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Traditions / Superstitions: Obey

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- CommentAuthorhigginszajac
Is anyone having love honour and obey in thier wedding vows, my H2b keeps saying hes going to insist to the vicar that its in our vows, me obey, i dont think so lol x
- CommentAuthorPB
I would say it but i wouldn't mean it,i am not very obedient! x
- CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
i'm not having obey i'm having cherish instead i hate the word obey cos i certainly dont and i find it very medieval

8th September 2012 I married my best friend
1st September 2014 our little family grew by one

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- CommentAuthorclbronze
I'm most definately not having the word 'obey'! I wouldn't be able to keep a straight face. I think ours is something like 'honour and keep' x

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Marrying him on 01.06.12
- CommentAuthorPB
Is that the official alternative -Cherish,i like that its lovely ? x

- CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
not sure i just preferred it i think i heard it on Dont tell the bride and much preferred it

8th September 2012 I married my best friend
1st September 2014 our little family grew by one

Women are made to be loved, not understood. - Oscar Wilde
- CommentAuthorlows
If my H2b insisted I had obey then I would make him say the same!!!!! Its only fair he Obeys you after all the women are the boss!!!
I think we are having cherish which is the common alternative to obey.
to be honest with you though most vicars now let you pick your style of vows. so if you want cherish, keep, adore, etc you probable can.
x
- CommentAuthorXbox widow
This was the first thing I asked the registrar because I said i dont want to say that cos I wont obey anyone, she said its outdated and they dont include it anymore pheeeeeeeewwwww!!!!!!!!!!!
- CommentAuthorhigginszajac
H2b is in fits of laughter at all your comments, he says he is the boss and im happy to let him go on thinking it, but i know who the real boss is its ME lol xx
- CommentAuthorx~Hails~x
Nope we're having love, honour and cherish for ours

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- CommentAuthorXbox widow
H2b Keeps telling me he wears the trousers but like you I let him think he's in charge but I know the truth he! he!, without me he would'nt even have any trousers. There'd still be in the washing basket!!!
- CommentAuthorclbronze
Oh there's no question of who's the boss with us- he does nearly all the cooking and cleaning! But I'm very laid back so we don't really argue, I put my foot down in a very subtle and gentle way, but I'm still def the boss and he seems fine with that, lol!

Met Paul on 01.06.08
Marrying him on 01.06.12
- CommentAuthorXbox widow
Wow you've really got him trained, my h2b will do housework if I ask him and cooking but he does hand all his money over to me but I dont make him he just gives it to me cos he trusts me completely.
- CommentAuthorhigginszajac
No in this house i cook and he washes up as for the rest his excuse is he hasnt been trained on how to use my washing machine or hoover so cant use them lol, all in all hes pretty well house trained xx
- CommentAuthorKylee27
We forgot to talk to the vicar about the dreaded 'obey' and when he sent through the OOS last week it's in there! Problem is that I printed 55 off and have started making them up and just haven't got the time or energy to change it and reprint so it's staying!

I have told H2B that I'll slip in a quiet "not" before I say obey-ahahahaha! :0)

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- CommentAuthorMrsEminson2B
<Name>, I take you to be my wife/husband/partner, I promise to love you, honour and respect you. I will stand by you and be true to you always. I give you this ring as a symbol of my love and faithfulness and I ask you to wear it as a reminder of the vows we have spoken today. Whatever life may bring I will always love you.

This is what we are having xx

Met Matt at 10 years old
Marrying him at 27 years old
I can't wait to be Mrs Eminson on the 8th June 2013
- CommentAuthorhigginszajac
I would be shouting the NOT kylee just to make sure he heard lol xx and mrs eminson2B your vows are lovely xx
- CommentAuthorkimi1987
were having traditional vows, i think obey is in both of ours.

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- CommentAuthorMrsEminson2B
thank u x

Met Matt at 10 years old
Marrying him at 27 years old
I can't wait to be Mrs Eminson on the 8th June 2013
- CommentAuthorrebeccalou21
id make h2b say it lol x
- CommentAuthorHa_x3
im not sure if i am as ours is just a civil ceremony abroad xx

Mrs Lunn
08/05/12 was the best day of my life
& I love my husband with all my heart xxxx
- CommentAuthorAntonia9
i most definately am not having obey in my vows, id associate obey with obedient i.e a dog!!! no chance x

Cant wait to become Mrs Purdie x x x x
May 4th 2013 - The day i get to marry my best friend
- CommentAuthorMrsShaw
Just so you know, 'obey' doesn't just mean that you are to obey each other. It also means 'to listen'. This is why we're having it in our vows.
- CommentAuthor~feebee~
No I'm not saying obey and I'm not saying lawful wedded husband either because I just KNOW I will say AWFUL wedded husband ha ha ha :/

Finally Mrs Grove :)
- CommentAuthorAntonia9
haha feebee thats funny!

Cant wait to become Mrs Purdie x x x x
May 4th 2013 - The day i get to marry my best friend
- CommentAuthorJill
Obey isnt really relevant now, different years ago when the man was in charge and your dad was actually giving you away to your new 'owner' lol we're not having obey, then I'd be destined to break my vows and I wouldnt want that! Feebee I know that h2b would say that deliberately, at which point I'd have to kneecap him for being a smart ar$e in front of all our friends and family... cant have that lol x

29th September 2012
Cant wait to be Mrs D!
- CommentAuthorSweetchilli
Ours are Love, Cherish and Respect.
- CommentAuthorhigginszajac
Feebee think most of us would say that lol x

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