they dont normally give morpine for stomach pains, as it can cause nausea and vomiting, so it can make things worse xx

Whats he under house arrest for? technically he hasn't done anything wrong (in relation to the us air force). He wasn't AWOL and if he's in hospital then he had a legitimate reason for not being there for his shift. xx

He didnt think? He was supposed to be collecting you to take you to a shoot honey - thats a really poor excuse, your his fiancee.

ok, hun if you have had a heart to heart, then im sure you just feel relief now. im sure he'll never do that again lol. (i bet you gave him a right telling off) lol. im just glad he's ok and you's are ok. take care hun xxx

Emma hunni ....... have just logged on and read all this .....
1, i`m delighted he has "been found"
2, you need to be told the honest truth was it an ear infectin or stomach pains ?when was he "admitted" etc etc .......
write down all your questions so that you can saty calm wehn you see him

ok hun, so long as you have it sorted. I'm happy for you. xxxxx

If its that bad he should not be driving - he is a danger to himself and others honey, and i do not believe for one minute that the military are allowing him to drive a vehicle. They will have seized his licence pending a medical discharge.

HUGE huggles hunni from everyone here ..........YOU are the one we were all so worried about . YOU WILL SORT THINGS ONE WAY OR ANOTHER XXXXXxxxxxxXXXXX

but they are... I don't know what you want me to tell you. He has narcalepsy, i've seen the paperwork, i've been to his appointments with him, and yes it can get bad if he doesn't take his meds in time. And he drives. He has a driving licence for over here, and noone has seized it.

I agree with Goff he would have known you would have been going out of your mind with worry!!! He was supposed to be taking you somewhere you had only discussed it the night before.I feel he has been up to no good honey.

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if you believe him thats fine. i personally,from whats been said/done, wouldnt but thats just me. if you trust what he says and love him thats all that matters. bet u cant wait to see him now x

Having read through all these messages, Im sorry but this is a classic case of somebody in love believing what they want to believe ( love is blind etc) Im sorry but not one word of that rings true. You don't have to be the sharpest tool in the box to realise that not turning up to see your fiancee at the arranged time, is going to cause panic and upset that a simple call, email, text could alleviate. The "head shirt" as you call him would NOT no matter what differences he has with Justin try to cause trouble in he's relationship as it would be more than he's jobs worth!! Ear infection, stomach troubles?? As soon as justin was admited to A&E he would have been asked the name and address of he's usual GP. So would have given the name and address of the med center on camp. The hospital would then have contacted the med center....So lakenheath would have been aware that Justin was in hospital. Whilst in hospital he would have been asked if he would like to contact anyone, but AGAIN chose not to let you know!!! hmmm somethings not right hunny. And if justin is a diagnosed Narcolept surely he would have been given instant medical discharge (I have known people to be medically discharged for much less) also how the hell has he managed to keep he's driving licence (unless he has not had a narcoleptic episode for the last five years)!! Surley if he is doped up on morphine he would remain in hospital untill the effects wear off??? Anyway Hopefully you get to the bottom of what REALLY happened this weekend. Good luck x

my friend has epilepsy and he has just got his licence back as his epilepsy is so well controlled and he has not had a fit for a certain amount of time, this may be the same for narcalepsy ??

That clears up that point- good find possum

The main thing is he is ok- we need to remember that. Medical discharges take along time to come through aswell- they aren't instant. And at sometime in our lives, I think the majority of us have done something stupid becuase we didn't think.

But I think there may be more to this story than hes said so far.

We all care about you loads honey and im sure im not the only one who has been lied to on numerous occasions.My Ex husband couldnt tell the truth he was incapable of it. We all want you to be happy and you wont be if you allow yourself to be lied to. You need to confront him and demand the truth!!

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I know :-) I didn't mean it to sound like people were arguing. Just everyone seemed a bit unsure. Others also said he couldn't have one xx

i think u need 2 speak 2 him face 2 face and get him 2 tell u everythin again from the start without interupting him n see what he says if hes on morphine n still doped up he could be telling the truth just not makin much sense at the mo give him the chance 2 explain then u can see if hes lyin or not x
im guessin u probably dont want 2 be hearin all this from every1 but its cos we all care i know were probably not helpin ur stress levels either after everythin uve been thru this weekend u finally find out hes fine n every1 is sayin hes lying he might be n he might not but i think u need 2 decide urself n dont listen 2 what every1 is saying cos at end of day we dont know him u do n its easy 4 us 2 say no hes lyin cos were not in ur situation
hope everythin works out n just remember we all do care n are here if u need 2 talk x

Really pleased to that you have found where he is must be a huge relief, hope you manage to get everything sorted. x

hey again hun im glad its all been almost sorted, i dont know if its any help but i was admitted to hosp last year a few times for stomach pains (before and after they found my tumour), i got taken into A&E immediately coz it could have been appendicitis and was given morphine but i was in agony. they took my appendix out the 1st time and the next few times they started to investigate, BUT i know the NHS has a four hour rule, anyone admitted into A&E HAS TO be seen assessed and either discharged or admitted within 4 hours. so he would have been on a ward yesterday. and the NHS will generally do all they can to find a next of kin because if he got really ill and had to have an op theyd need someone to sign on his behalf. youve got enough on your plate so im not going to start talking bad about him but i do agree with the other ladies, youll know yourself somethings not quite right especially the photo thing when he said he was going to sleep. Take care and i hope it all works out x

I think the best thing to do is talk in person. You havent slept or eaten much, and you have been so frantic that you may be all over the place with questions and not taking in anything thats said etc.

Make sure you have some food and some rest sweetie and then sit down and have a proper chat face to face, then you can get all the facts etc and move on from there. You may have misunderstood something, it may all make sense when you have a clear mind but dont jump to conclusions either way xx

Ladies please excuse me butting in on your wedding forum but i thought as aman you may be interested on the flip side i have been constantly updated on this horrible situation by my better half and like you all im releived that he has been found .however the story smacks of bullshit through n through and i hope the lady grabs the bull by the horns demands the truth because she is owed it reminds him what he is missing and moves on .Harsh i know but better now than a few years down the line when theres children involved . Enough said and good luck to you all with your weddings Bettys AL x

thats good then. people wer just trying to help with their opinions tho x

like i said before hun u know him we dont glad youve got it sorted

hope your able to get some rest and something to eat big hugs to you think you need it xxx

i'm not saying they weren't trying to help. But come on. I've been through hell and back these past few days. My emotions are on a very thin line right now and the last thing I need right now is people branding justin a liar.

hun, we arent branding him a liar at all. All i was saying was talk properly and then go from there once you have the facts. If you have them and you're happy then thats whats important. If anyone said anything, I'm sure that they didnt intend to upset you, i'm sure their intentions were just to look out for you xx