sorry for this rant but im NOT happy with h2b's sister. Not happy at all.

h2b is the youngest of 6 brothers and sisters and they all live abroad apart from him, 1 sister lives in France, 2 sisters in Grand Cayman, 1 brother in Spain, 1 brother in Australia. So we've given plenty of notice for the wedding so they can make arrangements. Now they've all said they would come apart from his 2 sisters in Grand Cayman. One we can understand as she doesn't have a lot of money and she has 3 young children so she has said she will try her damn hardest to come but cant say yes just yet. But the other sister we're so p****d off with.

2 years ago me and h2b went on holiday to turkey. 3 days into the holiday we receive a txt from his mum saying that she'd left his dad to live half way across the country to live with some new bloke she'd met off the internet and taken h2b's dog with her. (nice holiday we had!) Anyway up until 2 months ago she was going between this bloke and h2b's dad, living here then there, changing her mind. it hurt h2b so bad and iv never seen him so broken. he's a proper mummy's boy so he was heart broken. well she's been back now a few months and h2b is talking to his mum again. as he said its water under the bridge, its still his mum and the past is the past. and for a while me and h2b where the only people who would actually talk to his mum as she was shunned by the rest of the family. gradually over time though they've all patched things up. apart from one.

she's always been a bit difficult so h2b says but this just takes the biscuit. we sent the message a few months ago, like i said so they could make arrangements and heard nothing from them till today. all we got was the word "NO". now she's got the money as her husband owns the biggest business on the island, has 2 houses, her own speedboat, and is a spoilt woman, where if she don't get her own way has a paddy. she's over for her friends SON'S wedding the month before but says no to us! And its got back to us that the only reason she wont come is because we're talking to h2b's mum!!!!

Its absolutely PATHETIC. If anyone should be upset about what's happened it H2b. for one thing he still lives here so is in the thick of it, and 2 h2b's dad is not there dad. (i know that sounds bad, but my point is its h2b's mum and dad and he's not upset so why should she be?!)

Rant over. needed to get that out. Angry is not the word!

i know but it will be the first time he's ever had all his brothers and sisters and mum and dad in the same room as each other. they all moved away before he was born x

She would probably go out of her way and spoil it for you. Don't loose sleep over her as she will be the one losing out. xxxx

Would you really want her there anyway as you haven't described her very nicely? Family or not i only want people at my wedding that i actually want there and want to be there too. If she cant put her differences with her mother aside for her own brothers wedding then she isnt worth it honey. My dad cheated on my mum for 4 years and now they are divorced but my mum is putting this aside for my wedding day so that there is no issues or problems on my day. You also have 15 months to go and alot can change in that time so i wouldn't worry to much yet... xxx

omg! why would you even want someone like that at your wedding?? someone who seems like they dont even care!?

dont invite her she will prob cause alot of trouble for you atleast you will have eachothers other familys there x