well we didn't go for any ring in the end a the lady was soo rude. First she brought along her husband (not a biggy but still) then the first thing she said was 'you better order today!'

yea right, she wanted like £400 just for a ring that h2b liked which meant a £150 deposit. no way! maybe if she was nicer she would have got an order but theres cheaper out there that he prefers so tough on her really. not impressed with the service we got at all!! and no free gift as promised, she didn't even let us use the scratch card!!

Luckily I have a ring already so its just h2b who has to find something.....the search continues :)

I have just emailed to complain so will let you all know if I hear anything back

cheers elle I have put my experience on the thread for you :)

thats was our thought. I sometimes have my h2b with me when I go to my customers homes and he always stays in the car with a book. they came about 5pm so I think they just wanted to get home really. no joke the ring trays where on our dining table for no more than 10 minutes and some of them didn't even last that long. she took away all the ladies rings as we were looking at the mens rings first as thats what we need more so I never got a chance really. oh well. I think h2b prefers the rings I posted on here before anyway and its 4 times cheaper :)

I have finished my silk flower bouquet. it costs a total of £6. what do you think ?

well teh white roses came in 3 smaller bunches so I only really had to tie them together and the flower globes came as you see it so I didn't really do much but for the price I am pleased :)

bump

thank you :) I'm running out of things to do at the moment but looking forward to having less than 12 months to go so planning can step up a gear :)

had some REALLY bad news today. :((
my h2b is now my EX h2b as he has found another woman :((

thank you to all who have shown an interest in my wedding planning. I will probably be looking to sell some of my wedding items to raise some money so I can get a new baby buggy for this baby bump so if theres anything anyone sees in my photos album then please message me
cheers

So sorry hun, bigs hugs, thoughts are with you x

Oh Linz, Im so so sorry to hear this.
How awful for you
I hope you have lots of support?
Message me if you want to chat sweet x

Oh No!!!! So sorry to read that Linz :(:( Hope your ok. If u need a chat dont hesitate xx

Oh my gosh, i am so shocked and sorry to hear this, i hope you are ok, i know of course you are not ok i hate when people say that, but were all here for support or if you need to vent xx

or Linz, that is awful. hope you will be ok and if you ever need to chat you can always send me a message. hugs to you and your little girl x

thanks all.
the latest update is that he is sayi8ng he hasn't found aomeone else (althouh the puppy dog eyes and smile when she texts say otherwise). he is saying he isn't 'man enough' to be my husband or a proper dad to his kids so he want to move out and 'find himself'. a bit mid life crisis like at only 28. he says onve he has sorted himself out he wants to coome back and be a family, lol, joke hey!!

Oh I am so sorry hun I'm really shocked.

I hope you have lots of support around you. We're all here for you as well.

Xxxxxx

:( try and look at the positives sweetie. They are always there, sometimes you just have to look a little harder xxx

oh Linz I am so so sorry to hear this! He is right though, he isn't enough of a man for you! A real man would never leave you and your family, especially with a little one on the way! I hope that you have lots of support around you, if not, you have all of us on here! Sending lots of love your way xxxxx

thanks all. i am having moments finding it hard as he is still living here and acting like nothings changed. i also have to admit that i don't 100% believe him when he says there is no one else. i know i can live without him but it would be a lot easier if without him meant he actually wasn't here.

I agree with kisywisy! No way should he still be living with you and putting you through all this! All he is doing is causing you more upset and stress, which you deffinately dont need! Especially as you are pregnant! He is the one who has called everything off, not you. Make him find somewhere else to stay! xxx

Linz you gotta tell him to go.
For your own sanity sweet
He will then realise what he has lost!!
xxx

Yes show him the door xx

OMG Linz i've only just caught up with this thread!!! what an absolute ar&e i can't believe he could do that to you and i definately think you need to turf him out and get rid as you don't need the stress in your condition get rid hun and you still have you little ones and the bump and they are for life!!!

get rid and look forward to baby

we're all here for you !!!!

Oh christ Linz, sorry it's been so long since I logged on, how r u doing sweetheart?
What a complete ar$e so he wants to sort himself and his head out but you're left to tiptoe around him whilst your hearts breaking and he's texting someone else but wanting to play happy families until he gets the green light from her??? Yeah, I don't think so somehow, please tell us you've kicked him to the curb and he's no longer having his cake and eating it!
How can he break up your family but not actually leave, does he have no sense of what he is doing to you???
We're all here for you, please update us hon xxxx