Thought I'd jump into the dream recollection bandwagon as I had a really disturbing dream this morning. I don't know why but I keep having dreams about this particular ex of mine. I 100000000000000000000% does not have any feelings for him anymore and we only really went out for a month. I am also not the cheating type and am 10000000000000000000000% sure that I love my h2b with all my heart and soul... He is "the one" but these dreams keep throwing me off and makes me feel paranoid about why I'm having these dreans. Some people say dreams are the exact opposite of reality.. Some people say dreams are your hidden desires or worries.. Well on my dreams I keep dreaming that I left my h2b for my ex and that I'm so inlove with him again while I still love h2b too but then I keep choosing the ex and we're very sweet and intimate on my dreams. I feel so guilty cos as much as I know people can't control their dreams, it still isn't nice to dream I'm cheating or leaving my h2b when I've never ever cheated and I know h2b is my soulmate. Anyone else have had this before? Gawd I just want to feel normal lol xx

I have had a few like this! My therapist told me that dreams are just your mind's way of living out every possible scenario for every possible situation, and really have no meaning apart from that. I know you said you only went out for a month, but did you get closure on this ex, or did it just end abruptly? Either way I wouldnt let it worry you hun, human minds are complex things! :) x

wouldnt say it means owt,i dream about my ex a few times and its never been anythin major but after i always appreciate my h2b so much more for how diff he is 2 my ex and how much happier i am.could be a good sign ur mind reminding you how good things are.xx

Hi Mrs s, just sent you an email. I dream about my first love ALL the time! Even when I dream about other people it is him physically in my dream. It used to drive me nuts but realistically he was the last bf I had while I was well so I just put it down to associating him with that. Try not to take it to heart so much! x

I had a very bizarre dream last night, started with me forgetting to go and get my make up done, then the hair dresser didnt turn up, the car didnt arrive so i had to get the bus to the church, i think the ceremony went well, cant remember that bit, but then when the guests were walking from the church to the reception one of them got run over and died. Then at the reception 2 other brides turned up at the same venue and thanked me for paying for their weddings as well as my own. Then when i got in the lift with my brother all the guests were telling me that i had to snog my brother to make my wedding legal, how very odd!!!! lol

lol di x

Thanks excited bride, sarah and suzky :)

Ryhope - omg u are my long lost twin! Lol!! It's annoying tho dreaming about them isn't it cos I recall my dreams for a very long time and your mind plays tricks on you.. You start to wonder if you're sure you don't have feelings for them anymore. I remember one time I dreamt h2b cheated on me and I was so peed off with him when I woke up cos I still have the feelings I had on the dream lol. Quite like phoebe when she dreamt of Ross on friends ha! I emailed you back xx

Jo- that is a horrible dream!! That happened to me too, dreamt my mum died cos of me and I woke up sobbing with tears in my eyes. I do dream of funny stuff too and I'd wake up chuckling lol. Bet you hugged and kissed your h2b when you woke up from that awful dream.

Di - lol that was really funny I had a similar dream about my bro it made me want to puke I was seriously wondering if I was a nutjob with the types of dream I have! Gawd I'm glad I've stopped grinding my teeth while sleeping, that drives my h2b mad! Lol :)

i have dreams where one minute im with h2b and next thing i know hes turned to my ex but i see my ex and talk to him because he is my daughters dad. I have no feelings for him though and the way i feel about h2b i dont even think i ever loved my ex so i dont even know why he in my dreams but i don't like it lol x

Crocadillo - I once dreamt that Tom Cruise and Brad Pitt were fighting over me. LOL!! Well one can really dream eh? Ha! But yeah that's what happens to me too, I wake up still having remnants of my feelings on the dream to my ex and it messes me up for a couple of days. Not nice. Lol really made me laugh about your johnny vegas comment rofl!!

Ljeh - glad you know what I mean, don't like it too! I'd be happy with the brad pitt / andy garcia / kevin costner dreams tho lol x

Mrs b2b - cheers hun. Lol makes me laugh about your h2b, I am forever killing or beating up my h2b and girl he cheated on me with in my dreams.

wedding planning is making us all a little crazy,even my friends been dreaming about my wedding,and i dreamt that id got alex furguson to come to the wedding reception for a pressie for h2b and they ran off together!!!!!!wtf.lol.x

I keep having the same dream - THe speeches are coming to an end and I stand up to say a few words and announce to everyone including h2b that Im 4 months pregnant! Altho I think that would be a pretty cool thing to announce I have no intentions of making that come true! xxx

lol,worst thing is when i told h2b about it he ad a strange little grin on his face,said at least he d never miss a man u match.bloody males.lol.x