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    • Kimberlee1
      CommentAuthorKimberlee1
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    Hi,
    Im in the middle of sorting out the number for Hen Party in May. Out of a possible 16 ladies ive asked only 10 are able to make it. I was talking to my friend this morning about it, She thinks that 10 isnt enough people. And asked if there wasnt anyone else i could ask. But there simply isnt. This is only because, i used to live in Bedford (where i grew up) and have only kept in touch with a selected amount of people due to the normal fake-ness of people. And since living in Kent (three yrs this week) Ive met 7 ladies which i call my 'friends' 2 of which are mums from up the school, Kerry (my best mate) is coming, other 2 have now started families and weve lost touch. and the other one moved to South Africa just before xmas. Most of the Ladies that ive invited are family. I dont want to be adding any girls who i dont really class as friends, just so they can either ruin my night or go round talking about me behind my back.
    I just wondered if there was a limit on girls at a hen do?! Sounds stupid now, but im worrying.

    14th August 2010 Engaged to Mister Matthews 17th August 2012 I'll be Missus Matthews
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    • mrsV2013
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    i personally think 10 is fine. mine will prob be the same amount x

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    I think 10 is plenty. Remember, it's quality and not quantity :-)
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    • Kimberlee1
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    Well thats what im thinking.... Thanks ladies x

    14th August 2010 Engaged to Mister Matthews 17th August 2012 I'll be Missus Matthews
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    • stressed to max b2b
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    why isnt 10 enough???? its more than enough especially when u think about u all gettin served by time half of u have been served then the other half teh first half are ready for leaving, 10 is plenty and its the ones that are coming that counts that also matter xx

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    • cakey
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    I think 10 is fine, theres only going to be 3 of us for my hen weekend. Just me and my 2 MOH's.
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    • Kate_B
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    I'm in the same boat - drifted apart from a lot of people etc so worry that there's not going to be enough people, but then on the otherhand you'll have a fab , good quality time with those 10 rather than 20 or 30 etc... x x
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    • loustew2012
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    id rather have about 10 but my sister has invited cousins i dont really like to make up the numbers. so i dont really know whos invited and how many. if i talk about the hen do she goes mad and runs to my mum....bugs me so i does!!! xx

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    • Unknown
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    have who you want there. your closet friends. i invited about 20 something and had 15 come on the first one to brighton and then 3 to my other one in turkey xx




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    • Mel D
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    10 is plenty! I had 14 to the day part of mine and then only 6 of us at the night part

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    • rocketqueen
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    I believe to the actual night out there has been 15 invited some won't come , naturally. Then the week of the wedding Me and my 3 closest friends and my sister are going for a spa day and out for dinner... It's the small day I am most looking forward to xx

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    • Jakesmummy
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    I invited 16 and there are 11 coming on mine. I think thats plenty tbh, you'll have a fab time xx
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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    10 is fine hun!!!! i invited loadssssssssssss all said can u do a local one for us, which i am but my proper hen do further away i have 21

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    • krisw86
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    Kimberlee, 10 is plenty for ur hen do. too many people cna mean too many different personalities, resulting in a clash. with that follows arguements and that is the last thing u need on a hen do!
    im in kent, and i'm a "thanet girl". well i was born in margate and grew up there, but moved away years ago.
    dont worry bout how many people are going, its gonna be about u and not how many are there with u. xxx
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    • Jill
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    I cant understand how10 isnt enough - I'd be more than happy if 10 people come to mine! We're having 2 as well - a spa day for me, bm's and my mum, gran and mil etc then a night out in town for the girls - tbh I couldnt care who comes as long as my nearest and dearest are there for it x

    29th September 2012
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    • lisa123
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    for my hen weekend there will be 8 of us but for my local hen night there will be about 30 of us

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