just had an awful day, 1st thing I see when I am about to start work is an insulting text from H2B threatening to dump me if I make him late for work once again (I had no idea why I made him late), and then screens all my calls, get more mean texts from him, even if I apologised a thousand times, and finally when I manage to get him on the phone at 5.30 he barely talks and barely acknowledge my vocal apology, and now he's home, completely ignored me, no kiss no hello no how's your day? and when I told him once again that I was sorry and in what state HE put me, by ignoring me all day, and that I'd expect him to apologise, he says NO he won't apologise as he's got nothing to apologise for. then I do my usual, cry, feel awful and lonely, and tell him maybe I should look for another place to live seeing how he treats me, and now he said I should do that sooner rather than later. Dunno if at that point its worth trying to patch things up so I feel better (or worse) or just ignore it and cry inside
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Getting really stressed and excited now
CommentAuthorJilly17
What an awful situation! Does h2b usually treat you like this or is this new?
CommentAuthorsuzky123
ok. Is he just saying this because wires have gotten crossed today and hes angry i,e, said it in heat of the moment or do you genuinely believe he means it?
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CommentAuthorkatiejane
Thats really bad but a typical sulky man lol. Is there problems at work? Maybe there is something going on there he isn't telling you about?
CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
awww crikey hun!!! there sumting else behind this? thats not ncie at all!!!
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CommentAuthorFuture Mrs Doublé
basically I keep asking him that he gets his things ready before going to bed, and last night as he once again ignored me and cause they were filthy I hid his trainers (not his only pair) and I guess he woke up at last minute and couldn't find them, but instead of waking up same time than me, and when not finding those trainers, he could have picked his other pair, no he looked and looked, and then arrived late at work, blaming it all on me of course. It is not a one time thing, we argue very regularly but since I have been on Prozac, I am a lot calmer, and nicer, and don't provoke him any more, but he now seems to be looking for arguments whenever he can, not acknowledging that mentally I am still very fragile, with everything that's going on in my life at the moment. also he never ever apologises for anything even when he really should
Soon to be Mrs Gary Doublé
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Getting really stressed and excited now
CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
big hugz hun x xx
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CommentAuthorAtaraxia
My days that is harsh! Hope you are okay *hugs*
My h2b gets grumpy when he has later shifts at work but after a few days of me waiting all day to see him and him being a moody, nasty so and so as soon as he stepped through the door, I was fed up and told him straight. He apologised a lot and now if much better and he knows now that it upsets me. However, if he EVER spoke to me like your h2b has to you, he'd be sleeping on the sofa or in the shed and he bloody well knows it.
Talk to him... find out what's wrong. He should not be talking to you like that at all.
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CommentAuthorsuzky123
i think you need to calmly sit with him WHEN HES CALMED DOWN TOO and ask him if he meant what he said about you moving out soon. I think its just in the heat of the moment but you need to be sure as you need to know where you stand hun x
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total loss to date: 24.5 lbs now need to maintain!
CommentAuthorFuture Mrs Doublé
now he just went upstairs in the bedroom, as when I was typing he asked if I wanted some of what he cooked, and left everything dirty in kitchen once again, for me to clean I guess. I really can't deal with that at the moment :(
Soon to be Mrs Gary Doublé
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Getting really stressed and excited now
CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
leave it.... leave it for himt o do!!
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CommentAuthorkimmy
Hope things will work themselves out.xx
CommentAuthorsuzky123
id normally say leave it for him to do but with the situation volatile at the moment, i think id just clean them and let him calm down. that may be me being a push over but then its something less that he can have a go at. If it was just a normal fight id defo leave them there but with what he said, Id play it crafty and try and diffuse the situation at the mo and not give him any more ammo by saying things like 'and now the house is a mess' he prob wont see that it is his mess x
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weight now 8st 4.5 lbs
total loss to date: 24.5 lbs now need to maintain!
CommentAuthorFuture Mrs Doublé
he finally came back downstairs and when I was cleaning my last bit in the kitchen he came and said "what are you doing? I was going to do it" as if, he heard me for about 15 min before coming and say that, so I'm still pretty p*** off, as he still hasn't apologised and does not realise how he makes me feel
Soon to be Mrs Gary Doublé
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CommentAuthorsuzky123
so no thank you then. at least hes talking to you. does it seem like hes calmed down and talking a little nicer to you?
cant wait to be Mrs Evans less than 3 weeks woooo
start weight 10st 1.5 lbs
weight now 8st 4.5 lbs
total loss to date: 24.5 lbs now need to maintain!
CommentAuthorFuture Mrs Doublé
he's completely ignoring me now, watching tv and he was pretending he was gonna do it, and of course NO thank you cause that is my duty to do all the cleaning, cooking, etc.
Soon to be Mrs Gary Doublé
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Getting really stressed and excited now
CommentAuthorMrsSaraParry!
it sounds to me like there's something else bothering him and he's just taking it out on you. People take their anger out on the people they love the most. I'd have a sit down with him and ask if everything is ok, even though I know you probably just want to strangle him at the moment! xx
CommentAuthorsuzky123
rather than talk it through on here, go and have a sit down with h2b and ask him whats wrong. Also ask him if there is anything you can do to help so it seems you are being supportive when all you want to do is kick him in the eh hems at the moment.
cant wait to be Mrs Evans less than 3 weeks woooo
start weight 10st 1.5 lbs
weight now 8st 4.5 lbs
total loss to date: 24.5 lbs now need to maintain!
CommentAuthornickers
think i would get him told no need to be treated like that hun big hugs xxx
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CommentAuthorFuture Mrs Doublé
we've spoken he's kinda apologised, and just had a real bad day, and I hate a whole Easter egg (big smarties) in front of him as punishment. I think he will be nicer now
Soon to be Mrs Gary Doublé
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Getting really stressed and excited now
CommentAuthorsuzky123
at least you know now he didnt mean what he said and dont you feel better talking instead of stewing over it and possibly making wrong interpretations. i am daft when h2b says something slight I will think hes in a major mood with me but then when I say he laughs, calls me a divvy and says hes never in a mood and gives a major hug... yet I am paranoid at the smallest comment. I think we all do it hun but in this case he did need to apologise to you but always talk to him and get things sorted x
cant wait to be Mrs Evans less than 3 weeks woooo
start weight 10st 1.5 lbs
weight now 8st 4.5 lbs
total loss to date: 24.5 lbs now need to maintain!
CommentAuthorsuzky123
and good on you for eating the easter egg. I am holding h2b giant creame egg one at ransom until he does dishawasher
cant wait to be Mrs Evans less than 3 weeks woooo
start weight 10st 1.5 lbs
weight now 8st 4.5 lbs
total loss to date: 24.5 lbs now need to maintain!
