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The Big Day > Hen Nights: [Sink] Not sure what to do-a bit long (sorry!)

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- CommentAuthorKylee27
Right,

I live 90 miles away from my home town and so don't get to see friends and family all the time, a friend who I went to school with lives in London (40 mins from me) yet we're barely in touch. Not for any particular reason, just sort of lost touch, she has had a STD card from me though.

I have 3 close mates in my home town who are all coming on the hen, and our other close friend (who moved to Ireland 10 years ago) is also coming back for it. So far so good! Well the friend in Ireland is coming home for a visit in 3 weeks and we're all meeting up-great-except that I forgot to invite the friend now living in London on the hen night and the coach is full. :0(

I know that during the course of the night the wedding is bound to come up so do I 'fess up beforehand to London friend, see if anyone who has paid their deposit to come on the hen (everyone) actually can't make it and thereby frees up a space or keep quiet and hope no-one says anything? Answers on a postcode please! Lol.xx

Can't wait to be married!
- CommentAuthorLegoWife
Personally I'd keep quiet, maybe she won't have expected to be invited? I don't think my answers big enough to fit on a postcode though :P lol!

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- CommentAuthorMrsMelodyWalker
To be quiet honest, if I was invited to a hen do, I'd think I was invited to some part of the wedding .. So I think you have to be honest with her x

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- CommentAuthorNavyBaby
I think it's best to be honest with her...she'll find out some how with 'Social Networking' taking over the world! She'll understand I'm sure. Yeah she might be a bit miffed but if you don't speak regularly, she'll understand.

Hope it works out.xxx
- CommentAuthorMrs brown - 19/08/12
I would tell her if she is your friend she should understand, plus if she finds out though someone else she maybe abit angry x

- CommentAuthor*Kat B*
Just be honest and tell her the truth after all planning a wedding and everything else that goes with it is bound to make you forget things from time to time - just remind her that it wasn't intentional

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- CommentAuthorFuture mrs mac
Is the coach not just to transport you to where your going?You could invite her to the final place and say sorry no room on coach but if anyone pulls out will let you know?xx
- CommentAuthorLisa Ramos
I would definitely be honest with her, someone is bound to let slip about the hen do.

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- CommentAuthorsweetie-laura
i would defo tell her, i was going to go into detail but posts have been threaded above! hope it all works out for you!x
- CommentAuthorKylee27
Haha, postcode! Obviously I meant postcard!

Well I'm taking your advice and will be honest. I think that fact that she isn't on FB is why she slipped my mind. My friends said to do what Mrs Mac said.

Thanks ladies-love this site! xx

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