Soo sorry to hear this hun I lost my dad to cancer so can understand how your feeling, maybe speak with your mam about your wedding date but if you keep it the same hun shes got something to fight for and look forward to, could you maybe arrange a little pamper time for just you and your mam xx

:( this makes me sad.
Maybe discuss with the Venue first and then your mum, if the venue agrees to bring it forward at least that way you can say to your mum that the option is there to bring the date forward instead of mentioning it to her first and have her think it's a possibility when it might not be.

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Thanks all. Im going down on the weekend. Wedding is 19'weeks we don't know when her chemo will start but I know she needs heart tests and blood work done first. So let's say chemo starts beginning of march? Lasts until middle of April. So may half term during the week could be an option but she's a stubborn old mare and I reckon she won't hear of me moving the date! Xx

awwww hun im so sorry, maybe ask your venue first to see if they are flexible then ring the dress shop and see if they could possibly be sped up ( see if a speed up fee could do the job) and ask your mum what she thinks
i personally would bring it forward xx

So sorry to hear this :(

Sending all my wishes yours and your mums way. I'm sure if you decide to put the wedding forward something can be sorted with the dresses

I am so sorry to hear that. If you feel like you want to (not have to) do so. I'm sure you can get your dresses done earlier. Give the store a call and explain. I. Sure concidering the they would be happy to help! Keep your chin up and just think your mum will be proud of you x

Hi all. Lots of soul searching and phone calls today. Venue were brilliant and we arranged a date for 7 weeks time. My dress wouldn't have been back but it's only a dress! Mum understood and the oncology nurse agreed to 2 sessions of chemo rather than 6 straight weeks. And then I get a phone call from h2b's specialist. He's waiting for major surgery and guess what?? Been offered an appointment for next week surgery 3rd march. There's no way I can support him, my mum, kids doing gcse's and A levels plus work full time. So back to plan A wedding 28 June. It's only 19 weeks away and gives mum time to get over her chemo. So fingers crossed the old girl is her usual stubborn self and bounces back xx