasing me and trying to get the day planned. I dont mind them running the day because Id rather not have the stress. They are decorating the hall on the day and sorting out the table and chairs. If I can just relax on my day I will be happy with that!
Kirsty xxx
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CommentAuthorSally
Clarabella & Poulten bride i feel for you! We havent had any contact yet as we're not actually booked but I hope whoever it is will be like Oct12bride86's co-ordinator. I always always thought if i got married it would be completely chilled but then when u actually start to think about it i get a bit like arrghhhh then have to whhoooosssaa!! (bad boys movie lol) Now i'm actually planning it i think, i'm only doing this once and its not JUST my day, it's my gorgeous fiance and our families and i want it to be beautiful and special for all of us... October seems so quick, i wish it could all be planned for me then just turn up on the day, like on dont tell the bride! lol
Poulton bride - does she know do u think that she doesnt answer stuff, u should email back sayin thanks for that BUT can you also tell me..... cause your in the habit of leaving stuff out :) but thank you.
CommentAuthorOct12bride86
I can't believe we are nearly in Jan ladies. Time is flying by, its frightening.
Still not heard back from this hairdresser I contacted I wish he would get back to me!
Kirsty xxx
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CommentAuthorPB
Sally h2b says i should keep sending the same e-mail to her until she answers all of my question! I am not sure if she knows hence me numbering the questions last time.I could e-mail her back and say can i refer you back to points 1 and 4 lol! Oct12 i think its closer than you think,its been Jan for nearly a month hee hee !(i know what you mean though) x
CommentAuthorClarabella
Just started making my invites in between entertaining my 15 month daughter and tryng to stop her "helping" me lol
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CommentAuthorOct12bride86
LMAO I just realised what I put lol. I meant I cant believe its nearly feb. Sorry ladies night shifts really confuse my poor head lol
I rang the hairdressers today to see what was taking so long and they said they will ring me back! We will see.
Kirsty xxx
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CommentAuthormarie08
hey ladies, mega excited today as have booked for my wedding cake package. yey. i think i have a good deal at £113 all in. bad news thou looking at our total budget being over prob by £1500? still lots to do.... :-)
CommentAuthorPB
Your wedding cake package sounds good marie08,what kind of cake are you having?
CommentAuthormarie08
hi, im having a 10" round iced death by chocolate cake with sugar crafted flowers and also 70 cake pops and or cup cakes iced.flavours still to be decided but cake does taste good. :-) hows your planning going? its now feb and im starting to worry as have lots to do ....eek. xx
CommentAuthorPB
Sounds yummy i love chocolate,we are having fruit as i am making it myself and do not want to be making it in the week running up to the wedding!I know its going to fly by! Sometimes i am really chilled and think everythings in hand but other days i flap like a headless chicken.I have all the big things sorted Church,Venue,Wedding Dress,Shoesx 2,Veil,Tiara coming in next couple of days,Bridesmaid dresses plus shoes,flowers booked ,DJ and Car but the devils in the detail and its all the little details i am worried about.I reckon that that will be the hard bit! xxx
CommentAuthorOct12bride86
Hi ladies
Hope your planning is going well. Iv not had time to do any this week because I have been working nights and I always feel like an empty shell. Also my son was rushed into hospital on Monday night. He has had an episode with athsmatic sysmptoms but they are reluctant to diagnose athsma because he is to young. We are home now and he is much better!
I got a few more RSVP's back, mainly off the people who I didnt expect to come!!!!! Oh well lol
Kirsty xxx
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CommentAuthorPB
Hope your son is feeling much better Oct12bride,that must have been really scary for him and you.How old is he? Were you hoping to lose a few guests,i remember seeing an earlier post where your numbers had doubled and costs gone up by 3k..ouch! xxx
CommentAuthorOct12bride86
He is 4 poulton, he is better now. He is just trying to get use to the inhalers.
I was hoping some guests could make it yeah!!!! sadly everyone is going so far!! well apart from my aunty in china she would love to be there but she cant afford the trip over
Kirsty xxx
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CommentAuthorPB
Ah is he ok with them,they can be a bit scary for little ones can't they .My daughter needed them once when she was little and although it was supposed to be a child friendly one she really didn't like it!
Did the hairdresser get back to you? Thats my next job to decide whether to get a hairdresser or do my own.I only have short hair so nothing fancy is required but i will have my daughters to do to and hers is waist length and dead straight and she wants curls! xxx
CommentAuthorOct12bride86
They didnt but I rang up and spoke to the woman her self. She said because its a sunday she will do my hair at the hotel for the same price as at the salon which I am competely over the moon with. I am going to meet her and discuss styles on the 2nd March. It feels like fate! The hairdressers is on the same street as my florrest. I found the hairdresser completely by accident, I didnt realise where it was untill I went on google maps.
My daughters hair is extremely thick, she has 3 's the amount of hair I have lol. My hair is short but I am trying to grow it and maybe use some hair pieces to thicken it up.
I spoke to the doctor today and I asked fr a different spacer, the one the hospital gave him was just a nightmear to use. Now I am having to get him to use this new one, and breathing in on command is proving to be difficult lol
Kirsty xxx
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CommentAuthormarie08
sorry to hear about your son oct12bride86 hope he feels better soon. ive still got to find a hairdresser and make-up person hope im not leaving it too late.still not got a theme or colour scheme ....got bridesmaid dresses to find,suits,invites/save the dates to do.the list goes on ! do you send save the dates to people who are only coming to the evening do? im having probs of who to invite to day do as dont want to offend anyone.some people also are expecting to come to the day do...aahh. xx
CommentAuthorOct12bride86
I didnt bother with save the date cards because its October when we get married and I cant see anyone else getting married then. Also we are only having close friends and family which is about 75-80 people all day!
Times going by really quick marie, you will have to choose a theme soon lol. Have you got any idea's??
Kirsty xxx
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CommentAuthorPB
Oct12 that sounds a good deal with your hairdresser.I am going to talk to my hairdresser when i go next week and see what she suggests-i cannot see the point of me having a 'bridal hair dresser' and paying extra for it when i am not having anything fancy done but it would be nice to be pampered.I was originally going to pop out to my hairdressers with my daughter on the morning of the wedding but as we are now staying at the venue the night before its not practical. Crikey Marie you better get a wriggle on lol! I didn't send save the dates to people who are only coming to the evening as i didn't want them thinking they were going to be invited to the day too. xxx
CommentAuthorSally
HELP!! lol omg i've been looking at how much people have done so far and well we having nothing!! we've found the venue and have an appointment on the sunday to HOPEFULLY get it booked but as far as anything else goes i've not been able to think about it until the venue is sorted. I'm sure once that's done everything will start falling into place but arrggghhhh!!! lol. The venue does include a lot of stuff and i'm going to haggle my butt off as much as i can so it may be that there will a lot i wont have to do/organise myself. fingers crossed! Poultonbride - have you had any luck with the emails? did u take ur hb2's advice? lol that would drive me a bit nuts xx
CommentAuthorXTeresainLoveX
I'm so excited, the bridesmaid dresses have arrived at the shop so me and the girls are going for another fitting on the 14th Feb and my mum will be seeing my wedding dress for the first time. I've a feeling it will be an emotional day
CommentAuthorPB
Sally,i am going to see my co-ordinator in person on Saturday,she is very good face to face so should get all my questions answered lol!Hope you love your venue on Sunday and get a good deal.As you say once you get that settled you can really get your teeth stuck into it! Teresa what a lovely way to spend Valentines Day.I am going to see mine next on March 21st,the anniversary of us getting engaged. xxx
CommentAuthormarie08
oh sally bless you.as you say once you get a venue and date you can crack on with a photographer , dress and all the other bits which is def doable if your oraganised unlike me lol. teresainlove love the idea you your girls and mum going to see your dress and on a great day. thats nice as well poulton bride,hope it goes well.x still no ideas on my theme.....i am thinking of making a button bride bouquet thou.will do some thinking. i think i might be on here alot more often on the run up to my day. xx
CommentAuthorOct12bride86
Dont worry sally, it will be fine. Only advice I can say is do your research.
Teresain I love that idea! I will miss out on that because we got ours off the internet!