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    • auntiewoo
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    due to major ****-up we have had to postpone the wedding. Our new date is Friday 20th August. We are definitely still getting married though. So am in the process of cancelling everything a rescheduling-nightmare!! xx
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    • Mrs (Dove) Pidgeon
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    Whats happened? Hope you get it all sorted!!

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    • futuremrsstockwin
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    ahhhh poor you hope everything is okay! good luck with the plans x x x
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    • ~*~ Becca ~*~
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    o no..we were all wishing u good luck for this weekend..

    hope u manage to get it sorted xxx

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    • mrsmada
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    OMG hope evry thing ok x
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    • yvonne
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    oh my god, you must be devestated!! i hope everything works out.
    xx

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    • Lindsey Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ
      CommentAuthorLindsey Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ
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    Hope everything gest sorted :) xXx
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    • Mrs fairytale
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    aaww no what a night mare, glad u are still getting married and hope u and everyone is ok xxx

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    • Kerrylou
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    Hope you're ok! Sorry you've had to postpone but glad to hear you're still getting married!! xxx

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    • Melly
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    So sorry to hear that. I hope nothing major has happened. xx
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    • CommentAuthorShellster90
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    Aww hope you get it all sorted!! :) xx
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    • auntiewoo
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    Well-it's a lot quicker to cancel stuff than it is to organize everything! All done-now I just have to re-organize! Going to give myself a couple of weeks off-then start again. I am surprisingly ok about it but my dad is fuming! Especially as we it's for the most stupid, annoying reason! Paul booked his holiday months ago-and the stupid woman in the office didn't put it in the book-so now there are too many people off and he is the only MOT tester there, so they won't give him the day off! He wanted to walk out but I told him not to-we need the money now I'm not working! Not only are they not letting him have the day off-but he has been put on disciplinary for shouting at the biatch in the office. He will be looking for another job!! Anyway-as they say "sheet happens" at least we still have each other! xx
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    • Mrs (Dove) Pidgeon
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    That is seriously stupid- its his WEDDING!!!!!!!!

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    • CommentAuthorMrs Daltry
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    OMG HUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!,,,,, i hope your ok,,,let me know if you want to meet in town for coffee, i might pop in tomorrow
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    • Kaya
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    Omg that's shocking!! I'm sorry hun x

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    • xxsophieMxx
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    thats awful news hun, its not yr h2b's fault, they should have put his holidays in thier books and given that they screwed it up they should give him the day off and just deal with it! hope it all gets sorted for you xxx
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    • x~Hails~x
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    hunni im soooo sorry :-(

    if i was him i would put in a complaint against this women to head office like the girls say its his WEDDING DAY surely he should have prefrence (sp?) over the other ppl off???

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    • b2bnicola
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    OMG and no1 in his work who had the day would come in and cover for him!!!
    thats an utter disgrace!
    do u have wedding insurance - u can claim for the costs of rescheduling :)
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    • mrsmada
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    aww woo thats awful i would be absolutley fuming. i know where carl works they not very happy about him havin his hols 4 our wedding cos its the same weekend as the tall ships race in hartlepool (he works in a pub in hartlepool) but he did explain wen he first transferred there that we were getting married that week so it was tough x
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    • MRST
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    i would send an invoice to the silly bint that 'forgot' to put his holiday in! its his wedding for god sake! why the hell couldnt they re arrange somthin else.

    hope you get it sorted soon x
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    • DrunchPunk
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    Utterly stupid and petty - it shouldn't be made to be his problem, since it wasn't his fault!

    It's a DAY for heaven's sake!

    So sorry Woo :(

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    • Mrs Alsbetty
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    oh my god! i'm sorry but i would not go in it is after all his wedding day! i'd take this further and i would risk losing the job what an awful company he works for i think i'd go! hope you havn't lost money etc if you have you should ask it back from them, thats awful i'm sure if they phoned around customers and explained they would be fine with it!
    why cant others give up their time off?

    this has disgusted me! hope you are all ok xxxx

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    • catch
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    oh! hunni, that is such a shame,but well your still getting married which is fab!!!
    l would charge his work for anything you incurr in the moving of your date hunni xxx
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    • Kesha
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    Thats rubbish!!!! Has he not got proof of when he submitted his holiday? What happened to team ethos, I cannot believe that noone volunteered to cancel their holiday, since as its his wedding day and alll!
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    • Suzi
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    Im lost for words!!

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    • alibum
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    What a F****g joke !!! i would have just taken the day off and stuff them they could have found someone!!!! :o(
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    • shellay
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    oh, i am so sorry for you, at least you wont have long to wait till it happens, fingers crossed for you x

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    • Joolsy
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    OMG thats shocking really feel for you can't believe this has happened with a few days to go!! Hopew you get it all re-organised ok!!!xx

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    • CeCe
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    Whatta steaming pile of excrement - I sooooooooooo feel for you!!

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    • Relfy
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    Thats disgracful... its his wedding day, not as if it was a densit appointment... the fact he has now be put on a disaplinary just rubs salt in the wounds.... what company does he work for?? i want to start a hate campain!! x x
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    • Daffy
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    OMG IT IS HIS WEDDING!!!! SUrely one of the other guys would be willing to come in to work for him???

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    • Jay
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    I honestly cant believe they wont give him the day off! what a joke! I hope youve not lost any money hun xx
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    • momari
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    OMG Im lost for words ,too

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    • marypenguins
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    That is absolutely ridiculous Woo!! I take it the person who wouldn't let him have the time off wasn't a woman who's ever organised a wedding before!!!! Just because the woman didn't put it in. Does he have any evidence of putting the request through and having it authorised? Say by email or on a paper form? They should pay the cancellation costs!x
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    • Eriksfjord
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    OMG - that is so bad! So sorry to hear this - glad you are ok with everything and still going ahead! Am not surprised he was angry I would have gone mad!! Hope everything gets sorted. xx

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    • Kerrylou
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    If you lose any money I'd be tempted to sue the b*tch's a5s - and as for HIM getting a disciplinary, my word, he had EVERY right to shout at her, her f**k up has just cost you 2 your wedding day!! I'm surprised she hasn't been punched for it!!
    You shouldn't have cancelled anything, he should have just 'called in sick' for the day, what are they going to do if he does?
    *hugs* to both of you xxx

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    • linzi
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    OH MY GOD! I would really have to stop myself from going in there and kicking his bosses ass for not letting him have day off!! and its really shitty that none of the other MOT testers would work that day for him.

    You must be gutted. Feel so sorry for you!!

    On another note, did you have wedding insurance? and if you did how is it working out rescheduling everything and paying it on insurance?

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    • CommentAuthorMrsd2b
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    Im shocked no one stepped forward to help him out, im so sorry this happened to you both. xx
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    • Melly
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    That is completely stupid. Could he not phone in sick for the day. I'd certainly complain to head office. xx
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    • nickers
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    Aw im sorry to hear that hun that is bloody ridiclious surely someone would help him out hope you both ok xxxx

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    • mym72
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    Has he got proof of his holiday request? If so I would take out a formal grievance against the woman for the turmoil and upset this has caused all of you. She is unable to do her job properly if she 'forgets' to put holidays in the book. If he's in a union he should contact them as well - he's definitely got a case. If you've had any cancellation charges then either her, or the company should then be liable for them. It sounds like a disgusting company - and if anyone needs to be on a disciplinary it should be that stupid woman.

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    • Mrs Turps (Nicpep)
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    Honestly hun - the re-arranging of the wedding as got to cost more than it would for him to quit!!

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    • Emsy5000
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    I am really sorry to hear all that really pants thinking of you

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    • lala "mod" bunni
      CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
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    i am gobsmacked

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    • ~*~ Becca ~*~
      CommentAuthor~*~ Becca ~*~
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    i agree with the idea of if he has evidence of puttin his request in ..then can shove it in their faces lol xx

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    • Magsy
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    what an absolute pile of sh1t!!! sending big hugs your way xxxxx

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    • lala "mod" bunni
      CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
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    i would call head office and speak to the MD

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    • hayleypooh
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    i dont know how you are so carm about it all hun i would be fumming! surely its not right and someone could have covered i bet your h2b as been talking about his wedding day for ages now so they must have known!
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    • lala "mod" bunni
      CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
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    Mr lala has just said tell them to stuff thier job .......or go to doc and get a sick note ....they cant do anything then

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    • hayleypooh
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    yep work-stress-not listening to him GOT BE DONE! its so unfair
 

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