My parents hate my partner and after 2 years we have just got engaged i want my mum there as im the oldest girl and she has care of my sons but i dont want her to disown me for who im marrying whats the best way to invite her x
CommentAuthorLauraF89
Sorry to hear that they don't like your partner. Maybe have a get together, go for dinner and have a good heart to heart. Tell her you're engaged and that you'd really like her there but you're scared she'll disown you etc. Be honest and just say how you feel?
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October 31st 2015
I will be Mrs. Henry
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CommentAuthorMrs T. 2 Be
I agree with Laura, you just need to be honest, the longer you put it off the worse it could be?
Started Dating: 25th September 2005
Engaged: 26th September 2012
Getting Married: 25th May 2014
CommentAuthorRachelE118
I'm going to be really blunt here. If she has care of your 2 sons and you're marrying a man she doesn't like she obviously has issues with some decisions you've made in your life. So I agree with the others, go and talk to her and explain your side of things. As a mum she probably doesn't want to see you get hurt (again?) but not coming to your wedding will devastate you so tell her!! Good luck chick xx
CommentAuthorKatieB36
She knows where engaged she wasnt happy about it but i dont want to lose her as she is my mum x
Everytime i mention that we need to talk about my relationship she changes subject x
CommentAuthorMrs T. 2 Be
Have you asked your Mum why she feels this way?
Started Dating: 25th September 2005
Engaged: 26th September 2012
Getting Married: 25th May 2014
CommentAuthorKatieB36
She just says shes scared of me been hurt again as me and my partner did split for 6months but we are loads better now i just feel like she dont want me to be happy she says im stil young x
CommentAuthorKatieB36
Spoke to my mum bout the weddimg she said dont hold my breath and that she will see bout coming dress shopping so fingers crossed x
CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
the best way to invite is to be honest and tell her how much you want her there ... then the ball is in her court
