Wedding Forum - need some advise please xx

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- CommentAuthorFuture Mrs Coleman
Afternoon all,
I'm in need of some help please, as some of u may know last year I was questioning if we should do the whole 'big' wedding or go for something smaller and more personal to us. Well we found out in November that our venue had gone bust and we could no longer get married there! We have since discussed going down to Cornwall (our favourite place in the world! ) to get married there with only 20-25 guests. My issue is I feel like my partner isnt interested and every time I bring the wedding up he changes the subject. I know it might sound silly but I'm beginning to think he might not want to marry me anymore! Were going through a few other problems at the moment but I can't help but worry. Any advise would be soooo nice right now. Thanks xx
- CommentAuthorSianyCaitlin
  
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I don't think there's anything you can really do except speak to h2b!! That's the only way you're going to know how he's feeling. As you said, there are some other problems at the moment so his mind may be otherwise occupied. Just sit him down & have a chat & tell him how you feel xx

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I marry my best friend 08/06/2014
Can't wait to be Mrs Sharp x
- CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
i think the only advice we can give is you need to talk to him to find out his thinking on everything ....maybe some direct questions would be a good idea

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- CommentAuthorLauraJo87
If there's a lot going on in his life ATM he maybe feels like the wedding can take a backseat for a bit.

But I agree with Siany you ned to have a chat with him - could it be that he is feeling overwhelmed with wedding things on top of everything else? Xx

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- CommentAuthorChanelP
I agree with Siany and LauraJo I think that the best thing to do is talk to him about it and see what he is thinking and tell him how you feel. x

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- CommentAuthorBecca
I think you need to speak to your h2b, he may have work issues or something going on and the wedding maybe the last thing on his mind, weddings can definitely take a lot out of you.

(me and my partner live in Cornwall and are getting married here, it is gorgeous, however it rains basically all year, I definitely recommend Talland church... The beach is next to it and its absolutely stunning!)

Good luck with talking to h2b xoxo
- CommentAuthorRosyF77
Maybe just back off him with the wedding things for a couple of weeks....see if he brings it up....if he doesnt, just sit down and talk to him so you know where you stand. Im sure he still wants to marry you but men can get a little overwhelmed with this sort of stuff whereas we seem to lap it up :-)
- CommentAuthorKistHall
I just had this conversation today!!! I was getting concerned that he wasn't interested and maybe had changed his mind (I'm always paranoid that he's eventually going to realise what he's agreed to, but I've been having a few issues lately so that hasn't helped). But when I finally stopped trying to dodge the subject, incase I was right, everything got resolved so quickly. And I'm feeling so much better. He'd just been busy and stress, and dealing with everything else, it wasn't disinterest just distractions and other more pressing / stressful things to deal with. So maybe its the same thing? He's just distracted with other stuff and maybe isn't so interested in talking about the wedding with everything else he's got on his mind?? Just talk to him. I hope you get as good a respinse as I did
- CommentAuthorFuture Mrs Coleman
Thanks for all youe replies everyone. I think the best thing to do is just ask and be honest with him. I guess I'm just scared he will turn around and say I don't want to do it anymore! Xx
- CommentAuthorSianyCaitlin
I'm sure if he didn't want tom he would of said by now, don't stress :) good luck xx

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Got engaged 16/07/2012
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- CommentAuthorsussie
i always think your mind makes it worse than it actually is, but i also live by the philosphy that i would rather find out the truth now, than later. but i bet its jst distraction with other stuff, my h2b is like that at the mo, and we got less than 5 weeks
- CommentAuthorTori
Men aren't as excited about the whole wedding thing like we are. Hope you get it sorted though x
- CommentAuthorLindaC29
I agree with Siany,talk it through ,find out what he thinks, after all being able to talk to each other in stressful times throughout your married life,can help you stay close,men can't always cope with stress like we can. xx
- CommentAuthorKristina
I think the best thing to do is talk it through together and see what he thinks. Especially if you are both getting stressed out about different thing that are going on.

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